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How do you deal with executive dysfunction? I live alone and I guess I've been spending all my energy with work and university, so everyday I get home absolutely exhausted and unable to do anything. I haven't showered in 2 weeks, and I've been living off of chicken nuggets the past few days and I have none left now. I'm using baby wipes to clean myself for now, but I need to wash the dishes so I can cook some actual food, but I don't have the energy to do so. (btw I'm taking adhd meds now)

I dont know sorry

Personally, everytime I'm feeling bad and don't know why, I drink water. Even when it doesn't solve the problem, it distracts from the pain and I get more hydrated. It also helps me with aknowledging that something's wrong and actually doing something about it even if it's just taking a sip of water. I think it's very important when you're disabled(especially undiagnosed) and have been taught your whole life to ignore your problems so you don't inconvenience others.

Hey! Fellow ND people!

Do you struggle to drink water/stay hydrated?

Here's something I'm trying out, it might help you too.

y'know drinking games? Generally done with alcohol

Do them with water

Pull up your favourite show and every time they say the name of a character you like, drink some water.

Open up your favourite youtuber and every time they do something that makes you laugh, drink some water.

I'm like...80% sure that's how drinking games work

even if they don't, it can still be useful to you!

Ear care — the most unspoken body care.

- ear care if one of the most neglected and overlooked body care it is as important as your face routine. Each and every, part of your body needs attention and care 🫶, and my desi babies if you really want to slay those jhumkes you really need to take care of your ear. Anyways let's get started.

1. Cleaning : Clean your outer ear gently with a washcloth. Avoid inserting anything into your ear canal, such as cotton swabs or other objects, as this can push wax deeper or even cause damage.

2. Earwax Management : Let your ears naturally clean themselves. Earwax helps protect your ears from dust, dirt, and bacteria. Do not use eard buds DO. NOT. Baby girlies please don't it can cause problems in hearing and affect your eardrum.

If you have excessive earwax buildup that causes discomfort or affects your hearing, consult a doctor for safe removal.

3. Protection: Wear ear protection in noisy environments, such as concerts, construction sites, or when using loud equipment like lawnmowers or power tools. Earplugs or earmuffs can help prevent hearing damage.

4. Avoiding Water : Keep water out of your ears while bathing, swimming, or showering. Use earplugs or a shower cap to protect your ears, especially if you've had ear surgery or have a history of ear infections.

5. Electronic devices : use airpods, earphones or headphone max 3 hours not more than that and always keep the volume at the adequate level in order not to affect your ear and brain.

6. Regular Check-ups : Visit an audiologist or healthcare professional for regular ear check-ups, especially if you experience changes in hearing, ear pain, or other ear-related issues.

7. Healthy Lifestyle : Maintain a healthy lifestyle, as conditions like high blood pressure and diabetes can impact your ear health. Stay hydrated, eat a balanced diet, and manage stress levels.

Taking these simple steps can help keep your ears healthy and functioning well. 🫶

This is my first blog btw please support 😭🎀 .

Self Care Tips

Mental

Speak kindly to yourself

Journal your feelings

Don't stress about things you cannot control

Don't take things too personally

Practice mindfulness & being present

Take time to do nothing & just BE

Physical

Drink plenty of water everyday

Get enough sleep

Never sleep in makeup

Learn your skin type (oily, dry)

Use exfoliation gloves

Moisturize your skin

Do what makes you feel luscious & pampered

Get out in nature

Move your body, take a walk, exercise to release tension in body

Sunlight is your friend

Spiritual

Practice daily gratitude

Practice daily positive affirmations (My feminine affirmations playlist)

Make time for your hobbies & indulge in this you love to do

Pick an uplifting song to listen to in the morning (mine is 'Successful' by Ariana Grande)

consciously invest in yourself: your hobbies, health, aesthetic, home, knowledge.

you’re worth it

hot girl summer reminders⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍹

GET OFF UR PHONE ;

don’t waste away ur summer scrolling on ur phone and staring at a screen 24/7. go outside and get some fresh air, don’t waste too much time digitally and live ur life. literally put the phone down 💀. put a time limit on ur phone if u need to but its good to practice discipline and self control so that ur making the most of ur summer time.

GET SOME FRESH AIR AND SUNLIGHT ;

make sure to go for walks and get fresh air. let the sunlight touch ur skin and spend some time outside if u can cuz it’s so good for you. make sure to ground urself in nature and not overstimulate yourself with dopamine. and remember, make sure to wear ur spf to protect ur skin from the sun so u can stay healthy and beautiful.

STAY HYDRATED ;

speaking of healthy and beautiful... this summer is a HOT one so if ur not drinking enough water ur gonna be so super dehydrated so please drink water. put some ice in ur water and refresh urself. you can even put fruits or mint in ur water to give it some flavor.

PROTECT UR PEACE ;

block. don’t hesitate to block anything or anyone that you feel threatens ur peace and make sure that ur protecting ur peace. taking adequate breaks from social media and time away from ur screens and just pampering urself inside and out.

SELF CARE CHEAT SHEET!!

read this before attempting any skincare advice

how to be a polished sugar baby on a budget

how to treat yourself on a low budget

what to do after a long day

how not to be hard on yourself

staying healthy while studying

need a confidence boost? stand like this

how to deal with mental illness

feel better masterpost

back to school self-care advice

hygiene/beauty masterpost | my make up masterpost | make up masterpost | simple steps for perfect make up | more make up tips | highlighting/contouring

6 ab moves 

hair oil benefits

what is your acne telling you? | another useful post about acne

headaches

masterpost for rough times

the sex ed your parents didn’t give you

head to toe self care

7 simple ways of saying no

compilation of sex tips 

limits of the human body

when to change your toothbrush, workouts etc

useful hoe tips | more +

love yourself

“how to make love”

Dear Teenagers and young adults becoming sexually active for the first time

foods that fix everything

22 less difficult ways to practise self care

self care wheel

superhero workouts | lose 500 calories at home

bad habits and how to break them

stop biting nails

stop procrastinating 

stop skipping breakfast

stretches to improve every aspect of your body

stop cracking knuckles

stop falling asleep late 

list of stress relievers

remove a splinter

smoothie masterpost

morning yoga

hair masterpost

self care masterpost

period hacks | alleviate menstrual cramps

sounds to soothe anxiety | another tip | panic attacks | calming down

things to do when you’re scared, anxious | reduce anxiety

self help for anxiety

what to eat before you run

how to get shit done

how to get ahead in life

self care infographic 

study guide for health (basic first aid, healthy hobbies etc)

a+ self care advice | more lovely advice

coping skills

get rid of negative self talk

feeling sad? | not having a good day? | if anyone is sad | feeling anxious for school? | in case you’re having a bad night | unfuck tomorrow morning

study food

health life hacks

what to do with food poisoning

self talk to end obsessions

self care ideas/tips

what to do with you’re bleeding and don’t have a band aid

why you should drink a lot of water

other cheat sheets

Life Tip #64

love the taste of lush bath bombs but don’t like the feeling of itty bitty grains in your mouth? use a knife to shave off small parts of the bath bomb every day into a glass of water like kool-aid powder! the grains will dissolve and you’ll be left with a bath bomb with multiple usages!

Thanks 🙂. A reminder to whoever needs this too~

Important Self Care Note: You Do Not Have To Do Everything To The Nines

A lot of times I don’t do the self care things that I need to do because they seem too daunting or time consuming or involved. But what I’ve learned is that I don’t need to do everything with my full effort to the best of my ability, I just need to do it. It’s much better to do a little self care than none 

You don’t have to wash your hair every time you take a shower. Or shave your legs. Or use that fancy exfoliating body wash. You can jump in and wash your face and your underarms and nether regions and hop out. You will feel so much better and be so much healthier than if you had sat in bed and not even approached the bathroom because the idea of conditioning your hair was too much

You don’t have to cook a full healthy meal. You can eat components that would go into a meal like cheese and left over rice. Or you can even eat just one thing like a slice of turkey or a piece of bread. Eating a simple thing is better than eating nothing, even if its a bag of chips

You don’t have to go to the gym and do a full workout. You can do a workout at home or go to the gym and just do one or two things. Your workout can consist of you doing ten sit ups on your living room floor

You don’t have to go for a walk. Open the blinds or even the window and let the sunlight in. A lack of sunlight can be detrimental for your mood and even health, so any little bit helps whether you are physically outside or not

You don’t have to do your hair up in a cool do or put product in it. You can just comb it and go on

If you are a person who shaves their face, you don’t have to use that fancy aftershave. You don’t even have to get every spot perfectly. You can half ass it and look more like yourself than you did, and that is pretty important to your mental health

You don’t have to brush your teeth for two minutes, floss, use mouthwash, and put in your retainer. You can do some or one of those things. Brushing your teeth for fifteen seconds will do more than for zero seconds, and using mouthwash alone will do more than doing nothing

Self care is hard sometimes and you get overwhelmed. We all do and that’s okay. The best way Ive found to get it done is to get it partially done. Doing things just “good enough” IS good enough when thats all you can do. Be kind to yourself and just do what you can. I love you

-a friend

Embracing the Inevitable: Dealing with Bad Days

Shaina Tranquilino

September 15, 2023

We all have those days when nothing seems to go our way. From waking up on the wrong side of the bed to facing a series of unfortunate events, bad days can be incredibly challenging to navigate. However, it's important to remember that bad days are an inevitable part of life. Rather than letting them consume us, let's explore how we can embrace these moments and turn them into valuable learning experiences.

1. Acceptance is key

The first step towards dealing with a bad day is accepting that not every day will be perfect. Life is full of ups and downs, and experiencing disappointment or frustration is entirely normal. By acknowledging this reality, we allow ourselves to process negative emotions more effectively and move forward without dwelling in self-pity.

2. Take a break

When everything seems to be going wrong, sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to take a step back. Pause whatever you're doing and give yourself some time to reset. Engaging in activities like deep breathing exercises, going for a walk in nature, or even taking a power nap can help clear your mind and ease tension.

3. Seek support

Remember that you don't have to face tough times alone. Reach out to friends, family members, or trusted individuals who can provide emotional support during difficult days. Sharing your feelings with someone who understands can bring comfort and perspective while reminding you that you're not alone in facing challenges.

4. Practice self-care

Self-care becomes crucial during bad days as it helps nurture your well-being and promotes resilience. Engage in activities that bring you joy or relaxation—whether it's reading a book, listening to music, practicing mindfulness techniques, or indulging in your favorite hobby—take time for yourself amidst chaos.

5. Learn from setbacks

Instead of viewing a bad day as purely negative, try shifting your perspective to see it as an opportunity for growth. Reflect on what went wrong and identify any lessons that can be learned from the experience. Adversities often provide us with valuable insights, helping us become more resilient, adaptable, and better equipped to handle future challenges.

6. Focus on gratitude

When everything seems bleak, consciously redirect your attention towards gratitude. Take a moment to appreciate the things that are going well in your life, no matter how small they may seem. Practicing gratitude helps shift our mindset from dwelling on negativity to recognizing the positives that surround us.

Bad days are an inherent part of human existence. While we cannot avoid them entirely, we can alter our approach to these challenging moments. By accepting their presence, taking breaks when needed, seeking support, practicing self-care, learning from setbacks, and focusing on gratitude, we can transform bad days into opportunities for personal growth and resilience. Ultimately, remember that bad days don't define us; it's how we choose to respond to them that truly matters.

Remember to take care if yourself.

You want to be fit and healthy when it's finally time to dance on the graves of your enemies.