How Do You Deal With Executive Dysfunction? I Live Alone And I Guess I've Been Spending All My Energy

How do you deal with executive dysfunction? I live alone and I guess I've been spending all my energy with work and university, so everyday I get home absolutely exhausted and unable to do anything. I haven't showered in 2 weeks, and I've been living off of chicken nuggets the past few days and I have none left now. I'm using baby wipes to clean myself for now, but I need to wash the dishes so I can cook some actual food, but I don't have the energy to do so. (btw I'm taking adhd meds now)

I dont know sorry

@parents who keep saying shit like “this is my room, not yours, nothing here is yours, it’s all mine” or “this is my house, I can do what I want, and you will do as I say as long as you live here” to your children:

Did you have a child just so you can force them to live in desolation? Do you take pleasure in robbing a child of any possession? Do you enjoy having a child who has absolutely nothing? Are you aware that you’re responsible for providing a room, safe place to sleep, food, clothing and protection to your child? Do you think you’re renting your house or sharing it with a family member? Do you think you’ve provided something if you say it’s still yours when someone else is using it, someone you’re supposed to provide it to?

Do you think it’s fucking funny to raise a child who thinks they have no right to own their own room, bed, things? Do you think humans procreate so we could rid our children of any possessions they could call theirs? Do you find children living in desolation acceptable? Are you so happy that you’re teaching your child they have no human rights, no rights to resources, no right to space where they can exist safely? Are you pleased that you cornered your own child into being completely reliable on your good will to live? Are you happy they wont be able to learn how to manage resources because you’re making sure they have none?

Do you think keeping a hostage in your house is satisfying? Do you think you’re teaching your child a great lesson by sending them off into a capitalistic world with knowledge they’re not worth a thing? Are you proud that they wont be able to fight for their human rights because of what you taught them? Are you proud to spread capitalistic message that personal profit of already rich individuals comes before children’s right to life in freedom? Do you think for a fucking second that you’re committing a crime by forcing a child to live like this? 

Do you realize your child needs to own, manage, and always be able to safely count on having their own stuff, in order to develop their sense of ability, sense of resources and sense of self worth? Do you honestly think your child’s ownership of anything should be taken away in regard to how you feel about it? Do you find it fun to blackmail kids? Do you think scum like you should be allowed to control a living situation of a child? Don’t you think it would be better for every child in the world if you had no say over their resources?

Personally, everytime I'm feeling bad and don't know why, I drink water. Even when it doesn't solve the problem, it distracts from the pain and I get more hydrated. It also helps me with aknowledging that something's wrong and actually doing something about it even if it's just taking a sip of water. I think it's very important when you're disabled(especially undiagnosed) and have been taught your whole life to ignore your problems so you don't inconvenience others.

Hey! Fellow ND people!

Do you struggle to drink water/stay hydrated?

Here's something I'm trying out, it might help you too.

y'know drinking games? Generally done with alcohol

Do them with water

Pull up your favourite show and every time they say the name of a character you like, drink some water.

Open up your favourite youtuber and every time they do something that makes you laugh, drink some water.

I'm like...80% sure that's how drinking games work

even if they don't, it can still be useful to you!

Nonbinary litteraly means 'everything that is outside of the two boxes' not just 'in between the boxes'.

As an nb person, I’m pretty tired of the usual standard of nonbinary “”“"aesthetic”“”“ being skinny, white, androgynous. But I’m also really sick of people acting like we’re a cross between male and female, and all of their stereotypes of us being like a masculine haircut, with glitter eyeshadow and lipstick, but a more masculine outfit and heels. We’re not people that can be broken down into fractions of masculinity and feminity.

do actors get boners while making sex scenes this is one of the things i’ve wondered my whole life

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ok not to be adhd on main but if you even JOKINGLY make fun of me for my interests thats it. i wont ever be able to trust you again because im positive youre constantly judging me and making fun of me behind my back. thats just the way it is!!