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I don't know who needs to hear this, or if it will even reach an audience at all, but you're valid. I'm talkin about the people who are constantly told they aren't valid by their own community: the lesboys, mspecs and everyone of the like. Those of us with 'contradictory' identities. The people who use neopronouns, nounself pronouns, emoji pronouns, and/or xenogenders. You're just as valid as the people who fit neatly into simpler, more 'acceptable' and 'normal' identities. And don't let anyone tell you different.
I know it's hard. I've witnessed a pan lesbian get doxxed on Twitter all because they identified as such. You see, people like us aren't what's harming the community, but some people will try to make you feel that way. Try not to let it get to you.
In celebration of my first hate reblog(/j), I'll be making another positivity post for the people who don't fit into boxes<3
Y'all are so cool for using the labels that feel right for you. You aren't harming ANYONE by being yourself, so don't force yourself into categories that don't feel right. You aren't being 'homophobic' by identifying as a bi lesbian. You're not invading lesbian spaces, you belong in them. Also, friendly reminder that mspec lesbians have existed long before a lot of us were born! :3
You're a lesbian if you feel like one. You're a lesbian if you also like men. You're a lesbian if you ARE a man. You're a lesbian if you're also aro. You're a lesbian if you're also ace. You're a lesbian if you're aroace—
Exclusionists remind me of a preschool kid who refuses to share their toys with another kid. It's on the same level of stupid, immature entitlement to tell people what labels they can and cannot use, and it gives me so much secondhand embarrassment to see whole adults throwing tantrums over bi lesbians or some shit lmfao.
Don't be afraid to use the lesbian tag. Don't be afraid to use the wlw tag. Don't let the exclusionists scare you away from tags you're allowed to use! Besides, I myself still had an exclus find my shit even though I went out of my way to avoid tags I fear are swarming with exclusionists (without taking into the account that these fucking losers most definitely browse the mspec les/gay tags with the intent of badgering some random small inclusionist blog). I'm not doing that anymore. I have just as much of a right to use the ‘lesbian’ tag as a monosexual lesbian does, and you do, too. Sometimes you just have to say ‘fuck you’ to the people who want you to not exist, as well as those who swear up and down that you don't exist, and that you're harming the community. You've got to claim your rightful spot in the community… that's the best you can do at the end of the day.
Bive from Regretevator (Roblox) is a gendervoid bi-lesboy
Bill Cipher from Gravity Falls is a mspec lesboy