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Happy in little space on my new blankie

It has been rough the last few weeks. First of all, because everything seems to be changing so rapidly over a short period of time, adjusting to all that is very difficult. Apart from that, there have been some Corona related issues in my family-in-law, which have partly been resolved, but we still can’t visit her (and that whole situation has been really stressfull for my boyfriend).

Some of the things we do to cope with all of that is letting having me my little-space moments more regularly (the picture is of last weekend) which, in return,  enables me to help him to cope with the stress.

These little space moments are still special to me (see one of my first posts on Tumblr). At first it helped me to discover my little side and it now it helps me to accept myself and that being an AB is part of who I am. It also helps me to see that diapers are a big part of that too and when I look in the mirror I like who I see).

Also, I am wearing diapers more often now as we discovered that it has a very soothing effect and strengthens our relationship. 

I ordered a big soft blankie to play on and cover myself in. I am very happy with it!!

Little Moment

Been having this feeling, craving for a caretaker type person to just come up to me when I'm gaming out in my room, have me save then turn off my game, put me in a diaper then my onesie, put in my favorite kids movie (nightmare before Christmas, lion king, little Nemo adventures in Slumberland) and have me snuggle up next to them or lay my head in their lap while snuggling my stuffed animal and covered up with my blankie. 🦁

I just realized a "LITTLE" quality about myself after reading the post i just reblogged (the post below this one. Scroll down) The people i am super comfortable with.. i poke.. CONSTANTLY and EVERYWHERE. Nose✅, arms✅, legs, face, tummy, ✅✅✅. Literally everywhere. - giggles- 😋

And like everyday, there is no escape 🦁

I am pansexual. I’ve known this for years. I had a boyfriend who was a strict Christian, so we had to break up this summer. Every year for Valentine’s Day, he got me a giant stuffie. So, this year, I’m going to get myself one. I ain’t doing none of your lonely-ass shit this year. I’m gonna be my own Valentine. 

About Me!~   LittleSpace Edition 🍄🌿

Name: Quinn / Quinny

Big Age: 17

Little Age: 3-5

Nicknames I love:  Mushroom/Teddybear/Little one/Little Bee

Gender: Non-Binary

Pronouns: They/Them

Sexuality: Pansexual. 

My name’s Quinny! I’m non-binary and I go by they/them. I’m an age-regressor for trauma coping reasons and I love being little (in the right environment). My favourite colours consist of pastels and soft sweet colours; I particularly love blues, yellows and whites but also like pinks and purples. 

I love the aesthetic of lolita fashion but due to my dysphoria, I can’t see myself wearing some until I get top surgery.

If you read this, then you can message me by sending me the emojis at the top of this post so I know I can trust you!~ <3

I love stuffies, soft blankets, colouring in, stickers! (especially the scratch ‘n’ sniff type!) and I love playing minecraft as well. 

!!  DNI  !!

Please do not interact if you are/believe in any of the following <3

Are racist/xenophobic/transphobic/homophobic

Use Age Regression for kink purposes

Find any sexual attractions to minors or age regressors.

Overtly compulsive or controlling

Please do not say b4byg!rl to me, that is my trigger word.

Please do not talk about any controversial topics; instead, tell me a trigger warning before you say it and I’ll decide if I’m in the right headspace to hear it.

My age-regression is for trauma coping and I try my best to keep it SFW and safe for myself and any other littles.

Thanks for reading and nice to meet chu!

- Quinny

Life Blog Update #1

Henlo! I’ve decided to begin blogging my life here and there; big updates or little? Ah! Anyway, along with being an age regressor, I also really love cottagecore and as a segway....

I now have 16 Ducklings!

um, yeah anyway, one of them has something wrong with it; either one leg longer than the other or some sort of mental disability...BUT it makes them run in circles! We’ve called them Spinner! and you can see in some of these videos, Spinner running OR swimming in circles. Anyway, Update you all sooon 💫🧸🍼🍪

Life Blog Update #2

Hello!~ It’s currently the 12th of December on a super hot Saturday. It’s about 31 degrees Celsius today, so I went for a dip in the pool but mostly today I’ve been taking care of all my animals. 

I recently got a new job at a cute drive thru cafe, since my grocery store job was messing up my availabilities so I’m resigning cause it causes me a lot of stress. Anyway, I hope everything works out in the end, my anxiety has been at 120% because of it all...

Sadly one of my ducklings passed away whilst I was out at work...I have no clue why it happened, like it was just pure chance cause it was only one of the 16 of them so, I’ll be looking closer at what they do just to be careful....

Uhhh what else? Um, I guess I’ve been struggling a lot, but I’m really trying to push myself forward and trying to do self-care....it’s intense but yknow...

( Source : https://imgur.com/r/CozyPlaces/uO7juIh  )

I wore a very cute goth dress the other day while riding my bike!!~ Being non-binary and very dysphoric, I didnt wear dresses for ages mainly because of things my ex said, but I picked up the courage to wear it the other day!~ And I’m happy I did.

So that’s all for now, I’ll do another update maybe in a week to see if anything really happens!

- Quinny

My cottage-core Minecraft world so far <3

Helllooooo~ おはよう！！

You can call me Tanuki-kun! Big age is 36....little age is unknown, but I'm not a baby!! I'm a big kid :D I'm really short.... I like pompompurin, katamari, genshin, yokai, kny, chocolateeeee, udonnnnn. I'm alternative~ I would say dark mixed with creepy kawaii? I'm ace/trans/queer! I'm down to make friends, and open to a caregiver!

I'm kinda having a mini spiral, I need a motherly figure right now. 😭😭

I'm really bored and just having a bad night does anybody want to call?

Hii I'm Maeve! I'm 19, trans mtf, and in college. I'm currently looking for a platonic cg! I haven't had one in a long time, and I really want a caregiver. So if you're looking, let me know! I prefer women but not opposed to having a male cg!

(Safe for work age regression only, this sint a kink thing for me!)

This is Doggie, one of my babies

Doggie came into my life far before I can remember, sometime when I was an infant. Ever since I've known, they've protected me and made me feel safe. briefly doggie and I were separated from between when I was around 6 to when I was around 16. Yes, I feel horrible about it, and I'm always sure never to put them in any kind of bag without being absolutely sure they are ok with it just in case. This separation gap is the norm for my babies sadly, but hopefully now that society sees me as an adult I can avoid large separations like that in the future.

Doggie is the bravest of my original babies, thus it was between them and Flopsy for the first intro. Doggie loves it when you hug, squish, toss lightly, kiss, or lay on them. Honestly doggie just seems to like any and all gentle attention they can get, which makes it very easy lol. Most times, doggie likes to sleep on my face over my eyes, which helps me not freak out over moving lights or items over the night, ever since I was young doggie helped me with sleeping well and happily, as well as made me happy during the day.

Generally, doggie has protected me and made me happy since I was forming memories. I would do anything for them, which probably isn't considered healthy, but is true. I have lots of stories to tell about them and stuffs so if you wanna hear them just tell me.

I find it funny how my brothers shirts and sleeves are always chewed up and gross cuz he never stops chewing on them. But everyone seems to think I just don't do that, when I reality I do, just on my paci or thumb rather than my shirts lol.

Somehow embracing being a baby has made me seem more adult in some ways over the years.

Im mad and sad! im sadmad! as a sfw little it hurts when i see a bunch of people thinking being little or regression is a kink! im not speaking for everyone, but i know that being little to me isnt a kink! I wanna scream every time someone gets mad at me when im little and dont want to get sexual! Not every little is NSFW! most of us are not!

-sorry love you💕

Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are, in my opinion, one of the absolute hardest to make work. And make work for the long haul. There are so many things that could go wrong but when those things don’t it only makes you and your partner closer and stronger than anyone else. Let’s go over the pros and cons of general ldr first.

*pros

- you have literally an entire planet of people to pick from so you’re bound to find your soulmate somewhere

- You have a reason to save money and do better for yourself and go see somewhere new with someone you love

- Making it work will only make the both of you stronger together

- You can discover a new culture/society/ place and learn about life for your partner wherever they live

- You can teach someone new traditions and customs

- You don’t have to pay outrageous shipping fees to send them something if you get it online.

- These are only the ones I could think of. Feel free to add your own if they aren’t here!

*cons

- little to no physical contact

- Time zone differences

- You need to trust your partner 100%

- Late nights and early mornings because of time differences

- Loneliness from lack of physical contact

- Idiots butting into your personal life because they feel they know best

- The closest you can get for now is Skype calls and FaceTime

- Not being able to scare those who hurt your significant other.

You can compare those two lists and make your own assessment on which matters more. I personally prefer long distance in the beginning but once I’ve found that special person I want to spend my life with I want them as close as possible.

Now onto ldr for cg/l and d/s relationships. These include all of the pros and cons from the first two lists with a couple extra cons due to the nature of these relationships.

- ABSOLUTE TRUST. cg/l and d/s relationships already require much more trust than a vanilla or normal relationship so to do them long distance you need even more.

- Punishments are a bit of a Grey area. You have to trust that your little or submissive will follow through with them especially for the ones you really have no way of checking.

- COMMUNICATION. I don’t think I could ever say this enough but communication is so. Fluffin. Important! Long distance makes communication hard as it is so with cg/l and d/s relationships again needing even more of it than normal it becomes a huge issue a lot of times. You need to communicate any and all problems or concerns to your partner when you are long distance especially because they are not there. They can not read your body language or nervous ticks and habits from miles and miles and miles away.

Okay now onto the part where I do my best to help.

_ Skype (play)dates and scenes can be very helpful with being more connected with your partner. Get creative with those camera angles people because you’ll need it.

As far as punishments go there are a few that can be done and you can know they got done correctly.

- writing lines

- Skyping while the sub or little sits in corner time

- Dictionary definitions

- Silent treatment

- I know most of these seem childish but they are effective. If you have any more feel free to add them!

And lastly but certainly not least COMMUNICATION

-weekly talk it out sessions where once a week you both sit down and have a serious talk about your lives, thoughts, concerns, relationship, the whole shabang.

-being clear and open about what’s on your mind

-lay it all out. Don’t hide anything. It will come back to haunt you later.

That is all I have for today if you have any questions, comments, concerns, feel free to contact me. Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Self Care

Self care is so important for caregivers/doms and Littles/subs alike. It is important for doms because subs depend on you to take care of them and you can not do that without taking care of yourself first. Think of it like this, an empty battery can not power something else. You need to feel good to make sure they feel good. Subs need to care for themselves because you can not always count on a dom to be able to completely care for you especially if you don’t have one.

Dom selfcare.

- let yourself relax. Take a day to just give yourself a re charge

- Take a warm bath

- Jam out to music

- Make yourself a nice meal

- Order take out and laze around in sweats with Netflix or Hulu

- Take a mid day nap

- Binge your favorite show

- Talk to someone and just let out your frustration

Sub selfcare

- Drown in your headspace and let your problems float away.

- Cuddle with your stuffies

- Make a pillow fort

- Take a bubble bath

- Stay in your jammies all day

- Eat an okay amount of sweets and junk food(something not detrimental to your health)

- Color to your hearts content

- Dance around the house to music

Everyone needs to take the occasional personal day to work on themselves and recharge. No matter what helps you do that, it’s worth it if it helps to better yourself. You can not help others if you can’t help yourself.

I know this is shorter than usual but it’s something that I felt needed to be said. Until next time Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Self Acceptance

Acceptance is different for many people. Sometimes it’s easy to accept yourself and your habits, wants, or needs. For others, it may not be so easy. I have never really thought of it before because I am one of those people where it comes very easily to me. However a few days ago someone needing my help came to me about a little space need not sitting well with them outside of their headspace even though they needed it to be happy and that’s what I’m explaining today.

*happiness

Happiness is something that most everyone desires, needs even to make it through their day to day life. However, if we stop our selves from being happy because what makes us happy is a little off putting then we are only making it worse for ourselves. As long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with wanting to be happy. It’s like having a favorite food combo that everyone finds weird or even you find weird and not enjoying it even though you know it tastes amazing. Happiness is not a crime.

*acceptance

Liking something out of the ordinary is not uncommon. Everyone has their own preferences, likes, dislikes, etc. again, as long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with it. If you like that pacifier at Walmart, you buy that pacifier! You like the tea set at toys r us? I’ll write the tea party invitations for you! Diapers put you in your headspace? Diaper up and giggle away! My point is that even if you think your likes, hobbies, headspace activities, or anything else you like to do is out of the ordinary, just remember that if it makes you happy, relaxes you, de stresses you, or puts you in your headspace then there’s nothing wrong with it. Not even in the slightest.

That’s all for today. I hope this is a help to anyone who needs it. If you want help with anything specific or need to talk to someone my asks and inbox are always open day or night. Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

What caregivers really do after bedtime haha.