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:33 < aro and ace couple that gget 2 cars one that says "ace" on the license plate and 1 that says "aro" at the license plate

mf called me out with all three 💀💀

Sending love to the neurodivergent people who are forced to socialise at Christmas, even when overstimulated. To the enbies who aren't out of the closet yet and have to endure getting misgendered and referred to as their dead name. To the closeted aro/aces who have to endure the "so do you have a partner yet?" questions. Your struggles are all completely valid, and I'm sorry for anyone who has this problem every year. While you may not have a good relationship with your relatives, I hope your Christmas is at least enjoyable. Have a merry Christmas my loves ^^

pride month y’all

So, as some of you may know, I’m demiromantic aceflux hetero! Most of my friends are some cross between pan, bi, nonbinary, and aroace, so I have the whole set.

Happy Pride! In another post, I will be addressing my thoughts on the trans agenda, so stay tuned!!

This Is Just A Reminder That Nebularomantic and Nebulasexual People Exist: We Are Very Confused/Confusing Individuals.

some arospec thoughts ive been thinking to say fuck you to allonormativity on vday

the guy on all the caution signs is aroace because i said so

somethin' stupid by frank sinatra is such an aromatic song please see my vision

saiki is totally aroace but i also REALLY like terusai and is that so wrong 😿

having the aromatic, asexual, and aroace tags trending on vday is the funniest thing

happy valentines pooksies <33

master-list of arospec labels and microlabels

I like collecting knowledge of a lot of queer labels,arospec ones being no exception,so I'm doing a big post with all the ones I know, for fun and because it could be helpful for questioning folks out there!

all under the cut!

Aromantic: someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction, experiences it very rarely/vaguely, or otherwise has a significantly different/complicated experience with romantic attraction than most (alloromantic) people. It is a spectrum and anyone on it can simply call themselves aro if they want.

Greyromantic: someone who experiences (or has experienced) romantic attraction, but vaguely and/or rarely.

Demiromantic: someone who experiences romantic attraction only in the specific circumstance that they're really close with that person (or people), they do not experience "love at first sight."

Frayromantic: the opposite of demiromantic, someone who only experiences romantic attraction towards someone they're not close with, and if they ever get to know that person (or people) better,the attraction eventually fades.

Lithromantic: someone who can experience romantic attraction,but if that attraction is ever reciprocated, then the feeling abruptly (or slowly) stops.

Aroflux: someone whose romantic attraction can fluctuate, and is never really static, meaning their (romantic) feelings for someone may change every now and then, fading and intensifying over time.

Cupioromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic relationship, but wants or has a romantic relationship.

Aegoromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction,but likes things that are "romantic" (movies,books,aesthetics,etc)

Non-sam aro: An aromantic person who doesn't use the split attraction model, they are "just aro"

AlloAro: an aromantic person who experiences sexual attraction.

Aroace/Arose: an aromantic person who is also asexual/in the ace spectrum.

Apothiromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction and is repulsed by romantic things and/or acts.

Quoiromantic: someone who doesn't understand what romantic attraction is,doesn't think the term "romantic attraction" is applicable to their experiences at all,or someone who doesn't think defining whether or not they experience romantic attraction is useful or important for them.

Bellusromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction but enjoys things that are typically seen as romantic acts (kissing,cuddling,etc)

Arospike: someone who usually doesn't experience romantic attraction, but occasionally experiences a sudden rise of attraction, before it eventually fades again.

Nebularomantic: someone who is aromantic because of their neurodivergency or their neurodivergency plays a big role in how they experience their aromanticism.

Reciproromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction unless the person falls in love with them first.

Alicoromantic: someone who knows they're on the aromantic spectrum but doesn't think any other label fits their experience.

Orchidromantic: the opposite of cupioromantic, someone who experiences romantic attraction but doesn't want a romantic relationship.

Myrromantic: someone who identifies with multiple aromantic spectrum labels at the same time.

Uniromantic: someone who only experiences romantic attraction to one (1) person for a long period of time, and this attraction is never felt for anyone else.

Platoniromantic: someone who can't distinguish between romantic and platonic attraction, therefore can't really say if what they're feeling for someone is romantic or platonic.

Caedromantic: someone who is aromantic because of their trauma.

Idemromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic and platonic attraction differently, but can distinguish between their "platonic" and "romantic" relationships based on external factors.

Romo aro: an aromantic person whose attraction,experiences,or feeling may be considered romantic in some sort of way.

Loveless aro: an aromantic person who doesn't label any of their feelings as "love", sometimes because the word "love" is usually used to indicate romance and they want to avoid that, because the word doesn't have any meaning to them,as an act of rebellion against amatonormativity,etc.

Lovequeer aro: an aromantic person who chooses to center other types of love who are often seen as "less" than romantic love and/or their unique personal experience with these other types of love.

being on the aro spectrum would be a lot easier if being single wasn't made to feel like a literal death sentence

REBLOG IF YOUR BLOG IS A SAFE SPACE FOR AROMANTIC PEOPLE AND IF YOU THINK THEY ARE VALID

I want to see how many people actually are willing to say this and not just act like it

Fuck yeah

i think aromantics should get $50

Just some ships that I headcanon as Queerplatonic

Steven x Connie (Steven Universe)

Peridot x Lapis (Steven Universe)

Ivy x Sprig x Maddie (Amphibia)

Polly x Pearl (Amphibia)

Frisk x Chara (Undertale)

Kris x Berdly (Deltarune)

Angel Dust x Alastor (Hazbin Hotel)

Zill x Kayla x Jack x Jill x Spam x Vanexa (Zoophobia)

Judy Hopps x Nick Wilde (Zootopia)

Yona x Sandbar (My little Pony)

Viney x Emira x Katya (The Owl House)

Sonic x Shadow x Silver (Sonic)

Din x Lina (Wish Dragon)

Gwen Stacy x Miles Morales (Spider-Man Into The Spider Verse)

K.O. x Dendy (Ok K.O! Let’s Be Heros!)

Lukas x Jesse x Petra (Minecraft Story Mode)

Zim x Dib (Invader Zim)

Tak x Gaz (Invader Zim)

Jessie x James (Pokémon)

Queerplatonic flags colorpicked from Spamton

I think about this every hour of every day of every month by the way

i want a best friend. someone who's also aroace, and we could live together in a two bedroom apartment and adopt a cat. and life would be easier because i'd have someone to split the bills and the chores with.

we could do stuff together like go to the movies or try new restaurants, but i wouldnt feel overwhelmed because they'd also let me have my personal space.

is it really too much to ask?

Submitted February 18, 2023

im just gonna say this, the main Fraggle Rock group is EXACTLY what i picture when i hear “Queer platonic polyamory”

Signed

You know what I think is like super aphobic? The fact that I don't have the ability to teleport at will. Like. Tf??? Hello??? Gimme that now???

I'm intrigued, have been noticing a lot of aromantic (or aro spectrum) people into malevolent so now I wanna know just how many actually are aro (or on the spectrum)

Please reblog for a bigger sample size :]

I experience it like this, I get really excited at the thought of them, seeing them, talking to them, all of it. I get excited at the thought of them holding my hand, brushing shoulders as we walk together. I think about the dates I'd want to go on with them and it makes me all bubbly and excited inside. To me romantic attraction doesn't feel like butterflies, butterflies are more nervous for me. Romantic feelings feel like bubbles to me, like all this excitement is trapped inside me and I can feel it rise up inside and I want to physically like wiggle around to get it out lol. When I talk to my partner and we're being all cute, I quite literally physically cannot contain my excitement about how they make me feel. I hope this is at all helpful to you, I know what it's like to be confused about stuff like this. I wish you all the best in figuring out how you feel and your identity!!

I WISH ROMANTIC FEELINGS HAD A REAL FUCKING DEFINITION!!!!!

"Butterflies in your tummy" I get that every time I talk to anyone because I'm an anxious wreck

"Ohh you get all blushy" I blush whenever I remember literally any compliment from anyone. I blush when someone says I blink robotically. I blush when I remember that time my driving instructor said I went through a stop sign correctly.

"You get nervous when thinking about them" I'm always nervous.

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!

i wish there were more fan fictions of qprs cause there are like 20 of my favourite fandom, and that’s without taking out the ones that aren’t finished ;-;

Queerplatonic Relationships: An Introduction

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