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My how times have changed…
So here’s a lil story time, the guy in the pic, that guy was MY LOVE…
When I tell you, that when I thought about having a family of my own, I could picture it fully with him being the father of my children and him as my husband…
I would have literally went to the end of the world with this one here.
I not only loved him, I was in love with him… like real real bad
When I got that notification of what was sent in that pic 2 years ago, yall my heart did a flip flop, I was all geeked and happy… I didn’t think that feeling would ever go away…
Today when that picture popped up on my Timehop, I looked at it and said “hmmmm”

Lol.
It’s just not the same anymore.
Don’t get me wrong and definitely don’t start me lying, I still love him, but it’s just different now. I don’t get the same feeling that I once did. My heart doesn’t do that flip flop that it used to do.
It was amazing while it lasted, but whatevz!
✌🏾🫶🏾

Journaling is a big help to me. I’ve had quite a bit on my mind lately and it has been playing with my mental state, so what better way than to decompress with jotting the thoughts down and clearing up some space in my brain. This is my therapy.!

Sitting outside reading enjoying the breeze

Sunday afternoon reset with a book ☺️

Mama, there goes that man again


This is for anyone that has a thought of giving up… Don’t you do it… You’ve got this… God hasn’t brought you this far to leave you now!!!
Now get on up, and go have a Fantastic Friday ❤️

Today at work. I did basically NOTHING and got paid for it… and I am totally ok with that!! Today was easy money. I sat, I read my book, I talked to coworkers, got free lunch and even took a small break! lol.! Today was a good day!
POV: Me and my family watching the Olympics waiting to cheer for everybody Black.


IG: nbcolympics




If nobody is going to give Chris Brown his flowers I will. Thank you and congratulations on being 20 years in and hitting the charts every single year! Nobody can take away your accomplishments💞💞










Dear Black Men,
I love you real bad.🫶🏾😘
Love,
Your Queen 👸🏾✨

Omg Omg 🥹 My eyes are sweating real bad yall. This season finale was everything ‼️Dont yall agree? I loved the memories they kept showing of Spencer and Olivia from their past.❤️ I loved Jordan speech💙. I loved how the had people speak of Spencer and the impact he's had on others.💜Their vows and all.🩷Everything was so perfect.🥰🥰 I am content with this ending 🥹What about yall? Spencer will no longer be a regular. He will only appear as a guest. 😩I don't see how this show is going to survive but who knows the writers may have something up their sleeves.


All American.!
Sorry if you haven’t watched the latest episode of All American, but if not, here ya go…
Spencer and Olivia said I DO!!!!
Yall I’m so excited.! You would think that I was apart of their friend group lol
To the left is Spencer and Olivia.
To the right is the real Spencer and Blair
i don't want sex. i want love. i want to be understood. i want to never feel alone. i want to come home to someone i miss all day when i'm at work. i want someone who motivates me. i want someone who trusts me. i want someone who loves me for me, not what i do. i want real love.

Yall I’m not the one to gate keep so let me put yall on to something if you’re not already hip to it. This right here, this all nighter long wear setting powder is the truth!!!!
Where I live, it is currently hotter than the devils toenails and I’m literally sweating in places that I didn’t know could even sweat 😂😂
But my makeup is still “flawless” none of it has dripped off, smeared off, or sweat off.!
Get you some if you haven’t already. You can thank me later.!

The life I’m trying to live 🤞🏾✨😍

Employed people, we getting paid 3 times next month ☺️

The WNBA announced Tuesday that Las Vegas Aces forward A’ja Wilson and Chicago Sky forward Angel Reese are the WNBA’s players of the week