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someone: repeating things that reinforce a negative self view and world outlook such as the oh so popular tumblr niche of nihilistic ‘i want to die and everything is awful’ “jokes” me, in recovery, trying not to get dragged into that with them:

Open relationships seem to be becoming more popular which is cool, but this should be kept in mind:

If your partner is allowed to flirt and mess around with other people, and you’re not, you’re not in an open relationship. You’re being strung along, manipulated, and emotionally abused by someone who wants to do what they want on their terms, and control you at the same time.

Get out.

Never let anyone’s opinion of you affect how you feel about yourself

hey if ur reading this and ur in a bad spot mentally or anything i hope u feel better soon and have a good day

There are people who know you.

There are people who like you.

There are people who understand you.

There are people who care about you.

There are people who believe in you.

PSA: YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN AN WILL GET THROUGH THIS

It’s extremely important to realize that you were beautiful before someone noticed and you’ll remain beautiful in their absence.

Your beauty is not subjected to who values you for it.

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Daily reminder…

That you are a strong, amazing person, and I think you are beautiful. Stay kind to yourself.

Cae'r-gors and Cerig-y-nyth

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Am I just being nice or am I flirting with you?? Bold of you to assume I know the difference

Dissociation

I tend to disassociate when I'm not feeling useful. My love language is a balance between physical touch and words of affirmation. Since I hardly let anyone get close enough for physical touch, I seek opportunities to help others with their concerns and anxiety in return for a simple thank you or even more precious their trust. To be someone that others feel they can confide in is something that a person like myself desires in order to feel self worth. So if you know anyone like myself that seems to disappear for months at a time, just leave them little messages during their absence or an anonymous question if it isn't much of an inconvenience. You may be surprised by how more often they appear online when they know someone takes a moment to appreciate them even when they are trying not to be noticed.

things that actually do improve your mental health that of course won’t cure you and solve all your problems, but will significantly improve your quality of life:

• drinking enough water

• eating healthier

• getting enough exercise (even just doing a bit of yoga/stretching everyday or going for a walk)

• adopting a more positive mindset (not pretending everything’s fine, just not being overly negative and trying to see the brighter side of things and have hope for the future)

• taking a shower everyday and washing your hair enough, taking care of your skin, doing nice things for yourself every now and then (it doesn’t have to be costly, it could just be something small), and other forms of self care

• meditation (its actually proven to improve your mental health significantly and really helps with things like stress and anxiety)

• being more mindful about the media you consume and how its affecting you (e.g “hey i feel more anxious when im on social media because of this reason, I should decrease how much time i spend doing that”)

• practicing self love (although it’s hard, it’s absolutely necessary)

• writing in a diary, it can be a physical diary or just on your phone (really important for people who can’t get therapists or don’t have anyone to talk to)

please stop downplaying the positive impact that small practices like these can have on someone’s life just because they won’t fix everything. small improvements are still improvements. neglecting yourself and your health is terrible for your mind and any steps towards taking better care of yourself are really important

Daily Reminders

You’re enough. You’re okay. You are loved. You are beautiful. Everything will be okay. Always love yourself.

🌹 a flower for everyone not feeling their best today

you know when someone you don’t know very well compliments your personality, and your first instinct is to brush it off and tell yourself “but they don’t really know me”? let go of that thinking. when someone you don’t know compliments you it’s because that part of you stands out to them !! whether its your kindness, your sense of humour, your intelligence, don’t brush off these compliments — they aren’t less true!

Text me.

Talk to me.

Validate me. Make me feel important.

Make me feel loved. Needed. Wanted. I NEed to FEel imPOrTant. I need it. I’m begging you.

Please.

be the kind of person that makes people feel warm and safe

trust that everything will fall into the right place eventually

I wanna be hot enough to make people question their sexual orientation