The Best ATM Withdrawal Defense

The Best ATM Withdrawal Defense

Text me.

Talk to me.

Validate me. Make me feel important.

Make me feel loved. Needed. Wanted. I NEed to FEel imPOrTant. I need it. I’m begging you.

Please.

Never let anyone’s opinion of you affect how you feel about yourself

Dissociation

I tend to disassociate when I'm not feeling useful. My love language is a balance between physical touch and words of affirmation. Since I hardly let anyone get close enough for physical touch, I seek opportunities to help others with their concerns and anxiety in return for a simple thank you or even more precious their trust. To be someone that others feel they can confide in is something that a person like myself desires in order to feel self worth. So if you know anyone like myself that seems to disappear for months at a time, just leave them little messages during their absence or an anonymous question if it isn't much of an inconvenience. You may be surprised by how more often they appear online when they know someone takes a moment to appreciate them even when they are trying not to be noticed.

trust that everything will fall into the right place eventually