Loublu08 - Some Regrets - Tumblr Blog
“How a person reacts to your sadness says a lot about how long they’re going to be in your life.”
— S. Z.
“You deserve a relationship that enables you to sleep peacefully at night.”
Scraggly peaks of Rockford... Can confirm.
the beautiys of illinois
majestic waterfalls of the north fork of the chicago river
the perilous scraggly peaks of rockford
city state of chicago, viewed from the placid waters of lake michigan
illinois beach state park sand dunes
the joyously colorful rolling hills of terre haute
shawnee national forest
lower wacker drive
the state’s great capital, springfield
the rambling eastern border along the mississippi river
paul bunyan statue
surrender to change or suffer in a loop.
Aurora Borealis, Northern Illinois, USA
I loved visiting Himeji
The blooms at Himeji castle.
Hyogo, Japan.
I hate how acknowledging unfairness in the world is seen as "childish". Maybe children are right. I don't think you should be proud of the fact that you've become complacent with the state of your miserable existence and took on this loser "it is what it is" mentality. Things can be better.
me after sleeping ljke shit for the 10,497th day in a row: this is good actually because now i'll be really tired when i go to bed tonight
I won't go to certain stores because they can be busy. If I absolutely have to go I'll choose a specific store at a specific time of day that I think is the least busiest; even if I could go to a different store for better prices.
Same with all public places. I don't go to movie theaters. I don't go to gyms or pools. I won't even drive at certain times of day because I don't like people to see me drive.
I would take my daughter to isolated playgrounds even if that meant she had no kids to play with.
I can be social; just on my own terms and usually with a substance involved.
I just want to be free.
I think that 2023 is a good time for many of us, and allies in particular, to practice again the dying art of minding our own fucking business when it comes to the identities and lives of other people.
You see someone from one of your classes in a public place with a different gender presentation/expression than they typically have? Mind your own business.
You discover that one of your coworkers is in a same gender relationship, but they aren't out at work? Not your place to share that information in the workplace.
You notice that your neighbor in a red state takes a road trip across state lines with their transgender child every 3-6 months? No you fucking didn't.
You overhear students in your classroom using a different name and different pronouns for one student than you are used to using? If you live in a state hostile to trans rights, pretend that you don't know anything about this and report nothing.
You suspect that an acquaintance of yours might be gay, but they deny it when asked directly? Leave them the fuck alone.
One of your friends refuses to publicly label their sexuality? Good for them, you aren't entitled to that information anyway.
Your sibling comes out to you as questioning, but isn't comfortable sharing that with your parents yet? Keep your fucking mouth shut.
Don't out people; coming out is a personal choice not a moral obligation. Don't demand personal information about other people's sexuality or sex lives. You aren't entitled to information about anyone's gender identity, assigned gender at birth, or transition.
Bring back privacy, allow people to have control over the information that is shared about them publicly; it might save their job, their housing, their parental rights and their child's safety, or even save lives.
Put your right hand on the bible and left hand in the air if at some point you were able to separate Lip from Carmy
wanting time to pass because life is hard to deal with at the time vs the never ending anxiety over the passage of time
ninja wisdom from super dragon ninja ryu hayabusa
Disgust has absolutely no ethical weight. If you are basing your ethical positions on the emotion of disgust you should stop, it is entirely unjustified and leads to a huge amount of harm.