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Honestly it baffles me that anyone can sincerely write out a step by step guide on how to give someone with severe mental illness a purposefully triggered breakdown and still think that they’re the ones in the right.
“Ah yes let me go through a list of their symptoms and cultivate situations in which I can trigger their worst nightmares but don’t worry it’s fine because I’m an empath”
What the actual fuck. If you replaced narcissist with “depressed person” or “person with anxiety” people would be screaming at you. Being abused does not justify you abusing others.
Hurting a Narcissist (from Quora)
There are 3 main things that will hurt the narcissist:
1. Being abandoned.
A major fear of the narcissist is abandonment. They hate being alone as they rely on others to validate them and provide them with attention, affection, admiration, and just general engagement.
Narcissists need people, but the increasing dilemma is that it is becoming near impossible for narcissists to be abandoned completely, as many have turned to online chats, social media, and they’ve created a virtual reality for themselves that feeds them with an unlimited supply.
So even though they lack physical interaction, which for most of us would be difficult, the narcissists on the other hand can happily settle for the narcissistic supply that they receive online. It provides them with enough fuel to feed their deluded fantasies and sick obsessions.
2. Being exposed
The second thing that hurts the narcissist real bad is being exposed. We all know how important the fake image is to them, and the many lies that they’ve told to maintain it.
Basically, the narcissist’s whole goal in life is to deceive people with their fake image. So if they are exposed for the liars, manipulators, and downright imposters that they are, that is their world shattered before their eyes, and it cuts them deeper than any words can express.
3. Being insulted
The third and final thing that will hurt the narcissist is being insulted. Narcissists know the power of words. After all, they use words to manipulate, deceive, and hurt people. The tricky thing is that to a narcissist, a critique is an insult, telling them the truth is an insult. So this is something that happens a lot, but anything that more or less attacks their false image will be seen as an insult.
its not that i think im more deserving of, or better than the average person. its just i want that and when i want something you need to give it to me and when it isnt given to me i get mad because i want it
Woe I made a hyper specific NPD bingo
Egotypicals can interact just dont be weird
Does anybodys npd make them egotistical but only internal? I dont really show my npd its more of “YES IM THE BEST EVERYONE ELSE SUCKS” but then i actually interact with people and all they see is a anxious idiot in a sweater and shorts listening to shitty vocaloid music
something that has helped me disconnect from codependancy is realizing that married couples arent always together. they live together and spent time together but a lot of the time they just arent together but they still love eachother. they dont need to sleep in the same bed they dont need to constantly show eachother affection they can just coexist and still love eachother unconditionally. love isnt sacrificing every moment for someone, its having your life made better by their existence while you live
I wish I could find more resources for npd that didn't make me feel like complete shit for my disorder like I already know I'm an asshole please let me learn how not to be!!!
wow as i'm tagging this one of the suggested tags in npd is anti npd I love being seen as a monster for existing /sarcasm
How to stop depending on a person who has wanted nothing to do with you for 8 months no glue no borax