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Sister zeenat i started hijab few month backs but sometime waht happen is guest or czn come home and i feel odd to wear naqab b4 them as our fam is not prctcng, can you plz advise smothng?
Barakallah feeki 🫶
The thing with starting to do Pardah is for a few initial years, you WILL feel awkward. Amongst family, relatives, acquaintances...there is going to be this thought in your mind that "oh, what would they think?" or "do I look abnormal"
Many would call you "over" for being covered when most of them choose not to (especially in family gatherings) Many will ask you to remove it giving excuses...but always. ALWAYS remember why you started off doing it. For pleasing Allah subhanahuwata'ala. And pleasing Allah subhanahuwata'ala may or may not please the creation, shaytan will try make you feel "odd one out" but it's better to be odd one out actually. So, don't give in to such intrusive thoughts. You're doing a great job. Alhamdulillah.
Secondly, a practical tip I can give you is, have a homie jilbab. Which is always somewhere nearby you, something you can grab on quickly...so whenever someone comes, you can wear it as one would wear dupatta. In the beginning people will look sceptical about your attire but eventually it gets better...once they realise it's who you are. In Sha Allah.
If you can read Urdu, read the book Jannat Kay Pattay by Nemrah Ahmed. That book will give you a thrilling clarity on Hijab. In Sha Allah.
As-salamu'alaikum sis, i have started to like a person because of his deen; he is very pious and posts about islam only. But i am very scred to talk to him and how can i get away from this liking as it is consuming me day and night 🥺
Walaikum assalam warahmatullah wabarkatuhu.
You don't need to talk to him, unfollow that account. And if you find yourself visiting it often, delete your own accounts.
Not everyone you find pious on social media is as such in real life. It's a dangerous trap and it'll be foolishness to believe that everyone who posts about Islam only actually lives by everything they post online. I have seen plenty of "Dawah page" holders in real life missing their obligatory salat and fasts in Ramadan... spending nights playing videogames with their buddies and preferring their time to spend in editing reels n posts instead of actually learning the Deen. Unqualified people have made a trend to start Dawah pages. SubhanAllah. Allahu Musta'an. So don't take it too seriously. It's pretty natural to develop such feelings but don't dwell on it. Lower your gaze from that person...yani... don't see their posts n all at all. Alhamdulillah...when it's out if your sight, it'll be out of your mind with conscious efforts. Seek knowledge through actual, qualified scholars. Dm me... I'll share some useful links of channels where you can learn directly from Madina University teachers, and also Umm ul Qura University teachers. May Allah bless them immensely. Spend more n more time with Quran. If you can read Urdu, read 'Main Anmol' by Nemrah Ahmed. And also, keep making Dua to Allah to save you from everything that's not khayr for you. Allah will help you get rid of feelings harmful for your heart. In Sha Allah. Make a lots of Dua, Istighfar. And look around you...look at the condition of the Ummah, look at the tests of your brothers n sisters n children. And then compare your problem to their calamity. You'll find you're worrying for nothing. Don't give in to such wasawees of shaytan when he makes you think you're in love. This liking will lead nowhere except heartbreak and regret. May Allah save us all.
how should i respond to someone who says we can explore more and meet new people and might find someone better than us?
If someone thinks they can find someone better, with all due grace, tell them to go get that better. Don't stop. Just don't. Ask them instead, "Shall I open the door? Yeah? Let me do the honours for you. Thank you n Bye Bye!"
hello! for the disabled systems ask game: 8, 13, 14!
8. How can people best accommodate you online?
- Using tone tags for certain things (jokes, sarcasm if it’s not clear etc). Not a necessity but they do help! Especially in anon suggestions/feedback/criticism where it’s hard to tell if someone’s being genuine or not.
- Using trigger warnings and using post tags properly (ie. tagging syscourse, vents, tagging triggers in posts etc - this is good for your reach as well as making it easier for others!!)
We use filters on our tumblr so certain words are blacked out or completely blacklisted - we come here to relax most of the time, we don’t want politics, bullying and unpleasant content playing without us expecting it. We engage with the news etc at our leisure, but don’t enjoy having to see it during our break times.
- Having alt text or image descriptions with images, and GIFs. We have GIF autoplay disabled, and often will read alt text instead of watching them (as we struggle with flashing lights)
- Understanding we aren’t always going to be 100%, and our 100% is incredibly rare (and best spent.. not online). It may look like we’re doing well, but usually we are not lol. I can’t remember the last time we felt okay. Also it may look like we’re online all the time/the fronter talking to you isn’t the one posting - we use queue post a lot :3 and understanding we aren’t always gonna reply to DMs immediately!
I’ve totally missed something lol but that’s what i can think of rn
13. Hobbies: how does your system affect your hobbies?
In every single way possible honestly. I believe our hobbies vary between alter even if we do have some shared things - almost all of us love art and craft in some way. Sometimes someone will start something when they’re fronting and then switch for some reason…and then the thing will be forgotten. We have so many unfinished hobbies and projects.
14. Funny story related to being a disabled system
Omg omg I have a good one for this - one of our syskids was doing wheelies in our wheelchair the other week and then covered all the metal parts in stickers 🥹😭 It was so cute
We keep leaving our cane, crutches and wheelchair places because not all of our system is aware that we use mobility aids
Our cat always seems to know when we’re feeling unwell (even before we’ve realised) and will supervise and observe our behaviour and make sure we are okay. He’ll sit on our chest, stomach and legs while we rest, or he’ll curl up around my arm and put his paws in my hand. He knows when we’ve fainted and he’ll poke our face, sit next to us until we come around or go get our mum… but he also knows when we have switched out. He’s started using our amnesia against us to get more snacks - we’ll switch and he’ll come ask for more food 😭 Smart bugger. It took us ages of forgetting to feed him/overfeeding him before someone realised what he was doing. I don’t know how he knows, but he really does know. We’ve had to start leaving notes on the fridge to tell the household and any other fronters that he’s eaten.
And another one; we wear a subtle kitty plural venn diagram pin on our sunflower lanyard (along with a bunch of other pins) and our statistics teacher asked if it was because we like her subject lmao
Thanks to @disabled-systems for the ask game :)
im sorry hea gonna hate me bur it hurts and i miss my mommy -🪿
Aww sweetpea, I'm so sorry.
I don't really know what you're saying hurts but if it's the body, see if you can take some pain meds and go lie down to have a little rest, and have a drink of water.. if you're hurting feelings wise, drawing or talking it out with a friend, family member or system member might help make it hurt a bit less.. I dunno how old you are or what you like doing, but distractions good too! playing a game, reading a comfort book or watching a show/film 💖
I don't think anyone's gonna hate you for reaching out though, you did it anonymously so no one has any links to who you are apart from your goose. And hey! That's what anons are for, you did the right thing
If your system is okay with it, you're most welcome to flick us a message if you want to talk..! doesn't have to be about this, if you wanna tell me about your favourite books and shows or anything else, we'll most happily listen.
Sending hugs, 🪿 (i adore your emoji.. he's so sillyyy)
~Amber 🔥
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Something silly👀
Bcs why not🙃
✨It's Pizzano✨
Eneryone loves Pizzano😋
that's it
I'm tired🥲
You write fanfiction but never post it
yes but only like, a teeny bit. i started a lilith/rebecca thing forever ago bc they're underrated <3
you hate jeans!
yep! wish i could find a comfortable pair but i honestly don’t think i’ve worn a pair of jeans since summer. it’s dress pants and cargo pants for me.
your cheers posting convinced me to watch a few episodes of the later seasons on hulu and now i can't see lilith and rebecca without thinking they're girlfriends
and you are so correct! this message has made my day ty! also please allow me to direct you to @voltives blog. "reconstructions of how(e) to" has been living rent free in my mind since february <3
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English is not my first language, but it sure as hell isn't the last. I am also dyslexic. Sigh.
I totally agree
What type of fics do you prefer to read the most
I love me some angst 😮💨 I don‘t really love to read/write fluff
But I low-key search for angst and dramatic, forbidden love kinda fics. These hit the best
EIN PFERD?? Ok reich boy..
ich bin nicht reich, ich habe alles fur diesen kleinen Bastard ausgegeben! Ich bin so arm :( JSJSJSJSJ PLS
Alles was ich ausgegeben habe geht an Molly JOKES JOEKS JOESK EOHWEIOFHWEIOFHWEIFUWBEFUIH
It's interesting to learn that you are hypersensitive. I, for one, have been enjoying your art for a very long time. What I don't understand is that there are people out there that would die for your talent, yet you are nervous about sharing your art. To me, artists who are that good shouldn't be shy about their work... So stop being shy about it! :)
... I had to sit with this for a while.
This... I get that it comes from a place of good intentions, and that's nice, the sentiment is nice. But I'm not here for it, because like you said, you don't understand. I'm well aware that my opinions are strange but they're opinions about MYSELF and you're essentially telling me how to feel about myself and that's really unfair. And unrealistic? Emotions don't work that way. (You have a feeling? ITS WRONG. FEEL DIFFERENTLY) I will defend anyone's right to their feelings and it took my entire life to learn how to defend my own. I feel these misunderstandings boil down to a few things.
1. A view that my difficulties in sharing stem from an insecurity, or that I take my skills for granted in some way.
Not the case. I was hesitating as usual to say anything because I didn't want to make any artists who have yet to reach a similar skill level feel bad, but I don't want anyone laying that at my feet ok? (die for my talent?? How do I NOT construe that as a guilt trip D:) NO artist gets where they're at by taking their talent for granted. But lets not pretend I got where I am skillwise without pouring a ton of my blood/sweat/tears/years/life/soul/time/energy/everything into developing said skills. Art is a SKILL. I don't really want to have the skill vs. talent argument but if you're wondering what side of the fence I am on, its that side.
2. YOU DON'T KNOW MY LIFE
Aaaaaaaahhaaaa. Augh. Really tho. Like I said I wasn't always this way but I've had a lot of experiences (unrelated to art) that have made me a very closed off, private person. I've been called selfish, but I don't see how making things for myself in order to cope and then... keeping those things... is selfishness and not self-care. Do you ask a starving person to share what little food they have with someone who is just sort of hungry and will be fine without it? I hate using that comparison but if you follow artists on tumblr I'm sure you get plenty of nice stuff to look at on your dash, you'll be fine without my stuff on there all the time. I DO try, otherwise I wouldn't have artblog at all.
Serious Question: What if the hypersensitivity is the REASON for said ability? Two sides of the same coin. I've read some things that link sensitivity and creativity and if that is the case for me then would it still make sense to push me to be somehow different? I DO know artists who are VERY talented/skilled and don't have these struggles, and I also know artists who have struggled with serious huge ego problems too. I'm not trying to say it's gotta be one or the other, but maybe at extremes, its gosh I dunno, harder to be balanced about these things. I do occasionally dabble in arrogant snobbery but I can keep it to myself.
I feel some type of way about this. :/
