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Im alloallo and when i was a teen i began to experience attraction as intrusive thoughts about sex before i even fully understood what sex was, as well as an incessant urge to touch the person, and i would always stare at men's bulges through their pants. And when i was in the same classroom as my crush my vulva would throb really hard and it made me so uncomfy i would close my legs tightly to try and prevent it. Eventually i let go of my shame and learned to accept these things as normal.
I encourage everyone to do the same! Whether you experience a lot of attraction or none at all, don't let society invalidate your experiences. Live the life that is right for you.
Being both aroace and also a hormonal teenager means that when i find people very pretty and , dare I say hot, it stops there. I only want to look at and admire them, nothing else. Like, I've never saw a person I found attractive and whent "wowsers, I would like to start a relationship with them or even do something not safe for Tumblr", no I just think "wowsers their hot" and nothing else.
Also being transmasc and non binary makes me wonder if the things I'm feeling are admiration or gender envy so that's fun