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being a dom bottom sounds so fun... like no, you're not using my pussy, i'm using your cock. you can only go faster when i tell you to, and don't expect to be allowed to cum just because i did. i still have another hole that i need filled
Can we talk about the importance of aftercare?
On one hand, you get to be there for your partner. You get to laugh, be silly, clean each other up, and enjoy an intimate moment as you both come down from the rush of pleasure.
On the other hand, you get to make sure a scene wasn't too rough or that if it was you can talk about the good and the bad parts. What to keep and what to abolish. You get to hold your partner (Dom or sub, aftercare goes both ways!!) and tell them that they were perfect. That they're enough. That, ultimately, you feel safe with them.
You get to reassure the other and be comforted yourself.
Just, intimacy comes in many forms. Sex is one, aftercare is another.
Specifically in the context of a bunch of gentle praise and maybe a pinch of edging
Praise x Degradation
“You’re being such a good little whore for me”
“I know it hurts baby but you’re doing so well!”
“Daddy’s so proud of you for taking all of his cock”
“You look so beautiful with my cock in your mouth sweetheart”
*shoved my fingers inside* - “such a pretty lil mouth you have princess”
“Awww I think you can beg a little better than that slut”
“My pretty little whore❤️”
Once again thinking about aftercare. About having someone check in with you, making sure that you have water and that you clean up a bit. That conversation afterwards, "What did you like and dislike? How are you feeling now? You did so good for me."
And, of course, the response, "Was there anything that you really want to try again? How did this feel for you? I really enjoyed that, and did feel safe the whole time."
That's really good shit!
Never delete the nudes that your sub provides for you, you can always send them back at them to show how much you adore them! Point out every little thing you love about their body, make sure they understand how pretty they are. And describe just what you'd love to do to that body later!
Holy shit, this is fan-fucking-tastic content.
Not only would I love to have a little thing riding my boot while grabbing onto my leg, whimpering against me,
But I would, politely, like to go braindead for a Dom while they wore this.
oh god. fuck. I- fuck. I just. jfc.
(by riverqueer leatherwork click on link)