NSFT/W blog (MDNI), but also, just me shitposting. I hope you enjoy the sense of humor, lmao. 21, they/them ASKS OPEN TO ALL!! Just please use common sense/courtesy! Always looking for buddies! Taken. (I would prefer DMs from trans or AFAB folk, but if you get the reference in my header image, you are more than welcome as well!!)
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Friendly reminder to the domme transfemmes out there, now that it's gettin' more chilly as autumn rolls in, remember to adopt a local submissive transmasc. The process is pretty simple, just go to your local park, emo music venue, library or art gallery and find one you like, approach slowly and let them get used to the scent of you at first, but then you should be good to just take their hand and lead them to your car, it's fine. But please remember, as well as food, water and exercise, they do need to cum at least 5 times a day or it becomes a whole thing, but you can average that out and not let them cum all week and have one heck of a weekend. Anyways, be safe! If you're cold, they're cold. Bring them inside!
getting gangbanged by a group of feral trans women would fix me
Subs who are embarrassed about receiving oral are sooo fun - tie them down, gag them to avoid having to listen to their continuous protesting rambles and shy complaints, and watch as the realization, that they're entirely at your mercy and don't have any control over how you pleasure them or when you'll stop, sets in.
You start kissing and sucking on their neck, move down, oh so slowly, and the further down you go - leaving a wet trail of kisses and teasing licks behind - the more they fight against the restraints, try to close their legs, mumble against their gag... shake, moan, twitch. The further down you go, the more they get visibly hotter, trembling, their body begging while they're trying so hard to show disgust and discomfort on their face.
But oh, do they come undone with that first hot breath against the insides of their thighs, the first kisses and hickeys left, oh, how easy it is to make them come the very first time when your tongue gently and barely dances between their legs, the satisfied humming of your lips working them up further, and oh do they become more pliant, easy, willing with every single orgasm following afterwards... many of them do, until they're barely aware of the time in between them.
Kink Education Time - Consent
So, everyone knows that consent is incredibly important in kink. It's incredibly important everywhere, but especially when one wrong move means a consent violation. But kink often involves pretending to violate consent (CNC). So, how do you navigate consent in kink in the safest and most knowledgeable way possible? The answer lies in two things. First, safewords and other safety items. You probably know about safewords, but what about drop items, or other ways of communicating consent? The second category is less commonly-known: consent acronyms.
Safewords & Safety Items
Safewords are basically flags that you can raise that inform your partner(s) about your current state in the scene. The most obvious benefit to using safewords is that, plainly, a play partner can scream, "no, please, stop, leave me alone", without ending the scene. Meanwhile, they can just say, for example, "Pineapple!" to end the scene at any time. Usually, there are three categories: Green, Yellow, and Red.
Green safewords are meant to mean "everything is all good; please continue". This category isn't really used unless one partner wants to check in on the other partner. An example would be that, during a spanking scene, the giving partner notices that the receiving partner is crying. They may ask, "Are you okay?" They may also use a pre-negotiated term to check in, such as a code word. At which point, the receiving partner may respond with their green safeword if they're doing fine and want to proceed.
Yellow safewords are used to caution the other participant(s) in the scene. Their basic meaning is, "Hey, I'm doing mostly okay right now, but we're close to my limit. Please be careful." To some people, yellow means "do not do anything more than what you're doing right now". To others, yellow means "keep going, do what you wanted to, but I may need to use red soon". It can even mean "I'd like to talk to you about this, can we pause for a minute?" It is absolutely vital for both partners to know what yellow safewords mean before play begins.
Red safewords are the ultimate safeguard. Red means "stop". No questions, no exceptions. If you are doing a kind of play that can't be stopped right away (such as rope suspension), you must begin the process of stopping play. In some cases, that means taking drastic measures. In the case of rope suspension, that can even mean cutting the rope away from them immediately. Red safewords must be obeyed at all costs. Refusing to honor a red safeword is sexual assault. Always be mindful of your partner's red safewords in particular.
It should also be noted that safewords are not just for the receiving partner. Everyone gets safewords, and everyone can use them at any time, for any reason. It's important to know what someone's safewords are before play begins, so you can recognize them when you hear them. However, a commonly-used set of safewords is the stoplight system ("red" for red, "yellow" for yellow, "green" for green). Usually, in most cases, using those safewords is absolutely fine, and no other words are needed.
Safety Items/Nonverbal Safewords
Safewords are all well and good. But what if the person is gagged? How do you safeword with a dildo gag shoved down your throat? These are important considerations for any play. You can have many different nonverbal safewords,as long as they're discussed with your partner beforehand. It could be a hand signal, or three claps, or a little red card in their hand. Another commonly-used solution is what's called a "drop item". The person is given something heavy to hold, like a book, that they can drop if they need a check-in. If you're doing a form of play that prevents someone from talking, ALWAYS have nonverbal safewords in place.
Consent Acronyms
This section is more about what consent can actually mean in kink. Typically, people subscribe to one of four "ideologies" when it comes to consent: SSC, PRICK, FRIES, or RACK. Other acronyms exist, but these are the most common. The basic idea behind any consent acronym is to get you to think about what actually goes into consent, and how someone can say "yes" to something WITHOUT actually consenting. Understanding these acronyms is a great way to prevent your own consent from being violated, as well as to prevent violating others' consent, even without your awareness. I'll be explaining each of those four acronyms below in brief detail, but I highly recommend that you research consent acronyms yourself.
SSC - Safe, Sane, and Consensual
SSC is the most common, and "basic" acronym. The guiding principle of this acronym is that, in order for something to be consensual, the act must be safe, sane, and consented to by both parties. This means that you must take all necessary precautions (such as safewords, safety shears, etc.), you must both be of sound minds, and you must both give express consent before play begins. Some complaints about this acronym are about the "safe" and "sane" portions, because kink inherently has risks (making it unsafe from the start), and some kinks could be considered "insane" (like flesh hooks or branding).
PRICK - Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink
Some people prefer PRICK for its acknowledgement that kink can be dangerous. The basic idea of PRICK is that everyone has a responsibility to learn how to go about their kink lives as safely as possible. This also includes educating yourself on consent, in all its aspects, and how to respect it at all times.
RACK - Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
RACK is similar to PRICK in that it emphasizes knowing the risks to all parties inherent in your play. This includes all mental, social, physical, psychological, and/or sexual risks. The idea behind this acronym is that, unless you're aware of all of the risks, no play is truly consensual.
FRIES - Freely-given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific
FRIES refers to the act of giving consent itself. This ideology argues that nothing is consensual unless it matches those 5 criteria. This acronym was pioneered by Planned Parenthood, and is a favorite amongst kinksters. The idea is that unless consent is 1) given freely (under no coercion or force), 2) reversible (able to be rescinded at any time for any reason), 3) informed (such as with RACK or PRICK), 4) enthusiastic (basically just not reluctant; you can also just do kink because you're fine with it, not because you're absolutely thrilled to do it), and 5) specific (as in you are made aware of all acts that could happen beforehand for you to specifically consent to).
You may notice that these ideologies can coexist. They should. A truly responsible and safe kinkster will consider all of these when playing. They all have very valuable messages that you should internalize and keep in mind during your play. If anyone has any other consent acronyms they'd like to share, please do so in the reblogs/replies!
As a sadist a huge part of my own aftercare is entangled with the aftercare of my sub. I need to know you’re ok and that I have tended to you in order to tend to myself. I need to know you don’t hate me. That you enjoyed yourself. I need reassurance. I need to bathe you and be bathed myself. To hold you close. To talk about what we did and how we feel. I love to snuggle clean dry warm and naked under a blanket. To watch a movie we’ve seen a hundred times before but that makes us smile, and it doesn’t matter if we randomly chat through it when a thought arises. To have snacks and drinks and all of the comfort items close by. If we can I would spend the night together, because some times drops can happen several hours later once the endorphins have stopped coursing. Let’s just take our time. This part is just as important as the scene <3
Big naturals... small naturals. Doesnt matter to me. The only thing natural is the love for tits amen
we've got some real philosophers in the askbox tonight. so fucking real
Holy shit, this is fan-fucking-tastic content.
Not only would I love to have a little thing riding my boot while grabbing onto my leg, whimpering against me,
But I would, politely, like to go braindead for a Dom while they wore this.
oh god. fuck. I- fuck. I just. jfc.
(by riverqueer leatherwork click on link)
😂😂 oh my God, Valid as hell!!!
Thinking nasty thoughts about tiramisu.
Guys send this goober asks telling them they are awesome and cool and hot and
Awwwwwwwwwww!!!! Nooo, you're too kind!!! ☺️☺️
@jackieothebottombitch is the coolest!! He's got the best vibes and is a rad ass guy!!
Thinking nasty thoughts about tiramisu.
i unironically LOVE giving head. whether that be pussy or cock, i will DEVOUR. i love making someone moan and squirm, and i can’t help but moan myself because i just love it so much. i love when they grab my hair and either shove their cock further down my throat or force my face deeper into their cunt. fuck. i love giving head.
The way I'm just stuck cockwarming my toy while sucking on my fingers
Fuuck, I'm melting
Edit: the way this reblog put my account at 100 reblogs lmao
High posting!!!
Why do my tits get so sensitive during sex???😫😫
I just want to pinch and fondle them!!!
Women are so fucking pretty, omg 😍😍
High posting!!!
Why do my tits get so sensitive during sex???😫😫
I just want to pinch and fondle them!!!
High posting!!!
Why do my tits get so sensitive when getting high???😫😫
I just want to pinch and fondle them!!!
werewolf making you jack her off with a fleshlight so you can see how that thick, throbbing dick stretches that silicon hole to the point it splits, knot utterly destroying the fake hole when you finally get it stretched over that veiny bitch-breaker... and then she growls "you're next"
Hmmm, to bring my Mandolin to the Ren faire or to not bring my Mandolin to the Ren faire...... that is the question
Why does breeding have to be so hot?? I don’t want kids but I so desperately want to be held down as the tip of a thick cock rams into my cervix, pouring every last drop of cum into me until there’s no chance one of those little eggs deep in my boywomb hasn’t been absolutely drenched in warm seed, spurring a baby to begin making my little belly swell. It’s physical proof of your conquest of me. When my boytits swell and drip with milk and I can barely move with your child or children growing in me, there’s no denying how I was utterly dominated by you
Women... Soo pretty... All of them... I'll give them all kisses and hugs and they should all know how amazing and incredible they are. All women of all kinds and shapes and sizes... Sooo gorgeous
Crist if this shit ain't telling
Tumblr's reply to the situation with CEO's transphobia is pathetic and you should not be thanking them for doing the bare minimum of saying he's not speaking for them. They fucking thanked that bitch.
The affected trans women are still banned.
A transphobic manchild offered no proper apology. Or stopped. He is also still in his position.
Tumblr is still factually transphobic. Keep pushing.
Stick a fleshlight in me. Let me be filled by your toy and then fuck me like that. I get no pleasure from your thrusts, I just get to lay there and watch you fuck my body. I can get needier and needier, clenching pitifully around the silicone, but that's all I get.
Or put a strap-on on me. Lay me down and ride my silly little fake cock. I get to watch you, beautiful body above me, after all, what more pleasure could I derive? I get to see you enjoying yourself, and that is a reward in itself
Never delete the nudes that your sub provides for you, you can always send them back at them to show how much you adore them! Point out every little thing you love about their body, make sure they understand how pretty they are. And describe just what you'd love to do to that body later!