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Art of waiting
Alright, to shut it down and/or to wrap all things unnecessary since society now are basing all things in social media. This time, to be clear. I figured I needed to blog about the perks of being a strong soloist at life. And, I tell you the truth it’s pretty much the best process especially if you’re in your early 20′s. After being out of a long-ass five year relationship, learned a lot and I do not regret any of it. From the very beginning until the long while of trying to be out of if completely without any unhealthy hang ups and hopes of getting back together. It needed a year of process to let things go.
People kept asking me why I don’t have any new person. Just to be clear it’s because I don’t want to. Not yet. I had several great prospects but I’m keeping things at bay because the last thing I want to happen is be all limited (despite them being cute) when there’s so much to discover. If given a chance, I would and will settle for the right person. I just like the idea of reserving things for a long while until it happens to be the exact moment I am looking for.
It’s a cool thing though that the mother used to say things like I needed to date multiple boys to get into the right combination of a person I really want to be with perfectly and ya’ll I can say she’s right despite her having the father as her only first and last love.
You gotta be picky else you’ll end up breaking your and/or another’s heart. I don’t want that kind of set up anymore. I choose to really wait this time.
Love is a big deal to me no matter how much I force myself to be a strong, independent lady. I still have girl hopes of wanting someone worth of holding on to consistently, else permanently.
Now, you might ask what seems to be ideal to me now?
I want the Sunday morning kind, writing songs together, preferably a guy who’s really into music, literature, adventures and art like I do. Somebody who has the same cray vibe who can literally take my dad jokes, someone who would see my lamest side as my cutest quirk and we can be all nasty together. Above all, would love his and my family as much as I do.
There is so much more and even though things would take a while to finally find that specific somebody. It’s alright, because I’m perfectly fine on my own and I would guarantee the next guy will feel the luckiest of all.
Looking forward to it.
Patiently.
❝𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝❞



𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭 / 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭 / 𝐥𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐫𝐲
𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 — 𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐤 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐬 x 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤!𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫
𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 — 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐍𝐈, 𝟏𝟖+, strong language, oral (m+f receiving), penetrative sex, mutual pining, plot with porn, flirty!erik stevens (boy is a warning all by himself, okay?)
𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲 — i didn't know i needed you until i felt your hand in mine; after a messy breakup, you find yourself in serendipity with erik stevens, a friend of your ex
𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭 — 5K (and counting)
𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫'𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐞 — since i'm actually writing again, it's time to dust this off. enjoy me trying to write more plot than porn for the first second time lol

𝐂𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐒: (3/?)
i: situations
ii: just friends
iii: crush

by Dr. Jeanne Sheffield Estrada
It’s hard to know what the future will bring when life suddenly throws you a curve. Just when everything is going along fine and dandy, the rug suddenly slip out from under your feet and unexpected things will inevitably happen completely out of the blue. Our response to those things will be determined on how we have prepared ourselves of how much the word of God has been built up inside of us. Will we stand firm in our faith or will we experience fear?
When life is difficult, we look to God and find out that He has grace. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, the Bible tell us that His grace is sufficient for you, for his power is made perfect in our weakness. First, we must give our situation and life to God; this is the hardest part, because we feel more secure of we think we are in control of things. Once we give these things over to Him, He is going to give us the ability to stand up and endure.
So, no matter what is going on in your life, remember that all things are temporary. Keep your focus on Jesus and not on any negative circumstances. God is faithful and He will always see you through by bringing you into the season of blessing, so rejoice and praise Him for the season you are in, even it is very hard and trying. Be strong and be brave and remember that He is right there by your side with you and expect Him to see you through.
“I will lift up my eyes to the hills from where comes my help? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth.” Psalm 121:1
God Bless Your Day Jesus Loves You NotesOnLife.org

A crew on a deep sea fishing boat sadly saw a whale struggling as it was ensnared in a large fishing net. The web covered almost its entire body and was wrapped around the tail and fins making it difficult to swim or dive.
The crew carefully pulled alongside with hooks and knives in an attempt to free the struggling animal, but each time they reached down to help, the whale violently resisted their efforts. After several attempts to save the whale, the caring crew sadly pulled away only to watch the whale continuing to try to free itself in vain from this deadly snare which would certainly guarantee its death.
This is a perfect picture of people in this life. We are all born into a web of sin that ensnares us that will also eventually lead us to our demise. The boat that comes alongside to free us from our bonds is God, yet the natural tendency of people likewise is to resist God’s help.
Just like that obstinate whale, you too can choose to fight against being saved, but there is no escape from this web of sin without the help of the great “Fisher of Men” - the LORD Jesus Christ.
Before The Web Of SIN ends your life, let God free you and you will not only live in this life, but in the next life in eternity. Let Him come close to you and simply ask Him to help you - AND HE WILL.
Friend, will you choose to do that today? Or will you resist and let that net drown you?
God Bless Your Day Jesus Loves You
NotesOnLife.org
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!!! I love this!

ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!!! I love this!

Very useful tips to guess someone's placements 💕
when you first meet someone, cross them on the street, or encounter them in the professional setting - you see their midheaven sign when you are no longer strangers - you see their ascendant when you become friendly - you see their venus sign when they let their guard down around you - you see their moon sign but if you meet somebody who is very distressed or feeling unwell - you see their moon sign if you meet somebody who is enraged, competing with you for the job, or in a mad rush - you see their mars sign
and the sun sign was there all along, shining through every planet in orbit, shining through everything