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BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you're supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're beautiful inside and out <33
Okk soo....... When u guys get anons... It's a secret lover and/or flirtatious comments....
Mere pe baap ki aankh WhatsApp k forwarded mssgs aa rhe h🙃🙃🙃... Mere chehre pe hutiya likha h kya?(Sameer fuddi slangs)
Jokes apart!!! Thank you to whoever sent this to me! But I'm not the anonymous mssg kind... So I'll just tag my favourite mutuals here who are beautiful in and out! ( On a personal level) @shyam-kariya @aapki-shayara @abhidubey @sauravscribbles @btw-its-tamanna @whatsleftofdishaa @anarkali-disco-chali @nainasfuneral @kashviiii @inaasaysshelloo @manincaffeine @oldersiblingcurse @laacfaze @yahvii @yourmomsahira @shadowseductress
These are my good frnds... And people I have interacted with on a personal level... And I love them like my family literally! U people are gorgeous in and out and I'm extremely lucky to have met u people! ❤️❤️❤️
My world is better with u people in it! Love u guysss!!!
(and to the person who sent me this anon... Idk if we know each other...but hey I would love to know u! I'm sure u are beautiful ❤️ )
And Mata Shri.
you aren't the eldest child in an indian family if you don't have a feud going on with your dad on basically everything
The urge to cut my parents out of my life is so strong rn but I also don't wanna do that bc my parents brought me to this world and raised me and gave me good food and shelter. And they make sure that I know that because they raised me I'll have to take care of them back once I get the money and I'd be a horrible kid if I didn't.
I have never felt more at peace with myself when my parents are out or I'm in a locked bathroom bc my room doesn't have any locks. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells whenever I'm around my parents. I want them to see I'm doing good on the surface, because the surface I put up in front of me is all they ever talk about. And grades are the surface I'm talking about. And so I try my hardest to get good grades and I have a fucking breakdown when the grades weren't what I expected, because this gives my parents more of an excuse to talk more about how I could improve more and threaten to take me out of my school. I hate making mistakes in front of them.
My mom tells me the future she envisions for me so whenever I get an average grade I feel like a failure in my life and to my parents. My mom keeps telling me how she never had fun in her highschool years bc she was busy studying and getting the top grades and how it would be good and I would be successful later if I could stop having a lot of fun as well, by leaving things I enjoy doing.
I hate getting reminded of how expensive my school and my extra classes are. I feel like a useless purchase/expense. I feel like quitting all my classes so that it helps with my parents savings. I want my sister to get out of my room. I want my father to stop scolding me for going upstairs when all I wanted was personal space, bc I don't feel comfortable doing anything I like around my family.
I wish my family took my feelings seriously and didn't call me sensitive when I was a child, so now I wouldn't have to lock up my feelings around them and tell them what they want to hear. If my family took my feelings seriously, maybe I wouldn't smile with my mouth closed the way I do now. Or maybe I would be able to speak my mother tongue fluently if my family didn't make fun of me when I was learning English.
The worst thing is I can't tell them this, or anything about me really, they would tell me that there are bigger problems in the world. And there are, and my friends all have problems of their own, and I don't want to burden them with my own, I'd rather help them solve their problems or just be there for them when they need it. I'd feel selfish and silly for talking about my problems. It feels really lonely but I feel better if I know I was able to help other people. All I really want to do with my life is just run from the expectations, or sleep forever, or pull my soul out from my body.
You know it's mostly the people that are closer to you who hurt you the most, but what is worse is that if you're a female, even your immediate family hurts you. They try to break you, try to make you feel useless. In my case, those are my aunts. Those 2 assholes of a human trying to suffocate me so bad and then try to say they aren't aiming on me. Like bro, come on even a stranger would know. Why should I suffer the consequences of your anger? Why should I be the mat who you rub your dirt on? Why do you think I should follow you? STOP THIS FUCKING SHIT!! No I don't want to suffer your shit. No, i'm not a puppet and you cannot fucking control me. No you have no right to behave like a dick just because of your age. No the fuck I don't care! Why should i put my semester on a hold for my brother? Why should i compromise my life for you? Get out of my fucking life or I'll leave and throw you out. Mind you I ABSOLUTELY WANT TO FUCKING ELIMINATE YOU FROM ANY MOMENT OF MY LIFE! OUT!! Sorry for the rant though.
I was just talking to my mother and I knew with or without a subtle hint she'll want me to have a life partner, children and also take a break from my career for my children.
But all I want to say was you suffered all your life and you want to internalize that into your daughter...why? When I say I just want extreme education and succeed in the career of my choice, that's all I want! In no damn way am I asking to be treated like a baby producing machine for another family, have responsibility of another man and get my wings clipped, NO TF NOT!
The people who want partners are not wrong but wanting to be alone in only my presence isn't wrong either. Wanting a family is beautiful but not wanting it is also okay. Taking a break is okay but not taking one should also be respected.
Ladki ki iccha, uski padhai aur uske sapne utne hi maayne rakhte hai jitne ki ladko ke. Dono hi tumhari aulad hai aur dono se barabar ka pyaar karna tumhara farz. Apni beti ya bete ke sapno ko roundne waale rakshas mat baniye, aage badhne me unka sahaara baniye, phir koi baccha kabhi Ghar chodne ki baat nahi karega.
Dinosaurs vanished because they couldn't change with time, you'll vanish too if you don't walk hand in hand with time!
I feel like my family gets internal joy from pissing me off
Monisha bete "solar eclipse" Bolo
Surya grahan is too middle class.
Aaj bhagwat sunne gayi wahan prasad mai kulfi di yaar 😭😭😭😭😭
Itne ache log kahan se aaye mere aas paas🌬✨