Demi Romantic - Tumblr Posts

Was I the only aro-spec person who had the experience of thinking that I had crushes growing up, but looking back, they might not have been crushes because 1. I could never or only rarely name any traits that I liked about them (and those rare times that I could were traits that I simply admired), 2. I felt immense relief when they rejected me, or 3. I just wanted to have a crush, so I chose a person and consciously decided to develop feelings for them, not knowing that it doesn't work like that?

So turns out I’m neptunic!

I’m a Demiboy (although I might be boyflux or genderfaun but idk) and I’m romantically (I’m ace and don’t experience sexual attraction) attracted to girls and NB people. I know the term neptunic is normally used in a way that excludes the attraction to masc aligned NB people but….. I don’t care! 😀 the queer experience is such a broad one, there’s no way everyone experiences things the same way, so, I’m going to use this label for what it means for me.

Anyways that means my current labels are:

Neptunic

Demiboy

Asexual

Demiromantic

And the pronouns I use are:

They/them

He/him

It/its

Fae/faer (pronounced fay/fare)

Xe/xir (pronounced zee/zir)

Any other neo’s!! The ones above are just my favorite ones!

*read this user’s DNI’s before interacting*