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Poem: Follow Me
I wonder if you’d follow me
On some silly adventure –
Like seeking out the shiniest seashell by the shore
Or having a race on skates at a roller rink
Or flying kites around the park –
But my imagination is getting ahead of us.
It’s too soon to admit how much
I’d like to make those memories with you.
j.p
Poem: Explorers
I want to watch the world with you.
Let’s walk somewhere, or everywhere,
And take in the sky,
Sunrise to sunset
With a glint in your eye.
Come exploring with me.
Let’s go on a hunt
For the tallest tree;
I’m afraid of falling
But I’ll climb it
If you’ll be up there with me.
We can find a field
For picnicking,
Stargazing,
Dream-chasing.
Let’s ride our bikes to the ocean
To breathe in some salt and sunshine
Before we have to turn back.
Let’s pretend that we’ve known each other
For as long as the world has been here
And make every step together
A new adventure.
j.p
Picture me this.
You, me, cute ice cream date. We're both lactose intolerant.
new date idea: me and my boyfriend thirst over Gerard Way being gay videos
if you see this I’m taking you on a date to the planetarium then we’re going to a cat cafe and a library. best places on earth criticism isn’t taken
Is somebody gonna match my freak
I lied to you, we won't have sex. put your clothes back on, we will watch Hannibal and I will explain why hannigram is canon.
Date idea: If you have one nearby, make stuffed animals for each other at Build-a-bear workshop
Date idea: we both stay at our respective homes bc there's no way in hell would I socalise on my own volunter.
Date ideas <3 #1
trip to the Chernobyl zone
Date idea: we watch Cats (2019) and I pause it every 2 seconds to tell you why it's bad and what they did wrong and why Cats is actually a really fun and cool show
It might be worth considering that not everything is as it seems.
mod
It is not uncommon for two or more people to desire the same outcome, which may manifest in different ways.
Me and my pardner’ at the zoo today :3
Sugar Daddy date ideas
Obviously to start out with you have coffee, drinks at a nice/fancy bar, lunch/dinner. Once you start to get closer and more intimate, dates I have had or am planning for the future are:
- wine tasting at a vineyard, or tasting scotch at a distillery, or beer in a brewery
- for bars, take him to a secret speakeasy he doesn’t know about, or suggest he gets a room at a luxury hotel with drinks in the bar beforehand 😉
- couple’s spa/ massages, champagne and plenty of private time
-if your SD likes clubbing, invite your hot girlfriends (make sure you can trust them not to steal him away) and have him get a table at an exclusive club.
-have him take you to Vegas to gamble! He should give you some money to play with, and maybe you can win some more to take home
- shopping at boutiques/department stores (pick things out for him too! Make sure it’s not just all about you. Choose things you think look good on him and tell him he looks sexy, that way he’s less likely to feel like you’re using him.. though of course you are) Also, you can ask him to pick out clothes that he thinks look good on you (or lingerie 😉) that way, you can play it off as him buying you new clothes for his own enjoyment! Tell him “I can’t wait to wear this for you..”
- if you’re not shy, take him to a sex toy shop.
- have him take you to a concert or play in the VIP section.. maybe you want to see Jay Z, Beyoncé or Kanye on tour? Or maybe he enjoys Broadway?
- for the more refined SD maybe ballet or the opera.. if anything it’s a nice excuse to get dressed up in black tie and look stunning. If you don’t know anything about it read up on whichever show you’re going to and the careers of the performers, and make it sound like you know what you’re talking about!
- for the sporty SB’s go skiing, play tennis or even better, golfing. If you know how to golf that is a huge plus in the SD world because it’s a sport that many businessmen enjoy and use to close deals! Use going golfing with him to close your deal 😉
- if you don’t want to play a sport then you can at least go to a game with him! What’s his favorite sport? Football, soccer, baseball, basketball? Maybe he can get court side seats! And again, read up on the sport so you’re not constantly asking him to explain what’s going on. Nothing is more annoying. You don’t have to go overboard and pretend you’re a huge fan, as that’s annoying too if you’re faking it, but at least have a general idea of how things work.
- upper class sporting events include polo (veuve clicquot polo classic for example), Wimbledon or the US Open, or the Masters golf tournament. These tickets are generally more expensive, and you should dress nicer.
- cooking classes! Learn how to cook each other’s favorite meals
- gallery openings and museum exhibitions, or charity galas. This depends on whether your SD wants to introduce you to his friends and society (assuming he is part of society). Even if he isn’t, you can buy tickets to major art events such as Art Basel in Miami. Or attend an art auction by major auctions houses such as Christie’s or Sotheby’s
- Getaway for the weekend to the beach! Remember, if he’s kind enough to book tickets and arrange everything, it’s your job to make the weekend as stress free and relaxing for him as possible. And long walks on the beach, while cliched, are still very romantic! And take care of him while you’re there - for example make sure his drink is always full (you order with the waiter so he doesn’t have to) and put sunscreen on him, throwing in a little massage.
- My SD took me in a helicopter to the Hamptons. Got to see this incredible view of New York as we were flying out (and on the way back as well)! Or for the more adventurous pairs.. sky diving?
- have him rent a yacht for just the two of you for the day/weekend (or if he owns a yacht, even better)!
- for the traveling SD, have him take you along on his business trips. London seems to be a common destination for these types, as does NYC, LA, and Hong Kong.
- take a short weekend road trip if you can’t travel for longer. For example, go to Nantucket from Boston for the weekend, or drive to Napa if you live in California
- stay up all night kissing and talking until the sunrise is a sure fire way to make him fall in love with you and have him wrapped around your little finger
- more couple vacation ideas include going glamping on safari in Africa (not like camping at all - it’s like a five star hotel with air conditioning etc that just happens to be in a tent rather than a building), going salsa dancing in South America, scuba diving in the Maldives or Fiji, or shopping in the souks in Marrakech!
- you can always surprise him by showing up at his door with movies, a bottle of wine, and wearing a coat with nothing underneath!
You can really make memories to last a lifetime with your SD footing the bill, and it’s a win win for all as he gets to go on dates/vacations with a pretty young thing and make memories as well!
And remember, it’s his experience as well, especially since he’s paying for it. You should be low maintenance and non fussy - to an extent. Obviously your plane tickets should be first or business class, but don’t kick up a fuss if he takes you to Italian instead of Sushi, for example. ALWAYS, ALWAYS BE GRACIOUS AND GRATEFUL!!! if he wanted someone nagging him and being bitter/bitchy/passive aggressive about stupid details, he’d get a girlfriend or a wife!
Any other suggestions?
Sugar Daddy date ideas
Obviously to start out with you have coffee, drinks at a nice/fancy bar, lunch/dinner. Once you start to get closer and more intimate, dates I have had or am planning for the future are:
- wine tasting at a vineyard, or tasting scotch at a distillery, or beer in a brewery
- for bars, take him to a secret speakeasy he doesn’t know about, or suggest he gets a room at a luxury hotel with drinks in the bar beforehand 😉
- couple’s spa/ massages, champagne and plenty of private time
-if your SD likes clubbing, invite your hot girlfriends (make sure you can trust them not to steal him away) and have him get a table at an exclusive club.
-have him take you to Vegas to gamble! He should give you some money to play with, and maybe you can win some more to take home
- shopping at boutiques/department stores (pick things out for him too! Make sure it’s not just all about you. Choose things you think look good on him and tell him he looks sexy, that way he’s less likely to feel like you’re using him.. though of course you are) Also, you can ask him to pick out clothes that he thinks look good on you (or lingerie 😉) that way, you can play it off as him buying you new clothes for his own enjoyment! Tell him “I can’t wait to wear this for you..”
- if you’re not shy, take him to a sex toy shop.
- have him take you to a concert or play in the VIP section.. maybe you want to see Jay Z, Beyoncé or Kanye on tour? Or maybe he enjoys Broadway?
- for the more refined SD maybe ballet or the opera.. if anything it’s a nice excuse to get dressed up in black tie and look stunning. If you don’t know anything about it read up on whichever show you’re going to and the careers of the performers, and make it sound like you know what you’re talking about!
- for the sporty SB’s go skiing, play tennis or even better, golfing. If you know how to golf that is a huge plus in the SD world because it’s a sport that many businessmen enjoy and use to close deals! Use going golfing with him to close your deal 😉
- if you don’t want to play a sport then you can at least go to a game with him! What’s his favorite sport? Football, soccer, baseball, basketball? Maybe he can get court side seats! And again, read up on the sport so you’re not constantly asking him to explain what’s going on. Nothing is more annoying. You don’t have to go overboard and pretend you’re a huge fan, as that’s annoying too if you’re faking it, but at least have a general idea of how things work.
- upper class sporting events include polo (veuve clicquot polo classic for example), Wimbledon or the US Open, or the Masters golf tournament. These tickets are generally more expensive, and you should dress nicer.
- cooking classes! Learn how to cook each other’s favorite meals
- gallery openings and museum exhibitions, or charity galas. This depends on whether your SD wants to introduce you to his friends and society (assuming he is part of society). Even if he isn’t, you can buy tickets to major art events such as Art Basel in Miami. Or attend an art auction by major auctions houses such as Christie’s or Sotheby’s
- Getaway for the weekend to the beach! Remember, if he’s kind enough to book tickets and arrange everything, it’s your job to make the weekend as stress free and relaxing for him as possible. And long walks on the beach, while cliched, are still very romantic! And take care of him while you’re there - for example make sure his drink is always full (you order with the waiter so he doesn’t have to) and put sunscreen on him, throwing in a little massage.
- My SD took me in a helicopter to the Hamptons. Got to see this incredible view of New York as we were flying out (and on the way back as well)! Or for the more adventurous pairs.. sky diving?
- have him rent a yacht for just the two of you for the day/weekend (or if he owns a yacht, even better)!
- for the traveling SD, have him take you along on his business trips. London seems to be a common destination for these types, as does NYC, LA, and Hong Kong.
- take a short weekend road trip if you can’t travel for longer. For example, go to Nantucket from Boston for the weekend, or drive to Napa if you live in California
- stay up all night kissing and talking until the sunrise is a sure fire way to make him fall in love with you and have him wrapped around your little finger
- more couple vacation ideas include going glamping on safari in Africa (not like camping at all - it’s like a five star hotel with air conditioning etc that just happens to be in a tent rather than a building), going salsa dancing in South America, scuba diving in the Maldives or Fiji, or shopping in the souks in Marrakech!
- you can always surprise him by showing up at his door with movies, a bottle of wine, and wearing a coat with nothing underneath!
You can really make memories to last a lifetime with your SD footing the bill, and it’s a win win for all as he gets to go on dates/vacations with a pretty young thing and make memories as well!
And remember, it’s his experience as well, especially since he’s paying for it. You should be low maintenance and non fussy - to an extent. Obviously your plane tickets should be first or business class, but don’t kick up a fuss if he takes you to Italian instead of Sushi, for example. ALWAYS, ALWAYS BE GRACIOUS AND GRATEFUL!!! if he wanted someone nagging him and being bitter/bitchy/passive aggressive about stupid details, he’d get a girlfriend or a wife!
Any other suggestions?
Self Dating Series: 30 Self-Honeymoon Date Ideas
Have you ever found yourself spending hours planning your next date? Or, spending hours preparing for a date? When is the last time that you dedicated that much time and energy getting excited about spending time with yourself? It is too often that we give so much of our energy to other people, expecting them to make us happy. If you’re like most women, you’ve likely spent a pretty decent amount of time getting to know everything about your ex, or your best friend or perhaps even a co-worker. Now, when they are no longer a factor, how much do you remember about yourself ? Are you as acutely aware of what your short and long-term goals are? Of what makes you happiest when you’re down? Of what your short-comings are? We all know that leveling up is not about finding a better man. It’s about being a better you. Start by looking inward, and loving yourself first. Here are some of my favorite ways that you can spend time with yourself:
❤️️watch your favorite TV series or movie + dedicate an entire day to it
❤️️spend an afternoon in the park with yourself (I love people watching)
❤️️take yourself to your favorite restaurant + order whatever you want—it helps if you get to know the owner ;)
❤️️go to the mall, visit your favorite stores + shop (or just try on clothes)
❤️️download a meditation app + practice with guided insight meditation
❤️️go to your favorite spa + spend several hours relaxing—it helps if you can encourage someone else to pay ;)
❤️️dedicate a whole day to taking amazing photos of yourself
❤️️redecorate your living space
❤️️cook yourself a really nice meal + have fun doing it
❤️️take a dance class
❤️️head to the museum
❤️️take a cooking class
❤️️take a relaxing self-love bath with candles, bath salts + honor your body
❤️️watch an inspirational documentary + converse with yourself about your thoughts
❤️️take photos of nature + don’t be afraid to get close to the insects
❤️️visit the grocery store + go down every aisle looking for ingredients to put something nice together
❤️️create a playlist of your favorite songs + play it on repeat all day
❤️️go to the gym + set a simple goal for yourself
❤️️write yourself a love letter
❤️️sit on the shore of the ocean, river, or lake—listen + let your mind be free
❤️️spend quality time with your pet
❤️️attend a gala or charity event
❤️️go to an open mic, comedy show, improv event, etc.
❤️️create a list of movies that you have been wanting to watch + books that you’ve wanted to read
❤️️take your camera or phone and go on a photo adventure
❤️️go through your camera roll + organize your memories
❤️️teach yourself something new (a recipe, a language, a skill, etc.)
❤️️go to the movies
❤️️have a DIY spa day
❤️️go out and ride your bike
I could go on and on, as these are just some of the things that I love. I guarantee you will find something that will bring you joy. Whether you’re interested in just spending more time with yourself, your date was canceled, or you’re jus bored, try one of these activities.
Self Dating Series: 30 Self-Honeymoon Date Ideas
Have you ever found yourself spending hours planning your next date? Or, spending hours preparing for a date? When is the last time that you dedicated that much time and energy getting excited about spending time with yourself? It is too often that we give so much of our energy to other people, expecting them to make us happy. If you’re like most women, you’ve likely spent a pretty decent amount of time getting to know everything about your ex, or your best friend or perhaps even a co-worker. Now, when they are no longer a factor, how much do you remember about yourself ? Are you as acutely aware of what your short and long-term goals are? Of what makes you happiest when you’re down? Of what your short-comings are? We all know that leveling up is not about finding a better man. It’s about being a better you. Start by looking inward, and loving yourself first. Here are some of my favorite ways that you can spend time with yourself:
❤️️watch your favorite TV series or movie + dedicate an entire day to it
❤️️spend an afternoon in the park with yourself (I love people watching)
❤️️take yourself to your favorite restaurant + order whatever you want—it helps if you get to know the owner ;)
❤️️go to the mall, visit your favorite stores + shop (or just try on clothes)
❤️️download a meditation app + practice with guided insight meditation
❤️️go to your favorite spa + spend several hours relaxing—it helps if you can encourage someone else to pay ;)
❤️️dedicate a whole day to taking amazing photos of yourself
❤️️redecorate your living space
❤️️cook yourself a really nice meal + have fun doing it
❤️️take a dance class
❤️️head to the museum
❤️️take a cooking class
❤️️take a relaxing self-love bath with candles, bath salts + honor your body
❤️️watch an inspirational documentary + converse with yourself about your thoughts
❤️️take photos of nature + don’t be afraid to get close to the insects
❤️️visit the grocery store + go down every aisle looking for ingredients to put something nice together
❤️️create a playlist of your favorite songs + play it on repeat all day
❤️️go to the gym + set a simple goal for yourself
❤️️write yourself a love letter
❤️️sit on the shore of the ocean, river, or lake—listen + let your mind be free
❤️️spend quality time with your pet
❤️️attend a gala or charity event
❤️️go to an open mic, comedy show, improv event, etc.
❤️️create a list of movies that you have been wanting to watch + books that you’ve wanted to read
❤️️take your camera or phone and go on a photo adventure
❤️️go through your camera roll + organize your memories
❤️️teach yourself something new (a recipe, a language, a skill, etc.)
❤️️go to the movies
❤️️have a DIY spa day
❤️️go out and ride your bike
I could go on and on, as these are just some of the things that I love. I guarantee you will find something that will bring you joy. Whether you’re interested in just spending more time with yourself, your date was canceled, or you’re jus bored, try one of these activities.
Self Dating Series: 30 Self-Honeymoon Date Ideas
Have you ever found yourself spending hours planning your next date? Or, spending hours preparing for a date? When is the last time that you dedicated that much time and energy getting excited about spending time with yourself? It is too often that we give so much of our energy to other people, expecting them to make us happy. If you’re like most women, you’ve likely spent a pretty decent amount of time getting to know everything about your ex, or your best friend or perhaps even a co-worker. Now, when they are no longer a factor, how much do you remember about yourself ? Are you as acutely aware of what your short and long-term goals are? Of what makes you happiest when you’re down? Of what your short-comings are? We all know that leveling up is not about finding a better man. It’s about being a better you. Start by looking inward, and loving yourself first. Here are some of my favorite ways that you can spend time with yourself:
❤️️watch your favorite TV series or movie + dedicate an entire day to it
❤️️spend an afternoon in the park with yourself (I love people watching)
❤️️take yourself to your favorite restaurant + order whatever you want—it helps if you get to know the owner ;)
❤️️go to the mall, visit your favorite stores + shop (or just try on clothes)
❤️️download a meditation app + practice with guided insight meditation
❤️️go to your favorite spa + spend several hours relaxing—it helps if you can encourage someone else to pay ;)
❤️️dedicate a whole day to taking amazing photos of yourself
❤️️redecorate your living space
❤️️cook yourself a really nice meal + have fun doing it
❤️️take a dance class
❤️️head to the museum
❤️️take a cooking class
❤️️take a relaxing self-love bath with candles, bath salts + honor your body
❤️️watch an inspirational documentary + converse with yourself about your thoughts
❤️️take photos of nature + don’t be afraid to get close to the insects
❤️️visit the grocery store + go down every aisle looking for ingredients to put something nice together
❤️️create a playlist of your favorite songs + play it on repeat all day
❤️️go to the gym + set a simple goal for yourself
❤️️write yourself a love letter
❤️️sit on the shore of the ocean, river, or lake—listen + let your mind be free
❤️️spend quality time with your pet
❤️️attend a gala or charity event
❤️️go to an open mic, comedy show, improv event, etc.
❤️️create a list of movies that you have been wanting to watch + books that you’ve wanted to read
❤️️take your camera or phone and go on a photo adventure
❤️️go through your camera roll + organize your memories
❤️️teach yourself something new (a recipe, a language, a skill, etc.)
❤️️go to the movies
❤️️have a DIY spa day
❤️️go out and ride your bike
I could go on and on, as these are just some of the things that I love. I guarantee you will find something that will bring you joy. Whether you’re interested in just spending more time with yourself, your date was canceled, or you’re jus bored, try one of these activities.