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Felicia: Sex addicts are like "one more sex please"
MJ:...
Felicia: i have no idea what sex works
Asexuality is a spectrum so it can come in many forms and ways, not everyone experiences it the same way but that doesn't make them less valid!
Asexuals who masturbate? Valid.
Asexuals who don't masturbate? Valid.
Asexuals who experience sexual attraction? Valid.
Asexuals who never experience sexual attraction? Valid.
Asexuals who are sexually active? Valid.
Asexuals who never had sex? Valid.
Asexuals who watch porn? Valid.
Asexuals who don't want to watch porn? Valid.
Asexuals who read smut? Valid.
Asexuals who dress sexy? Valid.
Asexuals who are heteroromantic? Valid.
Asexuals who are aromantic? Valid.
Asexuals of any romantic orientation? Valid.
Asexuals who are POC? Valid.
Asexuals who aren't cis? Valid.
Asexuals who are guys? Valid.
Asexuals who aren't skinny? Valid.
Asexuals who simply exist? Valid as f*ck.
There are no rules to being asexual so just be yourself and other people can f*ck off. You are valid as f*ck and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ASEXUALS ARE A PART OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY!!! THE "A" STANDS FOR ASEXUAL, AROMANTIC AND AGENDER NOT FOR ALLY!!! Hope everyone had a great Ace Awareness Week!
(Feel free to add things to this unless you're gonna be aphobic then I will come and beat your *ss tyvm)
just as a reminder, changing your identity is not a bad thing, for any reason. thought you were a lesbian and now ur bi? thats ok! thought u were nonbinary and now ur a binary trans person? good and healthy. thought u were trans but realized ur cis and gender nonconforming? im glad u figured urself out! thought u were gay but ur actually ace? good! u were romance repulsed but u worked through some stuff and now ur romance favorable? good for u! and vice versa for all of these and anything else like this! changing ur mind on things is natural! fluctuations of the self is normal! i love u no matter what! have a good day!
(this post is not for t*rfs, aphobes, queerphobes, lesbophobes, biphobes, tr*scum, or any other kind of bigot)
And that's that on that.
Asexuals and Aromantics
Instead of saying you don't feel sexual/romantic attraction start saying you are immune to Aphrodite's powers
You're welcome ;)
Getting out ahead of it this year! Check out @aromantic-official
As an aro ace person I would like to apologize to all allo aros and they way they have been treated, like you said you're not gross for feeling sexual attraction. You're a not a bad person for being allo aro. You're all valid as f*ck and deserve to be treated better and to be respected! I wish you all a good evening want you to know that you're appreciated and loved <3
Having said that I would also like to adress my fellow aces.
So some of y'all have been acting like real @ssholes and decided to treat allo aros like sh*t.
This needs to stop.
Slutshaming is never okay. Someone else's sexlife is none of your bussiness so stay out of it.
Having sexual attraction is not gross and doesn't make you a bad person. Some of our fellow aces also feel sexual attraction. Just because it's not your thing doesn't mean you get to shame other people for it.
We're all aspec people, we're all living in a heteronormative society which can make things rather hard, we're all already treated like sh*t by most straight ppl and even a lot of queer people, together with agendered people we are the A in the queer community. So why can't we just stick together and stand up for each other? We might not be exactly alike but we still have a lot in common so don't go and be an @sshole just because you're insecure :)
They shouldn't have to even ask to be respected, they should just be respected! Honestly y'all be better than this.
I love aces to death but some (emphasis on some) have a habit of treating allo aros like crap because of our sexual attraction. We aren’t gross or dirty for liking people sexually and we’re certainly not whores or hoes (yes I’ve had an ace person call me those things in the past). I’m not blaming the entire ace community for this because I realize it’s not all of your faults but a lot of you guys just stand by in these instances. Please treat us (allo aros) better.
friendly reminder that anyone on the ace spectrum can use the ace flag of that's the one you prefer. you aren't required to use the flag specific to your label if you don't want to.
friendly reminder that anyone on the aro spectrum can use the aro flag of that's the one you prefer. you aren't required to use the flag specific to your label if you don't want to.
friendly reminder that anyone on the aroace spectrums can use the aroace flag of that's the one you prefer. you aren't required to use the flags specific to your labels if you don't want to.
if you're grayromantic but want to use the common aro flag? go for it. if you're cupiosexual but want to use the common ace flag? do it. if you're demiromantic abrosexual but want to use the orange-blue aroace flag? that's your decision. these flags exist for the entire community to use if they wish. you are just as aspec as anyone else on the spectrum.
lmao i remember when i was like about 10-11 years old i cut out paper hearts and gave them to all my classmates on valentine...
This was obviously before I knew I was aromantic but I was just thought it was complete bullsh!t and didn't want anyone to feel bad, so I just did that I guess.
But turns out only my teacher appreciated it so that was kinda sad...
aro culture is sending your best friend a valentine's gift to spite the amatonormativity
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Y'ALL HAPPY AROSPEC AWARENESS WEEK!
Being on the aromantic spectrum means that you experience little to no romantic attraction.
The term aromantic can be used as an umbrella term for all arospec identities:
Aromantic
Greyromantic
Demiromantic
Frayromantic
Aroflux
Arospike
Lithromantic
Quoiromantic
Cupioromantic
And many more...
For more informantion about these identities:
https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Aromantic_Spectrum
Arospec people can still be in a romantic relationship or in a queerplatonic relationship or in a sexual relationship or honestly whatever sort of relationship they choose to be in, all of these can be with 1 or multiple partners but they can also do none of those things.
A common misconception is that aromantic people also "have" to be asexual, this is not true. Being aromantic has nothing to do with your sexual orientation so arospec people can still basically be any sexuality.
For example: aro lesbian, aro gay, aro bisexual, aro ace, aro pansexual, aro omnisexual, aro heterosexual, aro polysexual...
This does not mean that allosexual aromantics are sex obsessed or sex addicts!
They can be but being aromantic doesn't equal sex addict.
Aromantic people can be:
- romance repulsed
-romance neutral
-romance favorable
And to finish it I would to remind everyone that:
Arospec ppl are part of the lgbtqiAp+ community!!!