I Find It So Interesting The Way People Are So Different

I find it so interesting the way people are so different

Like I just read a post where a mother was having a hard conversation with her son in the car and she said having hard conversations in the car is great because you're in close proximity and can't really leave but don't have to look at each other (and yes she asked her kid if he wanted to have the conversation before jumping in and the conversation went really well)

Now, I personally love this idea. I think it works and I have had many hard conversations with my parents in the car and I find it easier to talk in the car, and it seemed about half the people in the comments agreed with me and her parenting style.

But, half of the comments disagreed. Some harder than others. One person had the tone of "I can't BELIEVE someone thinks this is good parenting!!! I would NEVER do this with my child!!! How DARE YOU!!" and to be frank I don't get it. I don't get why people don't like this way of parenting

But I also do get it. I get that some people might have had bad times in these circumstances or their parents tried to do this but didn't give the kid a choice or were forceful about it. Then I get why you wouldn't like it.

But th main thing I don't get is when people don't get that people are different. Like the person mentioned before was so forceful about this being bad parenting and such but maybe that's what works for them. The same things that work for me might not work for you but you can't just push all of your beliefs on everyone who believes something different than you or had different experiences than you did.

I had this hilarious image pop in my head:

Severus Snape making the 6th year's that are learning to cast silently to hold harmonicas and kazzoos in their mouths so he knows if they talk it

If there is one thing I can sayI learned from my 10th grade World History class is that France is Not Having A Good Time

Why why WHY do people who have no experience working in a popular sit-down restaurant feel the need to comment on EVERY. LITTLE. THING. when it comes to a restaurant?

Like I get it if you ordered 30 minutes ago and it hasn't come out yet or if the food was crappy or the waiter/waitress was rude right? But being all

"Why is there a 15-30 minute wait? I can see tables just over there that are free. This is terrible service and I'm leaving and never coming back"

like d u d e you don't know the situation. Those tables might be reserved for the group of 20 coming in later. Or a bunch of smaller groups. Or they're short staffed and can't seat people at all the spots because the person who is supposed to wait that table is a no call no show or no one picked up the shift????? You don't know??? So just shut up???? It's not like it's in the control of the 17 year old hostess that you're ranting loudly in front of, making her tear up and embarrassing your kids and your wife who has been a waITRESS FOR 10 + YEARS.

I admit, I've never worked in a restaurant. BUT that man is my stepdad and goddammit he just needs to shut up. I may not have officially worked at a restaurant but I've helped my mom around enough to know the inner workings of what goes on like jeez man be more considerate.

He also decides to criticize my mom's decisions when it comes to work. But that's another conversation

And the desire is never stronger than when you are away from everything you use to write and have no way to write what you want except for the pen and pad that comes in your hotel

damn, no desire is ever felt so strongly as the desire to write fic when you’re really supposed to be doing something else

Disney's Robin Hood was definitely my bi beginning.

I didn't know it yet but I 100% had a crush on both Maid Marian AND Robin Hood himself