The Most Eye-opening Thing I've Read On The Internet Is: "you Thought You Were Denied A Thing When, In

the most eye-opening thing i've read on the internet is: "you thought you were denied a thing when, in fact, you were spared of it."

and it's not just about that job you wanted or that item on sale that wasn’t the right size. it’s also about friendships, you know. you will always have a fallout with people who are not meant to stay in your life because they are just not right for you—no matter the intentions. you will grow out of relationships that gave you more anxious nights than peaceful mornings. your body will refuse to give you the energy needed to talk to people who can't be straightforward with you, and that's how you will eventually be spared.

but the human tendency is to try, try for things you care about until you don't, and then wish it didn’t have to be that way. until you realize that, yes, you were, in fact, being saved.

when eileen myles wrote “this intolerable sadness i am learning to tolerate”

“how did you get into writing” girl nobody gets into writing. writing shows up one day at your door and gets into you

they’re called. th. they’re called responsibilities bechause theyh keep fucking respawnjng