Hi,so Im A 15 Year Old ENTP Girl,and And For The Last Few Months,Ive Been Having Some Problems With Depression,I

Hi,so I’m a 15 year old ENTP girl,and and for the last few months,I’ve been having some problems with depression,I never want to get out of bed, and I have no motivation todo anything I used to like to do.I really don’t have any friends, and nobody ever invites me anywhere and that’s a main reason that I’m not doing so well.I have a fear of always being alone and I always am🤷🏼‍♀️everyone hates me because of all the ENTP things I do but I really can’t stop..I just don’t know what to do anymore.

Ahh nonnie! I’m sorry you’re going through this, depression is hard and it’s really difficult to get out of the spiral and then stay out of the spiral. I really struggle with it as well. 

The depressed ENTP can have phases of being super isolated and then just plain annoying, but you know what!?? You can’t focus on that! Good friends should actually notice that something is wrong, and not hate you for it. Also, if they hate you, they need to find better things to do with their emotions and time. Regardless of that, what’s most important is that you get to a better place. You can’t focus too hard on your effects of people because it’s a symptom, so let’s solve the cause.

There are a few things and habits I have tried to form to keep myself good–and if not good, at least ok or functioning. And they are under the cut because this is a long post. :) 

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I don’t think we talk enough about it being 100% ok to abandon your goals.

There is so much about keeping on trying and working hard and You Can Achieve Anything When You Put Your Mind To It which is a great sentiment. And for the large part its true and I don’t intend to contradict that when I say that look: sometimes you have to quit and that’s ok.

There is no virtue in pursuing a goal to the detriment of your health and happiness. Not every goal is attainable for you no matter how much you want it and it isn’t shameful to walk away from an aspiration that isnt working for you or is sapping your energy and it doesn’t feel worth it anymore.

You’re no less for changing your mind about something halfway through, or losing interest, or deciding other things are more of a priority than getting fit, running that marathon, getting into med school or whatever else you hoped to do. Forgive yourself, move on.

Best advice my 19 year old roommate gave me

“Just give him three days. Wait three days, no texts, no calls, no nothing. Then see if he comes back” “What if I can’t wait three days tho??” “You see the thing is, you keep running back to him and he gets off on it. He knows he’s gonna have you coming back to him. Why not give him three days and make him realize, oh shit it’s serious, I’m really losing her!” “What if he doesn’t even come back?” “Then why would you wanna be with someone that doesn’t want you? Why would you wanna be with someone like that?”

Foster mom welcomes another baby into her litter.

“You’re not my Dad!”

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