Do You Happen To Foster Littles Or Know Anyone Who Does?

Do you happen to foster littles or know anyone who does?

I think I have an idea of what you mean but message me and we can talk about it lovely

Aftercare

Sweet sweet aftercare. It’s an essential ending to any scene, no matter how intense. Aftercare is done after a scene is over and should be done every single time. Maybe at varying degrees but done none the less. Let’s go over some of the types and methods of after care

* Communication, this is so both parties can talk about what happened. What they liked or didn’t like, Anything new they want to explore further, any lingering thoughts or concerns from the scene, stuff of that nature. This may not always happen right after a scene since the sub may still be winding down

* Physical pampering, this includes massaging a subs sore muscles, especially if any sort of tying or bondage would cause the muscles to become tense or stiff; it really helps to use certain oils or lotions, bubble baths, again to relax the bodies of both the sub and the dom and clean off any bodily fluid left from the scene, rubbing soothing lotion over marks and inflamed skin to insure everything heals properly and won’t hurt too bad the next day.

* Nutrition, this isn’t so much aftercare as it is just general health common scense. Drink LOTS of water to rehydrate and maybe even eat a few fruits like apple slices or strawberries. Just something to refuel the body.

* Sleep, this is one of the most important points here. Get PLENTY of sleep. Give your body time to rest and recuperate.

Just because a dom/me may not use all of these methods does not make them a bad dominant. A fair few more experienced dom/mes have their own aftercare routines that they have settled into. However, if a dom/me does not perform any sort of aftercare, run. Run very very far.

I know it’s short but that’s all for today lovelies! Lots of drama since the move so it’s quite a task to adjust but hopefully I’ll speak with you again soon, till then, be good, be safe, and have fun!

Talking with my friend. He hasn’t been happy in space in a while and definitely usually doesn’t accept compliments. I’m so proud of how far he’s come

So um, hi? Long time no see? Like, really long 😓

So honestly this account will probably be going through a few changes as I decide what to do with it but first and foremost please note that it will still be kink and agere education and safety.

Few things to note:

I am 20, please for the love of the gods do not ask me to be your domme or caregiver if you are a minor!!! I love you all and I don’t mind you being here if you are 16+. (We’ll get to why in a sec) however, asking me(a stranger on the internet) to participate in any sort of dynamic with a power imbalance is super dangerous and makes me very concerned. Also it makes me a little uncomfy given the age and knowledge difference.

This account will be 16+. I say that because even though I do NOT and will NEVER condone participating in kink while you are underaged, I know I can’t stop you. And as someone who started learning about kink and Cgl as a minor I know how hard it is to get safe and accurate information on how to be safe. I’m happy to talk with you and answer questions in dms or through asks but I will never support actively participating in anything remotely kink related until you are 18. I encourage you to learn as much as you can so that when you’re of legal age and ready to dip your toes in you can be as safe as possible about it.

I’m just here to provide what I was denied. Because ignorance is how people get hurt doing things they know nothing about. Therefore let me know what you want to see talked about!!! Subjects you want to know about or just think aren’t talked about enough in the community!! I’ll try and be as active as possible but I make no promises, till then, be good, be safe, and have fun!

For all my lovelies who might need a little nudge to help yourself. I know this may not change your mind on what you think people might do but hopefully it gives you a bit of confidence to do something that will help make being social just a little easier for you. I’ve had friends call me mid-anxiety attack because of having to socialize without something to help ease their mind. I hope this helps even one of you, then I will have done my job. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable

Um I need some advice... basically I was in an abusive relationship where my little side was considered a chore to deal with. Now it’s hard for me to fully get into littlespace. I’m with someone now and he says he’s been a daddy in a relationship before and that he’s comfortable being my daddy, but it’s hard for be to get in that space outside of sex. Have any advice??

Oh jeez I’m so sorry I’m just now seeing this, well I guess it’s a matter of trust. The more comfortable you get with him, the easier it should be for you to go into space and trust him to take care of you. Your headspace should never be seen as a chore. It’s a safe space for you to go and relax and letting someone in on that takes time and trust. You’ll get there sweet pea.