Safe Words!

Safe words!

We’re talking safewords words today kiddos. In my opinion, they are one of the most important aspects in this community next to communication but they also go hand in hand. A safeword is a word used during a scene or 24/7 sub/dom (and the nsfw side of cg/l) dynamic. It needs to be something you would never accidentally say while in the moment or just in everyday life.

Common Safe words-

* green for go

* Yellow for slow down or need a break

* Red for stop immediately

I refer to this as coloring out and I’ve seen the term used a lot in the community. I believe that while doing an intense scene or pushing your subs limits you should check on them throughout by asking their color.

Other Safeword suggestions

* pineapple

* Unicorn

* Dragon

* Freeze

* Mango

* Phone number (from a book. It’s actually sad)

* Ladybug

* Apple

* Drop

The list could go on and on and on. It just has to be a random word that will get your doms attention quickly. Doms who do not listen to safe words are to be avoided at all costs. This is very bad and very dangerous for the submissive, safewords are there to protect you. Not to be taken lightly.

Those are verbal safewords, if the sub can not speak for this or that reason then there are still ways to give them the ability to safeword.

* hold a ball in your hand. Drop it to safeword.

* A small metal bar, drop to safeword

* Tap a designated spot on your body

* Clap( if possible)

* If not, shake your hands(like jazz hands)

* A button strapped to the subs palm, press it so it makes an alerting noise

These can also go on and on. It is really just what works for you and what will get your doms attention efficiently.

A fair amount of new subs or subs with a new dominant do not like to safeword because they feel it makes them look weak, this is absolutely not the case. Safewords are always appropriate whenever they are needed! Do not force yourself to do something you are not comfortable with to please anyone! They are meant to keep you safe, comfortable, and happy.

That’s all for today. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Well don’t you think you’re so sly

Let’s see

- my eyes

- my waist line

- my handwriting

- my hair sometimes

- my patience

I don’t know my followers so I don’t really have anyone to tag so I guess I tag no one but feel free to do this if you see it and keep it going.

whenever you get this you have to say five (5) things you like about yourself, publicly. then you have to send this to ten of your favourite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool) (:

| My ears

|The color of my ayes 

| My hair 

| My patience for do crafts

|My imagination

And i tag my fovorites followers

@chaotic-cat @d-structive @valkyreskye @silverwolffangirl @em-stem @septicuniverse @aceofspades-lena @septiceyecrew @andymp-blue @mai-violet

Self Acceptance

Acceptance is different for many people. Sometimes it’s easy to accept yourself and your habits, wants, or needs. For others, it may not be so easy. I have never really thought of it before because I am one of those people where it comes very easily to me. However a few days ago someone needing my help came to me about a little space need not sitting well with them outside of their headspace even though they needed it to be happy and that’s what I’m explaining today.

*happiness

Happiness is something that most everyone desires, needs even to make it through their day to day life. However, if we stop our selves from being happy because what makes us happy is a little off putting then we are only making it worse for ourselves. As long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with wanting to be happy. It’s like having a favorite food combo that everyone finds weird or even you find weird and not enjoying it even though you know it tastes amazing. Happiness is not a crime.

*acceptance

Liking something out of the ordinary is not uncommon. Everyone has their own preferences, likes, dislikes, etc. again, as long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with it. If you like that pacifier at Walmart, you buy that pacifier! You like the tea set at toys r us? I’ll write the tea party invitations for you! Diapers put you in your headspace? Diaper up and giggle away! My point is that even if you think your likes, hobbies, headspace activities, or anything else you like to do is out of the ordinary, just remember that if it makes you happy, relaxes you, de stresses you, or puts you in your headspace then there’s nothing wrong with it. Not even in the slightest.

That’s all for today. I hope this is a help to anyone who needs it. If you want help with anything specific or need to talk to someone my asks and inbox are always open day or night. Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Stuffies!

Stuffies are one of the greatest gifts to ever bless this world. They come in all shapes, sizes, and species. They can be bought in large numbers and be considered a bed or mean more than anything else in the world to someone. Now, how to go about getting one:

Yard sales!

•probably the cheapest way to get stuffies

•never know what you’ll find

•they have character and a story if you think about it

• however, yard sale stuffies MUST BE WASHED! You can never tell what someone else’s house was like before they moved or had the yard sale. Carefully wash all stuffies per maker guidelines and put in a plastic bag for 24hrs or more to kill any bugs or eggs that are on or inside them. I know it’s exciting getting new stuffies but you have to be careful

Online!

• online shopping is probably the next cheapest way to buy stuffies depending on where you shop.

• some places will custom make you something

• you can find specific stuffies you want

• you can send them to your significant other without paying high shipping fees like you would through a post office

• however what you gain in prices you lose in guarantee.

• some places are scams

• some places are low quality

• you can usually avoid this by looking at reviews and other people’s purchases but nothing is 100% full proof.

Stores!

•Lastly we have stores which don’t tend to be extremely cheap but you do get to see the product in the flesh before you buy

• guaranteed quality

• you can shop specific stores for specific things

• some stores let you make and dress up your stuffie yourself

• however like with the yard sale stuffies you need to clean these unles you bought them in a sealed packaging

• lots of people go in and out of that store and put their hands on those stuffies too so it’s better safe than sorry

I really hope this was helpful! Just some stuffie tips for all you Littles and caregivers out there!

This is so important for so many people to see. You are important. You are worthy. You are deserving of happiness. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise.

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

Valentine’s Care!

Hi everyone! Happy Valentines Day! Love it or hate it, it’s Valentine’s Day. Not the happiest of days for a lot of people. If you’re lucky enough to have a caregiver or little take the time today to show them how much you care! Treat them like the adorable little princes and princesses that they are. And Little’s take time today to show your caregiver how much you appreciate what they do. Be on your best behavior, color them a picture or make them something cute! Don’t think I forgot about all you single caregivers and Little’s. As much as you may or may not hate today, take this time to pamper yourself! You’ve earned it! Take a bubble bath or have a cartoon marathon with your stuffies. Just relax and take a day for yourself. You deserve it. Just a friendly reminder to everyone. My inbox is always open if you need it, I don’t bite I promise ☺️