Educational Rants - Tumblr Posts
I have discovered while I am really passionate about my current hyperfixation, I also have an added passion of educating all my friends into the reasons why, even after all the work they have been doing, they are still fat (to the usual shit beauty standards). Even though I'm in arts, I've studied this a lot mostly because of its relation to hormones and me being trans and all. And also the psychological benefits of indulging in BDSM without it being sexual.
In my experience, I've always been in multiple art schools, so I was always surrounded by a bigger percentage of queer people, neurodivergents and people who usually dont fit the standards in any way shape of form. And some of them are confident, dont get me wrong. Most of them arent though. They're all extremely uneducated in most topics, dont actively know about activism of their minority groups and the history of it. And a lot of them I'm not in the position to help soothe their worries, maybe we dont know each other, or we're not close enough for me to know their insecurities, but when I heard said key words about topics I know extensively, I tend to eavesdrop a bit.
Which happens far too often.
You know how much I want to tell Her that no, even though you work out a lot you will very rarely get any physically thinner, no it's not your fault, your mother is like that too and she's also too insecure to tell you why, maybe she's also doesnt know why. It's not your fault and its not something to be ashamed of, your mother just has great genes passed down from strong and surviving families that make losing fat a lot harder. It's evolution and it's a great thing to be proud of. Even if you work really hard, that fat will turn into muscle, but you'd still have the same shape. You're great at dancing, I love going to the open dance club sessions, you're amazing at that, and you're also still growing, you have your life ahead of you.
But I can't tell her that. Obviously. That's why I'm ranting of my mostly batfam tumblr blog. The blog is mine I do what I want anyways.
If this words speak to you, I'm glad.
One day I will come back to talk about the psychological properties of BDSM without involving sexual activities, to all my mentally ill people who have been told/feel like a therapist can't do much for them other than giving out a few coping mechanisms until one sticks.