I Have Discovered While I Am Really Passionate About My Current Hyperfixation, I Also Have An Added Passion

I have discovered while I am really passionate about my current hyperfixation, I also have an added passion of educating all my friends into the reasons why, even after all the work they have been doing, they are still fat (to the usual shit beauty standards). Even though I'm in arts, I've studied this a lot mostly because of its relation to hormones and me being trans and all. And also the psychological benefits of indulging in BDSM without it being sexual.

In my experience, I've always been in multiple art schools, so I was always surrounded by a bigger percentage of queer people, neurodivergents and people who usually dont fit the standards in any way shape of form. And some of them are confident, dont get me wrong. Most of them arent though. They're all extremely uneducated in most topics, dont actively know about activism of their minority groups and the history of it. And a lot of them I'm not in the position to help soothe their worries, maybe we dont know each other, or we're not close enough for me to know their insecurities, but when I heard said key words about topics I know extensively, I tend to eavesdrop a bit.

Which happens far too often.

You know how much I want to tell Her that no, even though you work out a lot you will very rarely get any physically thinner, no it's not your fault, your mother is like that too and she's also too insecure to tell you why, maybe she's also doesnt know why. It's not your fault and its not something to be ashamed of, your mother just has great genes passed down from strong and surviving families that make losing fat a lot harder. It's evolution and it's a great thing to be proud of. Even if you work really hard, that fat will turn into muscle, but you'd still have the same shape. You're great at dancing, I love going to the open dance club sessions, you're amazing at that, and you're also still growing, you have your life ahead of you.

But I can't tell her that. Obviously. That's why I'm ranting of my mostly batfam tumblr blog. The blog is mine I do what I want anyways.

If this words speak to you, I'm glad.

One day I will come back to talk about the psychological properties of BDSM without involving sexual activities, to all my mentally ill people who have been told/feel like a therapist can't do much for them other than giving out a few coping mechanisms until one sticks.

love love love the idea of jason bullying his siblings into taking care of themselves.

for example.

taking the wheels off of babs wheelchair when she won’t rest. (he comes back not too long after to put them back on don’t worry)

guilt tripping dick into deal with his panic attack instead of ignoring it. (you want me to call alfred and tell him? he’ll have to walk all the way up the stairs to get to you)

changing cass’s music every time she changes it back until eventually she talks about what bothering her. (they have google nests and he’ll just say hey google play the coco melon theme)

throwing food bars at tim’s head until he finally gets annoyed and eats one. (he can actually ignore it for a lot longer than you think)

reading the side affects of her birth control in an old english accent until steph gets up and takes pain killers and gets a heat pack instead of bed rotting. (he has no idea what most of the side affects are)

teasing duke until he actually lets out the anger he’s been holding in. (he’ll just straight up roast him)

steals and hides all of damian’s sharp objects until the kid talks about why he’s been all doom and gloom. (he drives him to and from school the next day to scare of the bullies)

anyways reblogs are appreciated

When a person with ADHD complains of severe anxiety, I recommend that the clinician not immediately accept the patient’s label for her emotional experience. A clinician should say, “Tell me more about your baseless, apprehensive fear,” which is the definition of anxiety. More times than not, a person with ADHD hyperarousal will give a quizzical look and respond, “I never said I was afraid.” If the patient can drop the label long enough to describe what the feeling is like, a clinician will likely hear, “I am always tense; I can’t relax enough to sit and watch a movie or TV program. I always feel like I have to go do something.” The patients are describing the inner experience of hyperactivity when it is not being expressed physically.

At the same time, people with ADHD also have fears that are based on real events in their lives. People with ADHD nervous systems are consistently inconsistent. The person is never sure that her abilities and intellect will show up when they are needed. Not being able to measure up at the job or at school, or in social circles is humiliating. It is understandable that people with ADHD live with persistent fear. These fears are real, so they do not indicate an anxiety disorder.

holy SHIT

Painted my shoes because they where to plain before and I thought it would be fun

if we want the rewards of posting our fic we must submit to the mortifying ordeal of editing the damn thing

ive just been born into the world what are some good games for beginners