THIS!

THIS!

I spent so much time in severe, denail-induced breakdowns that lasted days because I thought something was wrong with me or my system because we were all having so much trouble figuring ourselves out.

One thing that helped - We realized we'd all been living as one person our whole lives. None of us had gotten the chance to even consider having an identity of our own. Ofc we had our fundamentals, but with the newfound freedom to explore our individuality - it can be amazing yet jarring and terrifying. It can feel like you're losing yourself somehow.

So yes, please let's not normalize knowing everything. It's harmful through and through.

We should probably normalize not knowing information about your system like what an alter's role is, total alter count, who is fronting, etc, since that is actually very normal.

Omg I never meet other avoidants!!

PSPSPSPSPSPS

ya girls + rylee want some mutuals

reblog and we will prpbably follow back if you are one of the following ! :

narcissistic! (Npd)

borderline! (Bpd)

a system (we're did!)

lover of cartoons

autistic

lover of toys

dependents! (Dpd)

avoidants! (Avpd)

physically disabled

toy lover!! (Mh beloved)

madoka / sailor moon fan!

south park fan (plz i promise im normal it's my special interest since i was very young!)

selfshippers :3

flag / template people or likers

fnaf fan

endos , rqs , and bigots dni!

Talking about system stuff and just saying it to someone is so validating. A whole two people know I have DID irl and it can be so lonely for some of us who love and care for the ppl in our life, yet they don't know that specific alter exists

Going to work when there's so many of us near the front is so hard dude,,,

a comic about clothing

This! I originally thought I must be an osdd 1b sys because I was so sure I didn't get full amnesia,

Turns out, DID all the way babyyy :')

Does anyone else ever think "oh I don't experience much blackout amnesia, mostly grey-out." AND THEN you get evidence that you did indeed completely forget multiple things and you didn't notice because they were small things??

Like we have so much more blackout amnesia than we are aware of and it's trippy to think about.

-Kate