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No one talks about grieving with D.I.D, and how badily it affects your entire system. Like people without D.I.D keep telling us that we are going through the five stages of grief etc and that you go through them in order, but for us it feels like its something that constantly restarts itself and loops due to switches.

Like no matter how much we think that we are finnaly at the acceptance stage it feels like we go right back to denial again.

I am NOT saying feeling this way automatically equals having D.I.D, but us feeling this way is most likely because of that.

Can anyone else relate??

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Dark Eldar fans are so funny because we are like "omg my blorbo, lil' meow meow. Go off and conquer queen" and then its some mf named Murderkill the Vile who tortures planets to drink their souls and does slave trade.

Anyone with access to Paramount+, please for the love of god watch Coded: The Hidden Love Of J.C. Leyendecker. It’s 29 minutes long and it made me fucking bawl

; * looks up transmasculine Donatello on Ao3 because I'm curious and also yes my fav character has to be exactly me what about it !? * ... Oh. 😟

i know i've said this before but i'm going to say it again because the more i work with geriatric women the stronger i feel about the fact that the only anti-aging that women in their 20s/30s should be obsessed with is building strong bones and muscle mass. that's like the most important thing you can you can do right now to lay a good foundation for healthy aging. you can botox the shit out of your face but that's not going to do anything to save you from dying prematurely from a fatal hip fracture that you can't bounce back from because you didn't do anything to prevent yourself from becoming frail and breakable. like i know that sounds harsh but that is reality for a lot of older women and i don't want that to be you.

9, 12, 14, and 18 for the disability ask game :)

; 9. Have you had any ableist encounters that were js kinda funny ?? - I don't have the memory for this but one I do remember vaguely is this person was complaining about I think disabled ppl needing " unnecessary extras, privilege even !! Difficult !! " ( their words ) support and such, and that's not funny but it was more of they were saying this to me as if I'd agree yk ?? As if I was their fellow co worker complaining about the traffic lol .. What was really funny is I had noise cancelling headphones on, a stim toy in hand, was sitting in a dark corner and avoiding ppl like the plague, and at the time had a lil autistic pin on my bag. Like honey I am not your target audience, I am your target.

; 12. which stripes of the disability pride flag do you identify with ?? - I believe the white ( invisible && undiagnosed ) & green ( sensory ) ones only !?? Maybe yellow .. ( cognitive && developmental ) but I'm not sure .. The exact meaning of that stripe gets jumbled a lot so I'm never 100%. /nm

; 14. what’s a symptom you have that you feel is underrepresented ? - for me it's difficulty w temperature regulation && recognition !! I rarely see it talked about tbh, and if it is it's only ever brief lol .. I could talk forever about my struggles relating to them tho .. ( oh oh hyperfixating on neurodivergence bc you Need To Be Sure™ even though you're literally proving yourself right right there lol )

; 18. do you have any disabled headcanons !?? - I have HCs that are based off like heavily / implied to be canon things .. But also Partially Deaf Rise!Raph ( post-rottmnt movie mostly ) and Demi-Verbal Donnie .. !! ( no that's not me projecting onto Don what ) .. Oh and Luz && Hunter being beloved auDHD siblings, bc I don't think those are canon .. But idk maybe I'm js autistic but it's so obvious lol /lh

; these answers may be shitty but I' answered them the best I could at this current moment in time !! ( these were so fun to answer. I possess joy now .. Thank you !! /gen )

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