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i fucking hate dating nerds one single time i wore a star wars shirt to see a dude and he was like, “wow are u wearing that to impress me” and i said, “star wars episode 4 was seen by approximately 110 million people during its initial theatrical run in 1977”
i fucking hate dating nerds one single time i wore a star wars shirt to see a dude and he was like, “wow are u wearing that to impress me” and i said, “star wars episode 4 was seen by approximately 110 million people during its initial theatrical run in 1977”
“Dear Todd Nickerson,
Over at Salon a few days ago, you wrote an article provocatively entitled “I’m a pedophile, but not a monster.” Presumably, a lot of people are now asking questions such as “Is pedophilia natural?” or “Can pedophilia be cured?” But I’m not going to attempt to answer those particular questions. Rather, I’d like to further this discourse by filling in some major holes in your article.
Let’s start with this missing piece: the vast majority of pedophiles are men. And the majority of children victimized by those pedophiles who do choose to act on their sexual desires are girls. This is a rather major detail to withhold from your audience, wouldn’t you say? Unfortunately, as pervasive and overt as patriarchy is, it is usually the last detail mentioned in conversations of this nature — if it is mentioned at all.
That said, pedophilia may seem taboo and despised by the masses, but an honest appraisal of our culture at large reveals otherwise. I propose that pedophilia is actually rewarded and celebrated, and that our entire culture and understanding of sexuality is constructed around what seem to be pedophilic desires. I call this “pedophile culture.”
In pedophile culture, women are expected to maintain a near-impossible level of thinness, prepubescent in their almost-androgynous lack of curvature and body fat. Due to this pressure, eating disorders abound in young girls, and women in particular are targeted throughout their lives by a multi-billion dollar weight loss industry.
In pedophile culture, the top Pornhub category is “Teen.” “Barely legal” “girls” in schoolgirl outfits play out everything from “virgin manipulations,” daddy-daughter incest fantasies, teacher-student make believe… you name it, there’s porn for it, and it’s been whacked-off to millions and millions and millions of times. It’s fair to wonder whether the only thing keeping some of these viewers from watching straight-up child porn is age of consent laws.
Influenced by the porn industry, labiaplasty, a surgery that carves the labia minora down to porn-sized slivers, is rapidly gaining popularity. So are other procedures, like hymenoplasty, which restores virgin-like tightness to women’s vaginas.
In pedophile culture, women are outright pressured to regularly shave or wax their nether regions and underarms. The cosmetics industry — again, targeted at women — peddles “anti-aging” creams and lotions that will make our skin “baby soft!”
In pedophile culture, we casually refer to grown women as “girls.” We have a word specifically for attractive female teenagers: jailbait. Women are sexualized as chicks, kittens, and babes.
In pedophile culture, I often catch men in public checking me out with eyes full of lust, until they see the hair on my legs — at which point, they resort to a theatrical display of disgust. I’ve eavesdropped on groups of college-age guys talking about how they won’t perform oral sex on a woman if her labia are too prominent. One man who had been pursuing sex with me for three years, suddenly changed his mind when I revealed that I do not, and will not, shave off my pubic hair. In other words, many men stop being attracted to me when reminded that I am a woman, and not a young girl.
Surely all of these men, who have a “preference” for the aforementioned qualities in women, aren’t pedophiles by the strict definition of the word. But it seems that a high number of men, likely as a result of deep cultural conditioning, find many of the same things attractive in a woman that a pedophile would find attractive in a girlchild. Small labia, tight vaginas, intact hymens, baby-soft skin, hairless limbs and vulvas, eternal youthfulness, tiny frail bodies… As tumblr user reddressalert wrote, “how do we not recognize that this is essentially a description of a baby or a toddler?”
Back to my original point:
I need you, and your sympathetic readers, to understand this grave truth: pedophilia is not nearly as taboo, or shameful, or repulsive to society, as you claim it is. I wish it was. Much to the detriment of females the world over, your desires are reflected back to you infinitely, mass-produced on a global scale to meet an ever-growing demand. This male-supremacist world welcomes you with open arms, and your every wish is its command. I dare say you are safer to be yourself, than girls are.
You say “I’m a pedophile, but not a monster,” and I wholeheartedly agree with you. You’re not a monster — you’re a man. A rather common man. A microcosmic representation of patriarchy’s most prevalent perversions. You are not special, you are not anomalous, and you are not alone. Not even close. Your “sexual orientation” is just another manifestation of the collective desire of males to subjugate females in a crusade to uphold male supremacy at all costs.
So if being “understanding and supportive” of your pedophilia entails grooming males to eroticize childlike features in women, and teaching women to maintain eternal youth as not to aggravate male insecurities, then you are not asking for our support — you are asking for our submission. And just as you say “there is no ethical way we can fully actualize our sexual longings,” there is no ethical way to request cooperation from those of us actively trying to dismantle the patriarchal system that your “orientation” represents.”
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The funniest part about unlikeable geek men is they really are fully convinced people don’t like them because of their hobbies. They cannot even begin to process the idea that comics and D&D and shit have in fact always been kinda cool and their personslities might just be repulsive. The combined unwavering ego/persecution complex is... unreal.
On 3rd May 2020, a girl posted screenshots of chats of an Instagram group called "bois locker room". Soon those screenshots + other screenshots from the group from ig and snapchat started to go viral.
The members of the group were 14-18yo boys from schools in South Delhi. What did they do in the group? They posted photos of girls they knew from school, photos from their instagram feed and some of their nudes. They even photoshopped explicit images on their bodies. They talked about how they want to fuck those girls, how easily they can rape them, how tit size makes up for a bad dressing sense. They rated those girls according to their breast size, some even encouraged others to gang rape them. These are all school girls. Lemme say this again: these are rich, privileged, educated boys from the posh region of Delhi.
Not only this, when these screenshots were revealed, some of the boys in the group threatened the girls who posted the stories initially saying they will leak their nudes, they will fuck them, they will destroy their lives. Others posted public apologies owning up to their mistakes. Most of them changed their usernames and bios and deactivated their accounts.
Police reports have been filed for the offence of forgery, cyber crime, bullying etc and most of the accounts have been identified. Lawyers have been involved and delhi police chairperson shared the notice that has been issued to instagram regarding this. Some of the culprits have already been arrested.
The worst thing about this is that this does not come as a shock for girls. Every one of us has been sexualized in one way or another growing up. Its like one of those things that we knew was happening, only the discussion has started now. I have high hopes from my generation. I always believed that this is the generation that will bring about actual change in the society, through the medium of laws they will make when they are in the position and through expression of thought. I thought since the people in my generation were exposed to so much of whats wrong in the society, and why it's wrong, we will be the change.But things like this, coming from the educated lot, is just demotivating.
Growing up we have witnessed alot of misogyny. How girls were made to take workshops about how stay safe from predators and abusers, how to act in certain situations whereas the boys were never educated how to show basic respect, how to be good people. Boys were never to taught how to not do wrong or how to prevent it from happening to someone else, girls were taught how to save themselves. Even now I am seeing people, who don't even know those boys, protecting them saying "girls do the same" "the chats were not meant to go public" "they just talked about it, didn't commit it" and the good old "they are young, they will grow up and learn". Do these people really fail to understand that objectification is the first step? Even joking nay thinking about raping someone should fill you with shame.
Black men only know how to draw Black Women nude. Black Men can only draw us in a way that’s degrading and hypersexualized.
Why the hell did I argue with Black Twitter today about me wanting to get married before having kids? Like what nerves did I strike by saying I don’t want to be a single mama?
I’m telling you that if God is real, he don’t like women cuz this is the type of men he be leaving for us to date and marry.
Protip for men: if marriage is a horrifying concept for you and you think it is an evil trap, do not buy a ring and ask a woman to marry you
