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This just looks full on like gay men spreading hate, and lesbian women trying to keep their space comfortable & incusive. Can't relate to the original post at all. We have to stop confusing attraction of all kinds with only sexual attraction.

Being a lesbian can entail more than just liking female genitalia.

Please remember there are aromantic and/or asexual lesbians out there.

Still, we also have to make sure that lesbians, for which liking female genitalia is a big part of their sexual identity, don't feel excluded.

Not wanting to have sex with a woman who has biologically male genitalia is valid. Hating them for having it is not.

Feeling feminine while having male genitalia is also valid.

Though I do not fully agree with all post shown from r/actuallesbians at 100%.

There are lesbians who don't mind releationships with trans woman. There are some who do, and there are reasons that aren't anti-trans for that.

Thats also valid.

Dont spread hate.

words cannot express how much i hate that gay men get to keep their safe spaces and lesbians can't. popular gay man subreddit vs popular lesbian subreddit. they're allowed to make nasty misogynistic remarks about tifs but god forbid you criticize tims

r/askgaybros

r/actuallesbians

Many People Dont know what Asexuality And Aromantism really are, and how far streched the Aspec is.

Asexuality is a lack of sexual desire.

This user clearly doesn't understand that dressing sexily is not an invitation to anyone. This gives off so entiteled and disgusting vibes.

Please educate yourself about The large and diverse Aspectrum.

The Aro & Ace Community is very focused on different types of attraction and releationships that apply to non aspec people just as much, but haven't been talked about a lot becourse romantic and sexual attraction are mostly in focus.

(Sometimes i feel like Aspec people know way more about sexual attraction than Allos, and this knowledge really should be shared. For everyone who feels not to comfortable with their label, or is unsure how to react to post talking about trans folk in queer releationships, visiting the Aspec Community might be helpful.

Terfs shall fear us.)

Thats why interacting with the aspec community is helpful even for alloromantic/sexual people.

(Also: Asexuals hating/ enjoying/ not minding sexual intercourse with people they are not attracted to! Shock!)

(And soon you'll also discover that dressing sexual and being sex joke gods and godesses is actually a much discussed and generally accepted joke for the Asexuals. Just talk to us insted of assuming like this weird ass loser)

(Greysexuals, Demisexuals, Cupioromantic, Aromantic Allosexuals...)

When people say acephobia doesn’t happen in the queer community😒

'One of the most polluting people on the earth'

well im pretty sure she's responsible for less pollution than the male, white shareholders of the 100 companies responsible for most of earths pollution.

Im sure most 'information' about her being a 'self serving' feminist are are bullshit. When has Taylor Swift done something that self-serves only her? Does she slut shame other woman? Does she pay unfair wages based on gender?

Taylor Swift speaks about gender based problems in the music industry becouse that is her main expirience. She has critisized the medias & the publics view on her multiple times for having double standarts on women and men in the music industry and for celebraties in general. This is not a problem applying to only her, but to all women in the public eye.

Saying that she can't speak about her problems just becouse she is the biggest female star right now is ridiculous. Especally then, she should raise her voice.

Yes, Taylor Swift is a billionnaire.

And Yes, she should speak about Palastine and voice her opinion publically.

But I wont' stand by when people are attacking young women for liking something, and I wont stand aside when people are shifting the blame.

(Im not talking about those crazy, racist, obsessive (mostly american) 'Fans' who can't see reason and follow their celebraty like a sect leader. Those can die for all I care)

While Taylor Swift is not the perfect example of a feminist leader, she has done something.

She has positioned herself against the right wing assholes, and supported the equality act.

She purchases carbon credits, which is not a lot, but more than many of her collegues have done.

She has no racial or sexist slurs in her music, which many of the great male musicians of this time do. They get no shit for it, its even normalised. Fuck them for supporting patriarchy AND gaining benifit. These Fuckers are shameless, and we should be way angrier at them for treating abusive language like it can be thrown around easily.

Instead of hunting down and shouting the names of the men mostly responsible for climate change, and calling out large musicians for using sexist language, we are calling attention to Taylor Swift. Why?

Why argue with white terfy obsessive 'fans' who can't see reason and won't change their mind?

Why blame young girls for liking a big celebraty?

Im not saying that there aren't any reasons to critizise Taylor Swift. But there is a place and time for that. (And better arguments than those the media has preyed on, come on)

But that place shoudn't take up so much space in media, not when there are more important problems.

So please stop talking about Taylor Swift, she's not the problem.

Patriarchy is.

(Im also pretty sure the media is feeding us with that hateful shit so we stop thinking about important stuff.

Oh, another femicide? Mass extinction? Male white 'supremacy' is killing the planet for money & the worker class is massively exploited?

But look, Taylor Swift is on another trip, polluting the air with 1000% more than the average person!

(Good thing it keeps us from realising companies are using billions on billions of CO2 to keep production costs down.)

Swifties need to get a grip and understand their idol is one of the most polluting people on the planet, doesn't care for them, and is a self-serving white feminist at most. She's a billionnaire too. When 90% of the antiracist crowd made up from PoC says something, I listen. And as a queer person I just don't care, she's not doing anything for us either. She's also weirdly silent about Palestine, you know?

I just think it's crazy that we argue over who get's to claim which label, basically trying to categorize other peoples (mostly some strangers!) emotions & feelings and asking if they are reeeeaaaalllyyyy shure weather they belong into that specific box or not.

Like. Having not heterosexual feelings and/or not heteroromantoc feelings and/or not feeling cis. is Enough! to be queer and queer = valid. Every kind.

Strangers don't have to accept that for it to be true. Peoples feelings are more complicated and individual than labels.

If a man who calls himself gay has slept with women before, and woudn't mind doing it again, why are we fighting over maybe calling him pan or bi.

Like, we don't know what being gay means for him. Mostly Sexual & Romantic Attraction, maybe. But some people can in fact sleep with people they are not attracted to (sex positive / neutral asexuals ase best example. They can still enjoy sex.)

History has records of man presumed to be gay having children! -.- Not all of them have been bi or pan, some sure but not all.

Some people in Queer Platonic Releationships Sleep with each other.

Some friends do so to.

There are many reasons to have sex. Not all are Sexual attraction.

(Please remember, Sexual Attraction is not equal to one persons willingniss to participate in such actions)

(This also doesn't mean that anyone has to sleep with a person they don't want to sleep with. Ever.)

(Not every person may not mind sleeping with a person not of their prefered gender. (Sex negative asexuals, as example.

But please, internet, consider people being people who are full of history, emotions and values, and their reasons for doing what they do are diverse and most importantly NONE OF OUR BUISNESS, no matter how entiteled to their whole life's story we feel becourse they share the same rainbow flag in their bio.

So please, shut the fuck up, queer label police.

If anything in this post seems hurtful or confusing, please don't hesitate to ask/make me aware of it.

Hot Take on Fanfiction Today!

I myself love fanfiction! I fact, I mostly prefer them over canon works, and consume those daily. I have my OTP's, a favourite writer and a list of fandoms I regulairly visit.

One thing I always make sure if is that the characters i ship are fictional, for example; anime / book characters or the protagonist of a movie series.

Real life people are Actors, Musicians, Celebrities. I will never, ever read work about those.

Those are real life people. Unlike fictional characters, they have real emotions and can give / withdraw consent. Consent which we don't have when we post our works publicly.

I honestly don't care if they ever said something along the lines of 'I don't mind fanfics' or 'I favour those'. That is not real consent for posting a hardcore p*rn fic with their names on it for thousands of strangers to see.

And im so fucking sick of seeing works like those spread out all across the internet.

It may not 'hurt anyone', but it's a direct breach and attack on their privacy and human dignity.

I don't care about soft fluffy cuddel fics with self insert charas. Those are questionable, but acceptable. But Real People Fanfics? If you want to write those, just share them with your friends, and don't post them for all the world too see.

You're just dehumanizing the celebrity you claim to care for, and using them (or the idea of them) for nonconsensual p*rn.

Don't normalise that shit please. It's not ok.

(If there is a point I did not see, or a really good counter argument, please write me. Otherwise, stfu)

Fuuuuuck Im having AroAce Problems capital P

I tried to explain to an allosexual/romantic ally friend of mine that im having a astethic/sensual attraction crush on a mutual friend of ours, and eather they think of me as a weirdo now or just decided not to think about it to much.

Like, I explained (way too exited, btw) how much i liked the crushs body shape, and how pretty their jawline (so soft!!) was and i must have sounded posessed (how do allos do this?) just to use my fav. aroace crush metaphor (aka. 'the painting') later to explain that even though they are beautiful and i want to cuddle them to death, i am not sexually attracted to them.

Imagine a friend gushing about your other friends curves and body shape, and then being like 'naaaaw i don't wanna fuck them, i just think they're neat' like yeah shure totally.

After I realised what i had done, and how my explanation might have been percived by an alloally, i just died a little.

rip me