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men are a bunch of disgusting idiots.

me and my friend yesterday went out to party and we kept getting hit on by men. and the way they approached us and obviously couldn’t fucking take a really easy social cue is embarrassing.

seriously, women just want to go out and have fun. can y’all just stop importunating us? it’s not that hard. and if you seem to just have to do it at least learn how to take a no as an answer please, ‘cause it’s getting pretty boring demolishing your self esteem and putting you in your place.

and do we even wanna add how stupid and ignorant most of them are? like seriously bro, stop trying hitting on people and get a life. and maybe try to read a book or two.

Big yikes, didn’t even realize all that was happening but it is sad that it also doesn’t surprise me. Like it’s okay to go all crazy for a ship you love, because I’m obsessed with Madney, but it’s not okay to start:

1. Attacking the other ships and such because your ship isn’t happening. It’s not their fault so don’t blame them like it is.

2. Attacking people who don’t like your ship, because news flash we ALL have our OWN OPINIONS, and you should respect that.

3. Attacking an actress because your ship isn’t working out. Like, how low can you be to actually attack someone who is just doing her JOB. Come on people, dissociate the character and actor. She is just trying to get by like anyone else and make money to live. The actress is not the character on the show. And being toxic as hell won’t get your ship going either, don’t know why you think it will. Like you guys do know everyone can see your posts out there right? Ever think that maybe that’s why things aren’t happening for your ship?

Honestly, hating on an actress because she wants to work is childish, especially when the hatred stems from a place of her character getting in the way of your mlm ship. Keep it out of the tags and keep off her social media if she bothers you that much?

You control your fandom experience, nobody else.

Okay I originally just reblogged without saying anything, but now I feel like I have to come back and say something, because I just can’t believe how crazy one side of a fandom can actually be. Like, as a fandom I know we aren’t all going to like the same characters and stuff, but really people why does that have to come in-between being nice towards one another and their opinions. At the end of the day we all enjoy 9-1-1, or any other show you or I may watch, and why can’t that be enough? Why do people always have to go attacking someone? I genuinely don’t get it. If you have a problem with someone liking something else GET OVER IT. Just move on, don’t bother to sit there and play defense when no one is even playing offense.

And I’m not saying Eddie didn’t say he was ‘uncomfortable’ with people calling him his first name, as I myself have absolutely no clue as when I watch 9-1-1 my attention isn’t really with Eddie—of course I love Chris and everything, but Eddie just isn’t my favorite character on the show. But if Eddie really didn’t say that then how the hell did you even come to that conclusion. Was it assumed because Eddie prefers to be called Eddie?

I just find it so crazy that people will really sit wherever they are and start picking things apart and only seeing what they want to see, not what is actually happening and being written for the show. I don’t know if anyone watched Once Upon A Time when it aired, but this is exactly what this reminds me of. It reminds me of the Emma/Regina shippers as well as the Emma/Hook ones who were also so defensive at anything you either said about the ship or if you just didn’t like them. Like WHAT THE HELL?!? (Also spoilers ahead if you haven’t watched OUAT yet and plan to.)

1. Emma and Regina didn’t even like each other about the first half of the the series, s1-s3, so them ending up together wouldn’t really make sense.

2. They became friendly with one another because they had one thing in common, THEIR SON. They both wanted to be there for Henry and support him, that doesn’t automatically make them like each other and want to be together. It just so happened they were both his moms.

3. For the Emma and Hook fans that say their ship over took the Regina and Robin fans, check again. Have you seen the ratings from s1 to s6 of the show? Like Adam and Eddy, despite they themselves saying that that ship was #1, clearly didn’t see that drop in ratings. OUAT had about 12 million viewers at the start of the show and by S6, when it became all about Emma and Hook, had around 2 mil maybe. They completely ignored the huge outcry of Robin and Regina fans. But not only that, a lot of polls made Emma and Hook don’t even come into the top 3 favorite ships. It’s usually Robin/Regina, David/Snow, and Rumple/Belle.

4. At least you have a LIVING ship on the show, they killed mine off. And yes I am an Outlaw Queen fan (Robin and Regina), so for me saying what I said in 1. don’t even come at me. I was just stating a fact there.

A 👏🏼 F👏🏼A👏🏼C👏🏼T!!

I could honestly go on and on about OUAT, but my point is STOP ATTACKING PEOPLE FOR HAVING A DIFFERENT OPINION. And I’m not sorry if someone calls you out for saying something that is total bullshit, 🤷🏻‍♀️. If it isn’t in the show, or rather not there, then it isn’t there. Don’t make things up and pretend it’s true just because that’s what you want to see.

I also want to clarify I’m not trying to go after any one of these ships. Like I’m not hating on people who ship Buddie (I don’t even mind seeing Buck and Eddie together), or Swan Queen, or Captainswan. My point is I, keyword here, don’t like the ships personally. Like, the hell, go and ship those characters together! If you like them good for you, you have a ship you care about and everyone should have one. I’m not going to sit here and say you can’t have this ship. Damn, that would be so wrong of me to do. Am I mad sometimes that certain ships may get in the way of mine, yes. But, am I happy that you’re happy that you have a ship you like and want, yes.

eddie has expressed more than once that he is uncomfortable with people calling him edmundo, and he has said it directly to ana too, so why cant we say that it's annoying when ana does that?

You can say whatever you want but there’s a specific corner of this fandom that will rip apart everything Ana does because she’s not Buck. I just don’t think a woman calling her boyfriend by his full name in a serious conversation is as big a deal as it’s made out to be. Seems pretty normal to me 🤷🏻‍♀️