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Things I shoulda known
I really should’ve known I was non-binary because I didn’t understand the binary at all, like I do, but it just was like a sock that never fit. When I did discover the term it made me a bit sad, but I had this huge wave of relief and was happy that I could finally be myself. All gender bathrooms are the best, no questions asked. Now onto my sexuality...I really shoulda known I was ace..I mean dude, I literally couldn’t say the word “sex” for years. I have a list of alternatives...quite literally. It’s funny cause one of my friends knew before I did. Now onto my romanticism...I never understood romance..but I was fully convinced that I was a pan/panro...I was really wrong. I hadn’t had well, any crushes (faked ‘em to a T). I found out I was demiplatonic and realized I have squishes on occasion (literally my besties...I love them so SO much...I wanna hang and talk philosophy with both of ‘em), and that I might not be as introverted as I thought. Imma get real existential real quick, but I really am grateful that in the little time that I’ve had on this planet, that I will never experience falling in love or sexual attraction because I’ll have a whole ‘nother experience than somebody else. I’ll change in different ways. My experience may not be common, but I’m grateful that I get to have it.
EXACTLY! I see them both as aroace but they haven’t realized it yet, so they’re just like “oh is this what a crush feels like” but it’s not a crush they just want to be friends.
Can I be honest?
I don't see the chemistry between Willow and Hunter. I just don't see it. Sure they got cute moments, but there's nothing there. If anything I see them as really good friends.
The moments that they have together don't have any romantic chemistry when I watch them. Like I see the blushing and get confused. I want to feel the chemistry and the love between, but there's just none. It feels forced.
Dana did have the series cut short, which no doubt sucks. But if you don't have time to develop a believable relationship...don't do it.
It's not even that. They could have have a whole 'nother season to develop this relationship and I would still not believe it. It just doesn't have substance, sustenance, umph, etc. No spark of any kind.