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Jake Seresin started out biting his nails. When he was young, he had a lot of energy that he couldn’t expel, so he started fidgeting and eventually biting his nails.

His mama told him it was unseemly to do so, especially in public or during church. His nails would later thank his mama, she said.

So he started chewing gum.

Jake Seresins favourite gum flavour used to be cinnamon.

This time his daddy had something to say about his habit. Saying that real men wouldn’t put gum in their mouth. Or else they’d be a sissy. The people at church would think he’d be part of them queer filth hangin’ around.

(When he thinks about it later he realises that his dad never had a problem with the gum but with his son) ((when he thinks about it even later he realises that his dad was a piece of shit bigot and Jake had no way to change his mind. It wasn’t Jake’s failure))

Let’s just say that he doesn’t like the taste of cinnamon anymore.

Then during high school, Jake Seresin found the beauty of toothpicks. Chewing on them when he got nervous and learning new tricks to keep him busy.

An unintended side effect it gave him, is that people immediately see him as an asshole. As an uninterested jerk. And Jake uses that fully to his advantage.

He learns that it’s better to roll with his perceived persona than to share his real self and getting burned.

Another side effect that he fully uses to his advantage, is that it draws attention to his mouth. When he’s sweet-talking a pretty thing at the bar, he makes sure their eyes never wander from his mouth. He’d say it’s his best feature. It hasn’t failed him yet.

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Jake loves giving head. He lives for the salty taste in his mouth, the weight of a cock on his tongue. He could spend hours sucking his lovers off, no matter if they were hard or spent already.

Jake loves it when his lovers hold his head still and use him. Gripping his hair tight so he can't move and do nothing but feel the ridges of his lover's cock on the inside of his mouth, the head forcing itself past his throat.

Jake also loves it when he can pin his lovers to the couch or bed. Pushing them into bliss again and again, obsessed as he is with keeping his lovers cock in his mouth. Jake could go for hours.

Jake tried cockwarming one time. He immediately loved it. He loved sitting still and doing nothing but focus on the weight and taste. Focusing on the musky scent that was strongest down there. Nose deep in wiry hairs and jaw spread open wide.

There was no end goal. Just him, kneeling on the ground and floating away.

jake seresin has an oral fixation send tweet

What is or isn’t a slur can be highly contextual, y'all.

“Jonny Sims bummed a fag off my ma” doesn’t contain a slur, but “What are you, some kind of fag?” does.

“Queer studies”, “the queer community” and “I’m queer”? Not a slur. Some bigot calling you a “dirty queer”? Slur.

“Be gay, do crimes” and “He’s gay” ≠ slur, but “Ew, that’s so gay” = slur.

In conclusion, stop buying into this fucking “q slur” bullshit. Queer people talking about the queer community aren’t using it as a slur any more than a gay man calling himself gay is using that term as a slur.

So I’m going to be bitter and old here for a minute.

The absolute refusal to allow anyone to use queer as an umbrella is both novel and regressive (I know, I know). For decades, queer was an accepted and neutral way to concisely refer to a coalition of loosely connected communities and identities. Queer theory, queer film, queer spaces, queer history.

This use came after another few decades of committed work in reclaiming the word from oppressors who flat out stole it from us.

It took a lot of effort to wrestle it back out of their hands, and now I’m expected to just give it over to them because decades of unity and collective action and shared experience don’t matter because a handful of (usually white, almost exclusively american) kids on this godawful website have deicded it’s illegal for me to “force it on others” and that I should instead just let them for LGBT or gay or whatever else on me.

Like, fuck off?

Fuck off.

I am going to refer to my community in the way that I have been doing for an entire lifetime. Not just my specific identity, which is queer as fuck, but the whole fucking shebang.

And I will not hand the word back over to straight people with a nice little ribbon and a coat of polish and say “here, some kids decided it was cool if I let you stab them with this word so here you go” like

Fucking, why would I ever.

Frankly, and I know how people are going to react to this but, frankly?

I damned well will use queer to refer to my community as well as myself, and anyone who wants to take it away from me can take it over my COLD DEAD QUEER LITTLE FINGERS.

I will not sit by and let antsy, nervous kids who don’t know a damn thing about our history talk down to me about how “well, actually” when they can’t even recognize the fact that trans people were still being policed out of here literally three fucking years ago.

The presumption and the ignorance are staggering.

So yeah.

Queer as in fuck you people in particular.

And, to my followers who are made uncomfortable by this, well. I will regret losing you on some level, but not enough to stop.

I fully intend to use queer as the umbrella term it has been for my entire life. LGBT never did my intersex, pansexual ass any favours anyway.

My point is, I’m not going to be referring to the “LGBT” community at all, anymore. It’s going to be 100% queer here, in a more conscious and consistent way than it has been before. Because, you see, even people who do use queer as an identity unashamedly have gotten into this pattern of being apologetic or conditional about it, with a constant, overbearing tone that even when we do use queer as a community term with have to hedge it and gentle it because it’s so dangerous.

but it’s fuckign not.

We spent decades pulling the danger out of it.

And ‘m not going to let it sneak back in.

[ARTICLE] Moonbyul appeared on the Korea's Queer Feminine Magazine "펢"

The article is about ‘Girl Crush’

→ “Moonbyul said she likes to be praised that she’s handsome rather than pretty”

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*1 minute into the #q slur tag* wow i didn’t realize you could be that transphobic

Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.

I feel like I discovered ancient scripture of a battle fought long ago

Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.