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After four parts have been completely finished, I made a fifth part of this collection. Also, I've made five portraits of five different world leaders with this image maker.
President Alain Berset (Switzerland), Frank-Walter Steinmeier (Germany) & Prime Minister Narendra Modi (India)
Former President Gurbanguly Berdimuhamedow (Turkmenistan) & President Alexander Vučić (Serbia)
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Why gay marriages won't work in India
Recently supreme court gave its judgment about same sex marriage case declining the request to change the spacial marriage act to facilitate the same sex marriage.
Although I think judgment was unfair to struggle of all the people involved specially women and trans folks
I didn't include gays in that list because being a gay myself, I have noticed several trends in gays of India that makes them unsuitable for marriage.
First thing first there are broad general trends in homosexual men in India
1. Tops are looking for easy release without caring for bottoms pleasure. I have met several tops who says they are pure tops meaning they don't kiss, suck. I have met tops who don't even like touching asshole while wanting to do anal sex.
2. Most tops are married men or going to marry a girl or don't even comprehend the idea of marrying another man.
3. Most bottoms are poor, looking for sugar daddy or jobs/money.
4. Place of doing the deed is big problem for everyone. Even if someone has place, they don't want to do that at their place due mess created during sex or stigma attached to sex or due to society.
5. People says that they are looking for love but actually they are looking someone who can shower his love on them while they were free to fuck someone else/ recently described as situationship.
6. Obviously there is division based on economic status, caste and religion. Gays who are in higher echelon don't care about lower status people despite being in same boat.
7. Then there are several organisations who works for welfare of LGBT people. Although there are some good people and organisations, most of the organisation are full of English speaking woke people who can't comprehend the complexities of India society. Their donors are ultra elite people who just wants to feel good about themselves and brag to their western countries friends without actually making any changes in society of India.
These are personal experiences based on several people I have met. Obviously tops don't share their feelings being toxic males. Its mostly bottoms who are bearing the brunt of highly patriarchal toxic society. Although they are better then lesbians due to patriarchy.
So coming to the point of marriage, there are few points I would like to share, why it won't work for most gays in India
1. Internal homophobia- People who claim to be home sexual behave in the same manner as a toxic male would behave with women. Like anytime harrasment or any bottom.
2. While most tops wants bottoms to do the all the work that are assigned to women in traditional households but doesn't want to support financially, physically or mentally as normal men do to their wives. Tops wants a bottom to submit to their whims and fancies without taking care of their well being.
3. Poverty is big problem to have a place of their own. In traditional marriage women move to groom's parents home, but since most of LGBT aren't accepted by their families, moving in with parent's home is out of question. So where to go after marriage
A. Renting a place for same sex couple in homophobic country like India is nightmare.
B. Most young aren't rich enough to afford home of their own.
4. Everyone need social security. Society function because people are interdependent and help each other during hard times. But with gays there is no society, most people live secluded life, without interacting with other gays or being friends with each other. Either fuck or we don't know each other attitude of gays make them loneliest people.
In India caste, religion or geographical identities works because people support their common identities, even if they don't no each other personally.
For example if two same caste people met in government offices they will help each other but gays won't do the same. They will probably avoid each other due various reasons.
It is this attitude of Indian gays that makes them pathetic creatures on Earth. All of them want to have live like Western countries gays but they aren't ready for struggle that people of those countries have faced. People of western countries have faced brutal murders, conversion therepy, state repression but became victorious because they have each other. Now they are powerful because rich support the cause of poor. They support each other through various means. ( Shopping from gay shopkeeper, to selecting gays for jobs to providing support of mental, financial, social nature to people who are asking for help).
So there is no concept of social gay. Gay who are brand to cater to for business or government aren't exists in India. Marriage is a social institution. It can't work in alone. So if there is no society for gays, of gays marriage for same sex won't work as they do for heterosexuals.
Happy Birthday!
A Very Happy Birthday to Narendra Damodardas Modi :)