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That reminds me, my spouse and I grew up with emotionally immature adults, and didn’t have safe people to tell us, for example, that making a mistake usually isn’t a big deal. As you might imagine, we’re learning some things in adulthood.

Like from this scene in My Mister! It was so moving, but also taught us that we can reassure each other that xyz mistake or a request we make/reject isn’t a big deal (and it almost always isn’t), so there’s no need to beat ourselves up like we’re inclined to.

It’s a small thing, but this little thing we’ve done for each other is in turn a kindness to ourselves. My spouse and I deserve not to feel guilty for making innocent mistakes or deciding not to fulfill requests, and ultimately whatever mistake we make or request we turn down is not a big deal anyway.

This is your reminder, if you need it, that it’s not a big deal. 💕

day 1: Jian, My Mister.

Thanks. Thank you. You listened to everything going on in my pathetic life and yet, you took my side. So thank you. Thanks. I shouldn’t want for anything else in life now. I can’t… stand seeing you in pain because you pity me. And I… can’t stand the fact that you’re so pitiful. How could someone as young as you… feel so sorry for an adult like me? It breaks my heart too much for me to bear. If I can’t show you that I’m living a happy life… you’ll continue to be in pain because of me. And when I think of you, in pain because of me… I’ll be in so much pain, that I won’t be able to go on.

How could you be so reckless as to slap someone?

That girl didn’t come by?