Maybe I Shouldn't Be Giving Random Advice To Strangers On The Internet Whilst Having No Experience Myself - Tumblr Posts

"I just want someone to love me for who I am"

Then show who you are

This was my internal monologue about a second ago, because I realized that if I don't show my lovingly 'weird' side that I want people to love then i'd never know if they will. How do I expect people to 'get' me when I don't even show what they should be 'getting'. Sometimes when you do show it and people don't respond the way you want to, it can suck, but it can also mean making a friend / having a relationship with someone who loves you for who you are and with deep connections.

But what if I get my heart broken, is the climb even worth the fall?

I like to battle this thought with something very simple, amd maybe you would say you can't compare the two, I like the analogy.

If you're going to eat something you really love, will you stop eating it just because you know you will be dissapointed when it's gone?

You may try to stretch the moment and take as little bites as possible, but you know you will finish it.

It is about focussing on the present and enjoying what you have. When you eat something delicious, you don't continiously think about it being gone, but try to enjoy the flavour as much as possible.

Hell, make the climb worth the fall, while maintaining balance

And maybe just maybe, you won't even fall, it won't be all bad. The food analogy won't add up anymore because the you won't ever run out of it.

PS:

I know this is easier said than done, but I like to organize my thoughts and even with this weird analogy, I hope it helps someone and I hope I don't come of as pretentious because I have a lot to learn. Also I do get a bit unconfortable woth comparing a relationship to food but I hope that wasn't the messag ethat you got from it and more like living in the present blablabla. Still it matters, and so do you. Have a joyful day or night!