KINKS CAN ALSO BE WHOLESOME AND EYE OPENING ABOUT OUR UNIQUE HUMAN EXPERIENCE - Tumblr Posts

Maybe I'll expand on this on one of my days off, but having a weird kinks has driven me to do so much research on sexuality, arousal, and sexual fetishes. And like. The more you read the more you realize it's all fetishes! It's fetishes all the way down. The only difference between me and the guy who finds skinny blondes with big tits arousing is that a lot of fetishes are so normalized that we don't think of them as fetishes, we just assume they're natural. But they're not! what arouses us is not innately biological, it's dictated by culture and personal experience, and almost everyone has fetishes even if they aren't aware that they are fetishes.