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More vent art, this time featuring one of my personifications. Sometimes it makes your issues seem more beatable if you characterize them. Give it a shotđź–¤
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Ren x Chinchilla: How to Be Me
this Is a gift for @d3su-k4t
haven't drawn this character yet but now I did!
mae i know we don’t talk a lot (at all) but in my head we’re besties
SAME!! all we do is like each others post but i have a parasocial friendship with you. just fyi
No male gynecologists
No male therapists
No male morticians
No male babysitters
No male veterinarians
No male anesthesiologists
No male surgeons
No male doctors
No male roommates
No male women’s prison guards
No male Uber/lift drivers
"He will kill me" was typed 107 MILLION times!!!
In 2020, "How to hit a woman so no one knows" was googled 163 MILLION times. "He will kill me" was typed into google 107 MILLION times.
and you think we are safe? That men aren't harming us on purpose?
I spend a fair amount of time teaching women to kick men in the balls, and I’ve learned that this activity tends to generate controversy. Here, according to actual adults who have actually said these things to me, are some reasons you should not kick a guy in the balls:
1. It will make him angry.
I should hope so. I’m not sending him a friend request. If I kick him hard enough, there’s a good chance I’ll render him unable to act upon his anger. That’s my goal. His feelings are his problem.
2. It will make him hurt you worse.
Statistics say otherwise. And anyway, he’s already demonstrated his desire to hurt me. Why should I give him carte blanche to decide how much he’s going to hurt me? I’d rather be an active participant in that decision-making process.
3. Groin kicks aren’t really that devastating; I’ve seen lots of guys get hit in the balls and it hardly fazed them.
This response (almost universally from men) is so common I’ve come to think of it as “groinsplaining”—you can see it many of the YouTube comments in the videos linked above. These people rarely volunteer to demonstrate their own iron balls in a real kicking situation, but they confidently assert that men in general can shrug off all kinds of damage to the groin. All I can say is, I’ve seen two-year-olds take down grown men via the groin, and toddlers don’t even have any training. I do. I like my odds.
4. We shouldn’t be teaching people how to kick men in the balls; we should be teaching men not to do anything that would make us have to kick them in the balls.
Hey, that’s a great idea! Do you have a detailed, research-based plan for teaching all men everywhere to behave themselves all the time? And do you have funding for your efforts, and buy-in from politicians and community leaders, and a network of trained, experienced instructors who can effect this change? If not, better get started on your grant proposal. In the meantime, I’ll just be over here teaching people how to kick guys in the balls. That’s what I do.
5. Telling people they should kick an assailant in the balls is the same as telling victims who didn’t kick their assailant in the balls that they did something wrong.
No, it isn’t. It’s a practical way to reduce the number of future victims by giving them more viable options to disrupt and survive an assault.
Fact: We have the power to damage the bodies of men who try to hurt us. You’re saying we shouldn’t let people use that power. I’m offering people more choices; you’re trying to take them away.
6. Kicking a guy in the balls just makes the world a more violent place.
Maybe, in the short term. But if it stops him from killing someone, or putting them in the hospital, isn’t that a net win for non-violence? The Dalai Lama thinks so.
One in four women will have good reason to kick a guy in the balls at some point in her life. Luckily, it’s not rocket science. Anyone can do it! And ball-kicking’s efficacy is beyond dispute, as the men of MMA so nobly helped us illustrate here. Gentlemen, if any of you are reading this, and conscious: Cheers, and get well soon (the non-wife-beaters among you, anyway).
Male doctor caring more about her boyfriends’ pleasure who he never even met than her health as a woman? Shocker!! I am shocked!
Many people on the internet these days are comparing “spicy” booktok romance slop with porn and asking what’s the difference. Well i think the females that are obsessed with thinly veiled dramione fanfiction are annoying and weird and I probably don’t want to discuss reading with them. Males addicted to pornography should be shot in the head.
Men who are anti abortion will tell women to “close your legs” despite the fact that these men insist that it’s impossible for women to “keep their legs closed” and that all women want sex. If that were the case and women could not be “trusted” to not have sex, then why aren’t you encouraging men to stop having sex with women?
Bangs boy more like bangs boys
https://archiveofourown.org/works/43236201/chapters/111251494
chapter 3 of tmwsasfm!
taglist: @shellyseashell @dellaskye @ash-the-enby-nerd @ravs6709 @an-absolute-travesty @callas-pancake-tree @florida-preposterously @maxsrainbowsheets @arson-anarchy-death @theprocrastibake @camelspit
https://archiveofourown.org/works/43236201/chapters/111251494
chapter 3 of tmwsasfm!
taglist: @shellyseashell @dellaskye @ash-the-enby-nerd @ravs6709 @an-absolute-travesty @callas-pancake-tree @florida-preposterously @maxsrainbowsheets @arson-anarchy-death @theprocrastibake @camelspit
https://archiveofourown.org/works/43236201/chapters/111251494
chapter 3 of tmwsasfm!
taglist: @shellyseashell @dellaskye @ash-the-enby-nerd @ravs6709 @an-absolute-travesty @callas-pancake-tree @florida-preposterously @maxsrainbowsheets @arson-anarchy-death @theprocrastibake @camelspit
https://archiveofourown.org/works/43236201/chapters/111251494
chapter 3 of tmwsasfm!
taglist: @shellyseashell @dellaskye @ash-the-enby-nerd @ravs6709 @an-absolute-travesty @callas-pancake-tree @florida-preposterously @maxsrainbowsheets @arson-anarchy-death @theprocrastibake @camelspit
@kamweek2023 @when-wax-wings-melt @did-i-say-you-could-get-up
this is for day 4: cowboys! inspired by @arson-anarchy-death 's cowboy au ahaha
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@kamweek2023 @when-wax-wings-melt @did-i-say-you-could-get-up
this is for day 4: cowboys! inspired by @arson-anarchy-death 's cowboy au ahaha
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@kamweek2023 @when-wax-wings-melt @did-i-say-you-could-get-up
this is for day 4: cowboys! inspired by @arson-anarchy-death 's cowboy au ahaha
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@kamweek2023 @when-wax-wings-melt @did-i-say-you-could-get-up
this is for day 4: cowboys! inspired by @arson-anarchy-death 's cowboy au ahaha
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