He's One Of The Girls - Tumblr Posts

Saw someone say gojo is not for the oldest daughters and that's so extremely wrong. Gojo had the responsibility of the whole jujutsu world put on his shoulders since he was a little kid (similar to the responsibility of the whole family being put on the eldest daughter), he was put on a pedestal and had to take care of everything and live up to everyone's expectations. He literally died and came back to life to take care of the toji problem (definitely something the eldest daughter would do). The gifted child, the honoured one (which is a blessing and a curse). He went through so much trauma yet never let the impact of that show, he put on a smile and never let anyone in, he always was the strongest one afterall. He never had anyone to rely on most of his life, except the few years with geto and he too left him without a proper explanation, then he had to watch geto go down the wrong road but couldn't bring himself to kill him for a whole decade, but then with his own hands he did despite loving him the most, because it was his responsibility (similar to having to cut off their loved ones in the end because they realize no amount of time will change them). He never moved on from his first love but adopted kids, to take care of them and to teach them the right way (literally breaking generational curses and also living the 'no kids of my own' life). Even after his death, people only talk about his strength as a unit of measure, not him as a human, he is only seen and being remembered for what he was contributing rather than a human. And more importantly, he was so so deeply misunderstood and no one took the time to even try, except geto and that's why he was so attached to him because for the first time he was being loved for who he was, not for his strength, not for what he could do for the jujutsu world, but him as a human. "He isn't for the eldest daughter," he IS the eldest daughter, embodying every aspect of one.