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Official into of Max!
Name: Max/Maxwell
Pronouns: no pronouns preferred, but he/him is fine
Genders: transmasculine, boyflux
Sexualities: cupio-aroace, pansexual
Personality traits: flirty, kind, outgoing with friends, reserved/defensive with strangers, dark/stupid humor
Features: warm dark tan skin, black hair, red streak at front, black earrings, fluffy hair at front, red eyes
Other things to note: hypersexual, quick to anger, overprotective, likes making new friends, sometimes has golden retriever puppy vibes, grunge aesthetic clothes, typing quirk (u -> v)
I will have Max post soon ^^
yo, im Maxwell, but jvst call me Max, idk what to pvt here, bvt hey, this is my first post
ig ill list some random things
likes: dogs, mvsic, food, the color red, video games, dark hvmor, drawing, bloody stvff, comfy clothes, pvnching stvff ig? idk what else to add
dislikes: people that are rvde for no reason, the color green, anti-endos, svnlight /j, cant think of anything rn
vhhmmmmm, more random stvff im trans, pansexval, cvpioaroace, i vse no pronovns, and im pretty chill most of the time, jvst dont aggravate me
welp, this is me, feel free to say hi
Lying to keep your system safe.
I've lied to multiple agencies stating we have OSDD rather than DID.
Our local support agents, especially financial ones, tend to label DID as clinically insane and unsafe; we say we have DID and people often make up their minds based on inaccurate and outdated stereotypes. We don't waste our breath advocating for ourselves when we will only meet someone once or twice and opinion is already set in stone based on a three letter acronym.
Our psychologist encourages us to do so. He's written letters on my behalf with the same set of information/symptoms/reccomendations, but saying OSDD & PTSD rather than DID & PTSD. The slight seperation in social perception between 'this person has multiple personalities' and 'this person has periods of disassociation and these other symptoms' is often enough to prevent stigma filled responses.
Other situations where lying or changing details may be wise
If a stranger is being overly pushy regarding your system information especially if they are targeting vulnerable alters.
Online - often avoiding posting full alter counts or details that may trigger others (positive or negative) to front is wise, especially on public forums like Reddit and Tumblr
As many of you know, we use psyudeonums to avoid any links being drawn between our online presence and our private life. Singlets use psyudeonums, as can systems/individual alters.
Stating system origin and syscourse stances can, and unfortunately often, leads to harassment and unfair treatment from all sides of the conversation. Sometimes it's safer not to state it.
If someone is making you uncomfortable with questions; you are well within your right to block them. Minors especially, if your gut says no, listen.
You don't owe the world your system's information, and omitting the truth can be the safest way to keep that private. Hell, we can count on a hand how many people know we are a system in our personal life.- let alone anything more detailed.
In an ideal world, no system would have to do that.
We aren't in an ideal world.
So I leave you with this: sometimes it's okay to lie or omit the truth to keep your system safe. Especially in places where stigma runs rampant or you don't know who you're speaking with very well. Just, do me a solid and try not to lie to your psychs, 'kay?
Sending love and hugs,
System dad, Kyle 💜
Existing is so weird. Like, I was scrolling through the Mike TDI tag and now I have a bunch of stuff to look at. Makes me very happy
- Routine
No idea what we are, no idea if we have anything. And that's okay! We work a hell of a lot better now so we don't care to dig deeper into it.
Hey, endogenic plurals and other plurals who don't have DID/OSDD! I wanna see something.
If you are sick, tired, and annoyed at the amount of people accusing you of "wanting DID", "roleplaying as a DID system", "pretending to have DID", and forcibly assigning you as a "DID wannabe", REBLOG THIS POST.