But Pls I Have This Argument All The Time - Tumblr Posts

and i absolutely agree. i’m absolutely nowhere near petite, and while i do agree that social media is toxic with the unnatural and completely impossible societal standards of “small waist! big tits! fat ass!” is absolutely toxic and extremely damaging to ANYONE, including skinny, big, chubby, AND petite women, coming onto someone’s blog on tumblr to criticize how they write their characters is completely unfair. i think everyone is allowed to be insecure and have their boundaries, but you cannot push / portray your insecurities and boundaries onto others, that’s all i’m saying. everyone is beautiful. love your body the way it is, and if you want to change yourself, do it healthily. i love ALL sizes, and i will write for all sizes, but some people don’t. and that’s okay. no one is obligated to. that’s all <3

i just wanted to say, you don’t owe anyone anything writing wise. this is 100% your blog and if you wish to write size kink / smaller ocs, that’s FINE and i’m going to need the anons to stop acting as if stella does this for anyone but herself. she writes because she wants to, therefore no one else has a say on what kind of content she can or cannot put out. stella writing about height difference / size difference doesn’t mean she doesn’t support chubby oc’s, tall girls or anything of the sort. she’s comfortable writing what she writes, and none of you are in the position to tell her to write otherwise. if you don’t like reading stories with smaller ocs or if you just can’t get into it bc you’re not “small” (which is completely fine, all heights, weights and builds are 100% valid.), there are PLETHORAS of stories that involve chubby oc’s, larger oc’s, taller, more muscular built, etc. So instead of coming into someone else’s safe space where they write whats in their comfort zone, maybe look for something that you’re more comfortable viewing as the reader. Look for things that you can get into and that can get you drawn in. Let’s stop focusing on what writer’s do / don’t write, and start focusing on where we can find what we want to see. This was very long and drawn out but I just had to rant for a second STELLA IM SORRY SODHKWKW

thanks for this!! part of the reason why i just write the oc's i want to write is because there's literally no way i would be able to satisfy everyone. as they said, there are so many fics that are particular about their oc's and so many more that are as vague as possible. there's bound to be something that fits what u like if u don't like what i put into my stuff.