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Hey I probably shouldn't be asking you this but I don't have anyone better to ask and I have to ask someone so yeah um I think I might have romantic feelings for somebody but like how does one even know and what do I do and just I've never experienced anything remotely like this before and it just came out of nowhere and I think it might be good but it's also really really scary so help please

Hmn…… that’s a hard question…. I’m not really good at that kind of thing, but I can try ^^;

First, how do you know you have romantic feelings for someone…. like you think a lot about the person in a positive way, you are excited when you are around them, this butterfly in the stomach thing. You want to interact a lot with the person and get to know them better. And you find them attractive.

The second question is much more complex though… you need to keep on a lookout if they return your feelings. Please make sure they are comfortable. Don’t make a overhasty confession. Take your time and respect if they don’t feel the same way. Sometimes it doesn’t work out or they’re taken or not interested. And that’s okay! It isn’t a contest and not a race. 

And if they DO return your feelings, don’t rush anything. Take care of yourself so that you are comfortable and enjoy the relationship. Talk to each other and face problems together. If you’re annoyed of something, tell them. Don’t swallow it.

I hope that helps a bit ^^; And if you need more help, there are tons of good videos and sites about it. Don’t hesitate to inform yourself!