And This Happens In Different Forms To All Tge Trans People I Know Based On Their Looks And Pronouns - Tumblr Posts

It’s wild how much exorsexism still comes out in “supportive” places that apparently want to put you in girl-adjacent, boy-adjacent, or fag categories. You can tell someone you use he/she pronouns and everyone turns into a transvestigator to determine if you get he (boy), she (girl) or they (fag).

Demi Lovato used she/they and only got she/her. Elliot Page uses he/they, I never see people use they for them.

You’ll come out as nonbinary everyone screams and cries about how hard it is to use they, but when you “look like” a girl but use “he” then suddenly everyone is able to figure out how to they/them you. You tell people you go by “it” and suddenly everyone knows how to use they/them.

You tell someone you use any pronouns and if you’ve got a beard, everyone “spontaneously” decides that he/him is the right choice. What ever could have prompted it?

Are you a girl genderfluid, a boy genderfluid, or do I need to use pronouns as cover for a slur?