Amber Heard Is A Danger To Society - Tumblr Posts

3 years ago

friendly reminder that “mutual abuse” is literally considered a myth by a lot of experts in the area of IPV, DV, and abusive relationships in general. 

abuse is all about an imbalance of power and control. in an abusive relationship one person tends to have more control than the other and of the other. both can of course behave in unhealthy and toxic ways because of the abuse, but “mutual abuse” is literally being debunked by therapists that even goes as far as to say: “mutually abusive relationships don’t exist.”

instead what people often confuse as being “mutual abuse” is actually known as reactive abuse. when the abused partner has had enough and finally decides to fight back, not ‘cause they want power and control to persist, but because they want the power and control to stop. therefore it’s important to note who’s initiating the abuse (aka who’s in control) and who’s reacting (aka who’s being abused).

claims of “mutual abuse” is used to shift blame and manipulate the abused into believing that they’re an abuser themselves who’s equally - if not more - responsible for the abuse as the actual abuser, experts say, calling the term a “victim-blaming tactic.”

used to gaslight the victim, like for example claiming their reactive anger as aggressive behaviour. this is all a part of the abuse to gain that control and power over the other. using the victim’s possibly violent self-defence to manipulate others into believing that the roles are reversed and that the abuser is not the abuser but rather the abused.

my own personal experience echoes this; my abuser loved to remind me of how hurtful, irrational, and difficult i was being towards her (yes, her.. a woman). and while i did eventually behave in a toxic way towards her, this was me reacting to her abuse, when i had my meltdowns of having had enough. i’m not proud of how i behaved back then.. not proud of some of the things i said and did. it’s not who i am and what i stand for, but i recognise it for what it was: resistance of the control and power she tried to have over me.

abuse can push you so close to the edge that you feel it necessary to act in ways that aren’t in alignment with who you are.. just to survive another day.

if you’ve ever displayed reactive abuse towards your abuser, that does not make you an abuser too. self defence is not mutual abuse.


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3 years ago

All the credit to @trekkitkat for bringing up the shit I didn't know or completely forgot about, seriously they have like the best points 'cause y'all remember this?

All The Credit To @trekkitkat For Bringing Up The Shit I Didn't Know Or Completely Forgot About, Seriously

"Otherwise know me as threatening is life if he MISBEHAVES with the giant fucking dagger I gave him that's ingrained with "'Till death" after I asked to be in his will and on his insurance because that's not fucking weird AT ALL"


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3 years ago

Ambuser: “I just want Johnny to leave me alone and move on with his life so I can move on with mine 😣🥺😢😭”

Also Ambuser: publicly responds to a tiktok of Johnny thanking his supporters

Ambuser: I Just Want Johnny To Leave Me Alone And Move On With His Life So I Can Move On With Mine
Ambuser: I Just Want Johnny To Leave Me Alone And Move On With His Life So I Can Move On With Mine
Ambuser: I Just Want Johnny To Leave Me Alone And Move On With His Life So I Can Move On With Mine
Ambuser: I Just Want Johnny To Leave Me Alone And Move On With His Life So I Can Move On With Mine

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3 years ago

“This case and the societal response to it, the global bullying, mocking and hatred towards Amber is destroying VAWG, feminism & any progress we've made breaking down stigma of domestic/sexual abuse”

No 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 isn’t 👏🏼 bc 👏🏼 she’s 👏🏼 not 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 fucking 👏🏼 victim 👏🏼

How many times does it have to be emphasised that ppl aren’t mocking a dv/sa victim, they’re mocking a manipulative, deceitful abuser who committed perjury a million fucking times, was caught using fabricated evidence in a court of law and was found by an impartial jury of her peers to have LIED ABOUT BEING ABUSED TO RUIN AN INNOCENT MAN’S LIFE??? And the trial was televised bc the VICTIM wanted the truth to finally be made public and to give all the ppl who took his abuser’s disgusting lies at face value 6 yrs ago and have vilified him ever since the opportunity to actually witness her lying, gaslighting and manipulating in real time, not bc of some evil misogynistic agenda. But ofc a rad fem “doctor” who’s convinced bpd and hpd are fake disorders made up by the patriarchy to discredit women thinks that 🙄

"You know how many men are starting to sarcastically call their wives/girlfriends ‘Amber’ or ‘Miss Heard’ when they are upset or angry?

I keep getting messages and comments from women saying this is happening to them in arguments with spouse or exes.

The damage is done.

This case and the societal response to it, the global bullying, mocking and hatred towards Amber is destroying VAWG, feminism & any progress we’ve made breaking down stigma of domestic/sexual abuse - either that - or we had never made any progress at all & we were in an echo chamber.

Last week was the first time a woman commented to tell me that her ex has started calling her ‘Amber’ as an insult.

Then another woman commented that her husband threatened her and when she cried, he called her ‘Amber’

I’ve started seeing more and more comments.

This morning I woke up to a comment from a woman who said her ex was screaming at her in front of their daughter so she asked him to stop screaming and lower his voice and he said ‘Ok Miss Heard’ and DARVO her.

The fact that these comments appear to be from women from different countries, different ages, different backgrounds and yet men are starting to use ‘Amber’ and ‘Miss Heard’ as an insult is fucking terrifying.

I keep finding myself questioning what the real agenda was of televising this trial, and the media coverage of it.

What was the real purpose of tearing apart a woman like this for the whole world to watch on YouTube and Tiktok with their popcorn?

I think we are finding out."

— Dr. Jessica Taylor


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3 years ago

“Okay well Johnny said he wanted to kill Amber and do vulgar things to her dead body so he’s obviously an abu-“

“Objection, ignorance. Go research revenge fantasies in abuse victims and get back to me.”

"Okay well Johnny said this one thing back in 1998 and I just think-"

"Objection relevance"


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3 years ago

Ambuser: “After three and a half weeks I took the stand and saw a courtroom packed full of captain Jack Sparrow fans.”

Savannah: “Can you put into words how that felt?”

Ambuser: “It was the most humiliating and horrible thing I’ve ever been through. I’ve never felt more removed from my own humanity. I felt less than human.”

Says the dv “victim” who claims to have PTSD from being headbutted, punched, kicked, choked, sexually assaulted, cut with broken glass, r*ped with a whiskey bottle, dragged around by her hair, beaten into unconsciousness, had black eyes, a busted lip, a broken nose and ribs, and who’s life was seriously threatened on multiple occasions.


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3 years ago

Savannah: “You’re telling me you didn’t start any physical fights but you’re on tape saying you did.”

Ambuser: “Those clips aren’t evidence of what actually happened, they’re evidence of me trying to negotiate with my abuser.”

Except your marriage counselor testified you explicitly told her during your one-on-one sessions that you’d start fights as a point of pride and that you’d rather be in a physical altercation than have Johnny leave, you conniving, gaslighting scumbag.


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3 years ago

Anon: “how can you be so delusional?!?”

Also anon: proceeds to prove how delusional they are by stating lies such as “no one cared about Ambuser’s non existent proof” (as if the whole fucking world didn’t watch the trial and see literally everything she presented being ripped to shreds) and “Johnny was already found guilty” (he wasn’t found guilty of shit, he lost a civil case against a newspaper (NOT against Ambuser) bc it was a bench trial in which the trainwreck of a judge was openly and shamelessly biased, didn’t give a fuck about any of Johnny’s evidence and took whatever bullshit Ambuser said as gospel due to her assumed “good character” which was based on the LIE that she donated her divorce settlement to charity)

Mainstream Media Definition:

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Social media definition:

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The basic premise of your argument is faulty because mainstream media doesn't mean what you think it means.


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3 years ago

Amber full on admitting in an audio transcript (the "tell the world Johnny" one) that she made up the text mentioning the alleged "abuse", recounting it practically word for word. She even LAUGHS in duping delight, proud of what she thought was an "ingenious" plan.

Amber Full On Admitting In An Audio Transcript (the "tell The World Johnny" One) That She Made Up The
Amber Full On Admitting In An Audio Transcript (the "tell The World Johnny" One) That She Made Up The

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3 years ago

Bornrotten: “you heard him say his mother calling him one eye as a kid was ‘abuse’ and we know he called Amber way worse things than that, so by his own definition he abused her.”

😒😒 god, he makes me sick.

AH Stans will also never look at how much addiction was demonized through the trial, and unlike the BPD diagnosis JD's substance abuse was AH's team's biggest defense they had as to why he wasn't credible and had to be abusive.

Right?! They really wanted to use it as what the kids call a 'gotcha' when it was just so misinformed, so obviously crafted to demonize JD and create a false image of him. And it will forever piss me off that Rottenborn brought up JD being partially-sighted in closing, and brought up his past trauma as if it wasn't 'that bad', as if we should scoff at it. Laugh at it, even. There are so many things that piss me off to this day. If AH had been the one who was partially sighted and hypoglycaemic they would have 'yassss queen'ed their way through every little thing she did. But because it's Johnny he gets shit for it. People need to grow the fuck up. It pisses me off so damn much.


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3 years ago

It’s bad enough telling you to kys but to threaten your innocent fucking child is a whole new level of evil. So sorry you’re being subjected to that 💕

jesus christ there are still amber heard stans flooding my inbox telling me to kms and threatening my child. how fucking sad does your life have to be that you waste your time on a fucking monday night sending death threats to a stranger over the results of a trial that was over literally weeks ago

i fucking pity you, man. 


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3 years ago

A whopping 96% of psychologists in the US aren’t board certified, so by their asinine logic the overwhelming majority of ppl who practice psychology for a living are completely incompetent and non credible yet still have their license.

To those still harping on about Dr. Curry because she's not board certified, does that also mean that relationship and mental health counselors provided by hospital services, friends and family are all liars? They all have no right to an opinion? They're not allowed to see what's right in front of them, break things down, use common sense and offer advice to help someone? Wouldn't you take the word of a friend whose partner had cheated on them if they suspected yours was too? Wouldn't you take a friend's mental health advice just as easily as your therapist's? Come on.


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3 years ago
Johnny Depp and The Tragedy Of Male Abuse Victims
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If our culture is impervious to the idea of male abuse victims, then that culture needs to change.

"Female abusers are not “imperfect victims”. Evidence has revealed that Heard abused Depp, her former wife and her sister. When will we cease heralding serial abusers masquerading as abuse victims? This trial mustn’t be seen as the “downfall” for the #METOO. Instead it should now pave the way for the movement to open up to male victims. If our culture is impervious to the idea of male abuse victims, then that culture needs to change."


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3 years ago

I legit almost puked when Gayle King’s stupid ass said she has a lot of ppl backing her and doesn’t deserve to be “vilified” 🙄 but when the REAL victim was the one getting slaughtered online and losing movie roles based on unproven accusations the MSM was mute. Funny how that works.

No, I don’t feel bad about AH’s targeted harassment because Johnny has been targeted harassed for 6 years based on lies.

She’s getting what she deserves.


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