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Is That Person Actually Gaslighting You Or Are They Explaining Their Point Of View? People Love To Toss
is that person actually gaslighting you or are they explaining their point of view? people love to toss that word around, but don't actually know what it means, and that has caused traumatic experiences for me personally. it has resulted in me being wary of explaining my point of view in arguments lest I be accused of 'gaslighting' the person, because that's precisely what I had to experience from an ex 'friend'. I have been left in a state where even the beginning sentence of this post makes me worry that I'll get labeled a gaslighter again. and, honestly, the person's behavior was more 'gaslight-y' than my own, but since I don't know their intentions, I am reluctant to just slap that word onto it. Because I actually fucking know what that word means.
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