REBLOG FOR CAT

REBLOG FOR CAT

I always see the dog choking info on here, so here’s what to do if a kitty is choking

Save your kitties, we all know they eat everything anyway. 

http://www.wikihow.com/Save-a-Choking-Cat

http://www.wikihow.com/Perform-CPR-on-a-Cat

advice?

i might have NPD.. is there any way i can get diagnosed or at least some support for this?? a lot of the symptoms are relatable but im not a self diagnoser so im tryna get actual help.

i literally can’t add onto this, you’re both great for acknowledging how people treat Ford and what he’s gone through in the fandom

People in this fandom make me sick

"oh well technically Ford got what was coming to him lol. It's his fault because he was the one who ignored the warnings and summoned a demon-"

THAT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER

It doesn't matter how many warnings Ford ignore - I don't care about that. What matters is that Bill WAS ABUSING HIM. Just because Ford ignored some warnings it doesn't mean that he deserved to be HORRIFICALLY TORTURED and that he got "what was coming to him".

"Well he was an egotistical selfish jerk and was mean to Stan and Fiddleford so he doesn't deserve his family/friends-"

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?? You're saying that Ford..who is a victim of bullying, abuse, torture (both psychologically AND physically) and isolation.. doesn't deserve love because he.. wasn't a perfect victim?? Because being fucking abused affected him in a realistic manner?? PLEASE never speak to abuse victims ever in your entire life oml.

Also what do you mean "he doesn't deserve his friend and family" when literally an important part to his character development is the fact he came to greatly regret his past mistakes and try his hardest to make up for them. And that he has friends and family who love and forgive him??

Are you all so caught up in the past that you guys forgot that Gravity Falls has a good ending or something??

It's true and you should say it.

Like imagine unironically saying someone deserved their abuse and brought it on themselves??!?!?!

Yeah, like??? It literally DOESN'T MATTER that there was a vague cave painting that Ford ignored. He was horrifically abused and tortured by Bill. This fandom needs to stop victim blaming. When they put the blame on Ford, they are literally saying "why did you date him, you were warned he was bad news!"

And yeah, the "Ford doesn't deserve love because he didn't act perfectly" crowd is WILD and downright ableist and lacks compassion for abuse victims.

People will say they support autistic people until the autistic person shows autistic traits that can't be uWu-ified.

People will say they support abuse victim until the abuse victim acts in a realistic and messy way.

Yes, Ford fucked up. But Bill was actively manipulating, isolating, and abusing him. If you don't understand WHY THAT MATTERS, then you NEED to do more research on abuse.

And yeah, until you actually understand HOW ABUSE WORKS and STOP VICTIM BLAMING, then PLEASE NEVER TALK TO AN ABUSE VICTIM.

Yeah, like??? Ford haters/blamers have no media literacy.

AAA!! I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY “I CAN FIX HIM” ABOUT SHANE 😭😭😭 ur so real for saying this

I DONT LIKE SHANE BC I CAN FIX HIM. I LIKE SHANE BECAUSE DECIDING TO CARE FOR HIM, ROMANTICALLY OR NOT. GIVES HIM THE MOTIVATION NECESSARY TO TRY AND KICK HIS ADDICTION. IT SHOWS THAT WHEN YOU HAVE PEOPLE WHO LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU, IT MAKES YOU WANT TO BE A BETTER PERSON FOR THEM!!! FUCK.

me fr

𓏏𓏏 CLINGY LOW-EMPATHY

- term for people who are clingy and have low empathy , can be used by anyone

gotta wait until atleast 18 to get a diagnosis, apparently. I’ll wait… 🙏

advice?

i might have NPD.. is there any way i can get diagnosed or at least some support for this?? a lot of the symptoms are relatable but im not a self diagnoser so im tryna get actual help.