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Pantayam - To The Moon - Tumblr Blog
it has gotten better before. it will get better again. and again and again and again.
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TGCF Audio Drama S2 | Mini theater episode for Qixi Festival
TGCF Audio Drama S2 | Hua Cheng + Fashion Show
I think part of the reason I’m so obsessed with MXTX’s works is the way that each story seems to hold you gently as say “Your kindness mattered. It didn’t alleviate the suffering, it did not undo the pain. But your kindness mattered.”
Kindness could not erase Luo Binghe’s abuse, but it changed the story into a kinder one.
Kindness did not stop Wei Wuxian’s death, but it did save a-Yuan.
Kindness did not undo Xie Lian’s suffering, but it renewed his sincerity to help others.
Kindness did not change the entire world, but it helped create a softer future.
Its such a nice message, that maybe kindness will not protect you, maybe you don’t see the outcome of it, but you should still try to be kind, and I love that honestly.
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my in-game experience
Nobody ever talks about how selfless it is to choose, over and over again, to not commit suicide. Nobody ever acknowledges the tremendous sacrifice suicidal people make every time we choose not to kill ourselves. When a person who is suffering so horribly that death seems like their best option decides not to take their one way out, and to instead remain in hell, day after day, month after month, year after year, because they don’t want to hurt the people they love, they are doing something extraordinary. Not killing yourself when it’s all you want to do is the purest act of love I can imagine. Dying for someone is easy - you don’t have to deal with any of the consequences, you have your moment of nobility and then it’s all over. But living for someone, when the simple fact of consciousness is literal torture for you? Every single suicidal person who ever made a choice to not kill themselves in a moment of misery is a goddamn hero in my eyes. Wanting to die and still surviving is an act of titanic courage and self-sacrifice. We deserve more credit for it.
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⚠️ emergency links
this is a list of resources for when you're in crisis, whether you're suicidal, triggered, having a panic attack, or any other mental health emergency.
this list will be updated with new resources as i find them.
emergency numbers for your country
helplines for your country
Australia: lifeline 13 11 14 & other helplines
managing flashbacks
quick helpful tips for suicidal feelings
you feel like shit interactive self care guide (alternative site)
reassurance masterpost
Get Self Help
psychosis coping strategies
grounding techniques
dealing with trauma triggers & OCD
DBT options for solving problems
self-soothing ideas
how to check the (emotional) facts
TIPP grounding skill (temperature, intense exercise, paced breathing, progressive muscle relaxation)
ideas for soothing impulses (urge surfing)
tips for when it feels too much
why am i feeling bad? flowchart
looking after yourself (particularly tolerating distress)
staying safe in a crisis
crisis support (particularly for dissociation & dissociative identity disorder)
safety tools & resources
dealing with PTSD triggers
grounding & containment strategies
“Communicate. That’s the biggest and best first thing you can ever do. Whether it be with a teacher, sibling, friend, parent or even a counselor. Being able to communicate is the first step to your life getting better. It doesn’t have to be even talking; it can be a letter or email or text…let people know what’s going on in your life, your thoughts and emotions. People can and will help you, you just need to search them out. Oh and one last thing, never EVER let someone bring you down. You’re you, and you is always good enough. Never stray from who you are because you never know who will come along and want and love “you”.”
— - Marc M. (Brampton, ON, Canada)
And when someone you care about has a mental health crisis, please keep in mind that it's not About You™️. They are not doing it to you, or because of you, or because they don't value your love. And they can't stop it because it's upsetting you or triggering you. Because it's just NOT about you. Don't make it about you
i want to heal. it’s hard to do in toxic environments. people think healing is just therapy and working on urself but it’s not. if ur in a toxic environment you make progress and then you keep taking steps back, and it’s not as simple as just moving out. some people don’t have money, some people are disabled, some people are stuck in abusive toxic places. people think it’s easy to just heal but u don’t get it. it’s easy for u to say if u live in a healthy environment
Please stop telling yourself you are complaining and whining when you are only expressing how you feel on a physical, mental and emotional level.
Sometimes good things feel so real and so scary because we care a lot. We become afraid of failing or being undeserving or looking vulnerable because of how invested we actually are. But taking a chance to do something you want to, something you know is a good thing, even if we make mistakes… it’s worth it. You’re worthy. Making mistakes doesn’t mean you failed. Being seen making those mistakes doesn’t make you undeserving of your dreams and it doesn’t mean you’re weaker. You deserve to do this for you. It sucks that it’s scary to be seen trying something new, but it’s a good thing to care. Take that chance. You’re good enough for it.
The message has already been said Through patches of violet
Through Patches of Violet by Mili (2024)
