My Labels Are Contradictingggggg-

my labels are contradictingggggg-

Bisexual: Okay, cool.

Demiromantic: Alright, also making sense.

Greysexual: *messes everything up djfodjidk*

It just feels weird having two labels end in “-sexual” yk? Idk

Speaking as a gendervast termcollector? I can confirm that it feels weird to identify with labels that feel contradictory.

But if bisexual and greysexual feel right (even if it does feel weird that they both end in -sexual) by all means use em. But here's the thing: just because your ace-spec label makes it feel like it's contradicting your bisexual identity, does not mean they have to be contradicting. Because you, AND ONLY YOU, get to define who you are and how you experience attraction.

Long story short: if the shoe fits, wear it. (Or, I guess in this case: if the label fits, use it. Or something like that.)

Here’s a reminder to the greyromantics: your identity is real, you’re valid and you’re just as aro as every other Aromantic person. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Here’s a reminder to the Aegosexualflux individuals: your identity is real, you’re valid and you’re just as ace as every other asexual. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Here’s a reminder to the greysexuals: your identity is real, you’re valid and you’re just as ace as every other asexual. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Here’s a reminder to the demisexuals: your identity is real, you’re valid and you’re just as ace as every other asexual. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Here’s a reminder to the grey-aegosexuals: your identity is real, you’re valid and you’re just as ace as every other asexual. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.