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Im Using A Concept With My Therapist Called "emotional Vomit" Just Things You Say And Do When You Are

im using a concept with my therapist called "emotional vomit" just things you say and do when you are in a state that you don't want to have to deal with after you are finished - I have a password protected side blog for that shit so afterwards I don't have to do any clean up when I feel better cause if you emotionally vomit on other people you would get the same disgusted reaction as if you actually vomited on another person when there is a TOILET RIGHT THERE

Emotional vomit paired with reflection exercises and discussions is actually a very common technique used in therapy to help promote self-reflection, understanding and the ability to manage your emotions and actions better in the future.

Its also something you can do at home, or you can ask your therapist to do of your own accord. You don't even necessarily have to only write things down or record yourself when you're in a high-emotion state. You can do it as and when.

I know a lot of excuses reasons for people wanting things like vent channels in servers is because they may not necessarily have that easily accessible outlet in their daily life, or because they feel they need outside input and sympathy for their suffering, but recruiting online strangers to be your unpaid therapists and emotional dumpsters is just overall iffy at best.

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1 year ago

In fact, people need to remember that characters in gacha games are commodities no matter what gender. They are pixels. They don't care. Sexualisation of a male character is always encouraged among fandom. It's normal. Female sexualisation is a puritanical thing.

What a way to say you just didn't read the original post at all, my god.

"Sexualisation of male characters is always encouraged among fandom!"

My brother in christ they removed a pant zipper because women were sexualising a male character. Women in fandom spaces are still constantly and routinely shamed for the male characters they lust after or enjoy. Women in fandom spaces are still constantly told they're "only in fandom to thirst after the male characters." Men fantasising about female characters is normal but women fantasising about male characters is cringy and desperate and pathetic.

I know video game characters are pixels. That's not the point. The discussion is about real people and how sexism toward the real people (women) playing these games is still present.


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1 year ago

my disabilities chilled the fuck out when i got out of my toxic household I recommend a space of calm for everyone

People are genuinely acting like if there is one single space in the entire world where you are simply allowed to be at peace with other people then society as we know it will collapse and everyone who isn't a multi-millionaire will perish.


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1 year ago

Antis are so obsessed with children that it's frightening. They shouldn't be that obsessed. It gives some thought. Were the antis really paedophiles?

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