To Give Love But Not Feel It

To give love but not feel it

To be found someday

LOVE BOMBING 💣

I found some really great advice from someone I follow on Facebook named Ace Metaphor. I really wish I had this advice in my earlier years so I'm sending it out now for those who need it. He said that people fall in love so quickly that they forget some people take advantage of others. Some people will be everything you could ever hope for until they get what they want, then they change or they leave. This is called love bombing. Ace talked about setting a list of qualifications, disqualifications and certain preferences you want in a partner. He said once you've found someone who meets your list requirements then you wait 6 months before making any commitments. This is a good way to fish out the ones who don't have your best interest at heart. Here is my personal list not that I really need it anymore but just to use as an example. I hope this advice helps someone who needs it.

People say that "for every door that closes another one opens" but sometimes I pull them shut.

The flowers of men, the weeds of women.